Is it better to marry or be a single guy forever and bang attractive young women?

[DUNCANownsKOBE]

I'm sure he has a Jewish accountant now tbh, learned the hard way

Seeing that he's a jeebo it's a shame he'd betray his Christian brothers and go with a Jew.

[Blake]

I wish they got away with it since it was Dane Cook.

[RsxPiimp]

Married for 4 yrs now, beautiful wife and kid. I thought I'd settle down, but lately I've been getting the itch to fornicate with other women.

My advice is don't get married at all. You can love, respect and enjoy the company of one woman for the rest of your life, but the pussy really gets old after year 3.

[jag]

Being single and laying pipe indiscriminately is fun until you're at the bar one day and you're the 42 year old trying to make casual conversation with a 22 year old chick who isnt having any of it. 6 months of that kind of rejection and you'll be spending your weekends hooked on beastiality porn and trying to get weed from the cashier at walmart.

It seems like we got some battered men in here who've allowed themselves to be defeated by the pussy (Reckoning). It happens to the best of them. Just hit the gym, dont act like a tool and go get someone hotter. Unless youre George Clooney, nothing good comes from being single in your 40's. After you bang enough chicks, you'll realize they're all the same after you bust that nut. Might as well find something steady. Then you'll have someone to hang out with...and someone to bone..and you won't have to worry about getting the herp. Then one day you can have a kid and do cool with him. Unless you're cursed with a daughter.

Of course if you have genetics like FkLA, then ignore everything I said, stay single and always use protection.

[HarlemHeat37]

Being single and laying pipe indiscriminately is fun until you're at the bar one day and you're the 42 year old trying to make casual conversation with a 22 year old chick who isnt having any of it. 6 months of that kind of rejection and you'll be spending your weekends hooked on beastiality porn and trying to get weed from the cashier at walmart.

It seems like we got some battered men in here who've allowed themselves to be defeated by the pussy (Reckoning). It happens to the best of them. Just hit the gym, dont act like a tool and go get someone hotter. Unless youre George Clooney, nothing good comes from being single in your 40's. After you bang enough chicks, you'll realize they're all the same after you bust that nut. Might as well find something steady. Then you'll have someone to hang out with...and someone to bone..and you won't have to worry about getting the herp. Then one day you can have a kid and do cool with him. Unless you're cursed with a daughter.

Of course if you have genetics like FkLA, then ignore everything I said, stay single and always use protection.

Can't believe I forgot this, probably the best point, tbh..

Smashing the same clean pussy is worry-free..boring pussy >> diseased pussy..


Heard too many horror stories, tbh..too many birds out there..a few months ago, my girl's friend's roommate was telling us how she has HPV(which isn't that bad and difficult for men to catch, but still wart potential), but still casually s around and never tells the guy..

[leemajors]

Being single and laying pipe indiscriminately is fun until you're at the bar one day and you're the 42 year old trying to make casual conversation with a 22 year old chick who isnt having any of it. 6 months of that kind of rejection and you'll be spending your weekends hooked on beastiality porn and trying to get weed from the cashier at walmart.

It seems like we got some battered men in here who've allowed themselves to be defeated by the pussy (Reckoning). It happens to the best of them. Just hit the gym, dont act like a tool and go get someone hotter. Unless youre George Clooney, nothing good comes from being single in your 40's. After you bang enough chicks, you'll realize they're all the same after you bust that nut. Might as well find something steady. Then you'll have someone to hang out with...and someone to bone..and you won't have to worry about getting the herp. Then one day you can have a kid and do cool with him. Unless you're cursed with a daughter.

Of course if you have genetics like FkLA, then ignore everything I said, stay single and always use protection.

Or that drug resistant gonorrhea that keeps spreading.

[jag]

I wish Pego would chime in with some advice based on the unfortunate cir stances he's faced since high school.

[resistanze]

Of course not all relatives...but I know parents who have stolen from their children but as for my parents? One has moved on to the other side and the other is living off her retirement. I plan for her expenses and she has my sisters assisting in that matter.

Relatives are the most dangerous imo...the problem is many people (especially the older generation) have the 'family first' complex which s them over when their family are rat bas . Every criminal and low-life has family tbh

I witnessed my mom's type of the family hustle and commit fraud @ our expense before they finally got cut off...

[FkLA]

Of course if you have genetics like FkLA, then ignore everything I said, stay single and always use protection.

FkLA Jr. is going D1, guaranteed !

Great post otherwise tbh.

[Sybok]

Rarely does an individual male have that choice. They either pull tons of pussy or they pair up with another mediocre "not really the dating type" person and spawn, pay taxes and . The pussy pullers don't stop pulling pussy when they marry, and they often marry because they knocked up their secretary or the daughter of a powerful man. Pussy pullers are quite often affluent as well, so money has that old behavioral modification property that religious morality never seemed to get right. Threaten to cut Chris out of the will and Chris marries the pregnant he ed and pretends to have a family life until gramps kicks.

[jag]

FkLA Jr. is going D1, guaranteed !

Great post otherwise tbh.

You need to get that little into golf when he's like 3. Easiest path to D1, tbh.

[DUNCANownsKOBE]

You need to get that little into golf when he's like 3. Easiest path to D1, tbh.

Idk about that. le 9 makes it pretty hard for men to get scholarships in sports like golf.

[jag]

Idk about that. le 9 makes it pretty hard for men to get scholarships in sports like golf.

True. You just have to go to a school with no soccer or baseball.

[Blake]

I think lol utsa has golf scholarships, but it won't be d1 for long.

[DUNCANownsKOBE]

True. You just have to go to a school with no soccer or baseball.

