


Lincoln went IN on this thread


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Avante's examples are ridiculous, tbh..naming ing NFL players and world class athletes as your example is a terrible argument, those guys are anomalies at that height/weight..the average 5-10 man at that weight is likely to suffer from obesity, or at the very least, possess a ty body with poor habits..
I also disagree with the "backup" sentiment..it's certainly possible, but from my experience, people that plan a breakup with a backup partner in mind are severely insecure and lack confidence..
As for OP, the best relationship advice, for future reference, is to never rely on a relationship for your entire social life and your overall happiness..there's always a chance it could end..you should have family/friends/hobbies/ambitious goals playing an equal part of your life, even while maintaining a relationship, tbh..