Pretty much. I can't speak for other regions, but Pac-12 schools are loaded with golf talent because most of the students grew up playing golf year round in places like CA and AZ.

[FkLA]

I think he'll be a LB maybe a Safety. No golf tbh.

[xmas1997]

Maybe it matters to you and maybe it doesn't, but my advice is to hold out for "the one" you can't live without.
Never "settle" for less than that, no matter how long it takes. And definitely don't let anyone pressure you to do it differently.
Ultimately you will be a lot happier in the long run.
Take that for what it's worth.

[HI-FI]

k so when ur in your late 30's/40's and ur not exactly what single chicks are going after, wtf are u gna do the rest of your life? live alone? how often to single guys in their 50's bang? and if at that point you want to settle down with a woman ur just gna end up with leftovers/sloppy seconds, es that couldn't find a dude to commit, and probably for good reason

well scro there are still chicks in their 20s available as you get older, but their nose candy habits tend to get worse. but i agree with your point, and it's a complicated issue. your Armenian friend brings up a good topic, something I think about a lot. personally, all my friends are married and I've avoided the peer pressure. I'm just too focused on career stuff, personal life etc....

Ironically I would like to have some kids, I'm not anti-marriage nor do I want to be that creepy guy in his 40s. But I refuse to do the marriage thing until it's something I believe in, right now it's too foggy to me.

I recall someone saying, perhaps on here, that the best es are taken like in the draft, earlier the better. Of course using that analogy, a lot of es can turn out to be busts and I'm all about the diamonds in the rough/draft. , if I find an undrafted chick who chokes on my like Romo does in the playoffs, that's not a bad find. They can't all be elite.

Tbh, I'm not even sure what point I'm making, other than pussy is a complicated topic. People have baggage, pussy flaps have mileage. I'm like a wannabe Clooney without his looks or money, so I shouldn't be giving out advice. I guess people should just be true to themselves.

[spurraider21]

Meh. At some point the ing just gets boring and u'll just be alone imo (not you specifically, just in a general sense)

[DeadlyDynasty]

i agree with the limiting yourself to one pussy thing but not seeing how getting married would put your dreams in the back-burner. you're marrying the wrong if she's making you do that or if you're talking about kids forcing you to do that the is supposed to care for them. you still go out and do your thing to bring the bread home imo. ideally you don't have kids early on though.

for the pussy thing, if you've found the right girl but feel you are too young to limit yourself to just one...why not cheat w/o getting caught? selfish i know but i've done it and think it's absolutely possible to cheat on someone and still love them. it's a necessary evil tbh.

I was engaged 5 years ago and came close again a couple years after that, so I've got nothing against relationships. I just think marriage itself is an antiquated thing like going to church or renting movies...there's also no benefit for the guy in a marriage. You're just peeing on a tree.

As far as dream-killers, in my case they would be since I'll be doing a lot of traveling/working abroad the next few years, and long-distance relationships never work out. NEVER. Doesn't mean I won't have a gf here and there the next couple of years--I probably will...but it likely won't last

[xmas1997]

I was engaged 5 years ago and came close again a couple years after that, so I've got nothing against relationships. I just think marriage itself is an antiquated thing like going to church or renting movies...there's also no benefit for the guy in a marriage. You're just peeing on a tree.

As far as dream-killers, in my case they would be since I'll be doing a lot of traveling/working abroad the next few years, and long-distance relationships never work out. NEVER. Doesn't mean I won't have a gf here and there the next couple of years--I probably will...but it likely won't last

Then continue to enjoy your freedom.
Women come and they go, and there are lots of fish in the sea.
The key is to become happy with being by yourself with yourself.
Then you will attract even more women because you are independent and secure with who you are and where you are going.
And the bonus is you will eventually attract a woman like that too rather than one carrying lots of baggage and who clings to you.
You will know the difference.

[Thebesteva]

I've been on/off with my girl for 7 years now, we got back together in September after being done for 2 years, but we live together now and it seems permanent, tbh..so, based on my experience:

+ it's corny, but it is pretty nice to have somebody that always cares for you, etc..it's cool to have a girl that has similar interests and all that

+ somebody to trust with your money or in case you need help

+ you don't have to constantly try hard/try to impress them

+ my girl is a much better cook than me

+ she cleans , I'm not a cleaner

+ sexually, it's much easier to with your fetishes with a girlfriend IMO(unless you're a sexual predator that doesn't give a )

+ somebody to help me take care of the dog


- The nagging and dealing with y moods..by far the worst part, obviously..I've never cheated on a girl, but after living with somebody and dealing with their bad moods, I now understand why so many guys cheat, tbh..

- Doing you don't want to do..this isn't a big deal since my girl isn't the type of girl to force me into , but I spend a lot of money and effort on special occasions, which is a nuisance

- Only 1 vagina..I'm pretty happy with the amount of pussy I've played with in my prime, so this isn't a huge deal, but obviously there are the moments where you're talking to a girl and realize you won't be ing her

The cons are pretty bad, but if the girl is cool enough that you're wiling to enter the long-term commitment, the pros outweigh it IMO..

The problem will be having kids, obviously..that could change everything for me(I ing hate kids), but fortunately, we don't plan on having kids until our early 30s(6-7 years away for me, 8-9 for her)..

Holy , you're only 23-24? Young buck.

[Mugen]

Don't get married before 30.

[HarlemHeat37]

Holy , you're only 23-24? Young buck.

Just turned 25 a few months ago, tbh..

[GoodOdor]

Just turned 25 a few months ago, tbh..

Why is time just flying by? I swear I remember my 25th birthday like it was a month ago....now I'll be 27 in 6 months...

It's all good though, as long as you don't get stuck with comparing yourself to other people - as long as I'm doing better than I was a year ago, it's all good.