I don't know if you mean it to sound the way I'm taking it, but I don't to have to convince ( force) a guy that he wants to date me.
All I can do is be me. He is either going to love me or he isn't.
lolI don't know if you mean it to sound the way I'm taking it, but I don't to have to convince ( force) a guy that he wants to date me.
All I can do is be me. He is either going to love me or he isn't.
no angel darling,
this is AFTER the first date.
This is in reference to doing the nasty.
I believe Manny was refferring to the fact that having to initiate sexual activity EVERY SINGLE GODDAMN TIME gets a bit old.
she could be too desperate or the guy can be a slow re .
I like my women to speak only when spoken to
My understanding is that Jekka was very aggressive towards 3rdcoast recently.
Ouch! So Manny, who is harassing you?
So being aggressive is harrassing?
Remind me to harrass you later.
Well unless it's Jekka, then I'd bet she thinks it's harassing!So being aggressive is harrassing?
Remind me to harrass you later.
Actually, I was referring to anything in general.
I can talk to a woman all night, but when it comes to getting a phone number or anything like that, I just freeze up. I know I have been out of the dating game for a while, but my confidence level is very low when it coems to sealing the deal.
I guess it will get better with more practice.
This thread was no in iated in regards to my relationship, it was done to prove a point to someone. I thinkthe point has been proven. Jekka does fine.
By the way, anybody like apples?
Jekka doesn't strike me as the aggressive type..
Not Adam's.
Effin' Apples.
The point was not made though. The point you were SUPPOSED to make was all about making the first move in a new relationship. The point you DID make in this thread was for an already established relationship and the reference was to sex. Therefore, YOU LOSE MANNY.
Yes, and Good Will Hunting is one of my all-time favorite movies.
Sexually Aggressive Women
By Vanessa Burton
Women's Sexuality Correspondent - Every 2nd Tuesday
Men are used to being the ones who initiate everything in the male/female world -- from making first contact, to dating, to sex, and yes, even proposing marriage. Guys are the ones who have to do all the hard work while women sit around and wait for wonderful things to happen.
It must be difficult being the one who must always do the pursuing rather than being the one chased by an admirer. But what if tables were turned? Do you think that you'd be thrilled if your woman were always doing the chasing -- when it came to sex?
Now before you jump into an enthusiastic chant of " yeahs," keep in mind the famous maxim: "careful what you wish for, you might just get it." Would you know how to keep a sexually demanding woman happy?
why is she aggressive?
The female orgasm is no longer a shot in the dark -- a sort of hit or miss if you will -- now most women expect to orgasm virtually every time they make love. And if you can't get it right, then they'll teach you how to get it right by taking over the situation.
And look around you; virtually every television commercial, movie, music video, and billboard ad displays sexually aggressive, um, I mean, assertive women. Women are quickly picking up on the fact that being sexually aggressive does not necessarily make them tramps (many are serial monogamists).
Unfortunately, lots of women will not let on about their sexual aggressiveness until later in the relationship (likely, when it becomes sexual), for fear that their partner might think that they're tramps.
But if your woman was raised in an environment where sexuality was not shunned or treated with disdain, then she'll be very comfortable with her own sexuality and, ultimately, sex. All this results in a woman who may very well have you limping out of the bedroom once she's through with you.
she wants it all
The wonderful thing about a sexually aggressive woman is that she's completely in tune with what she enjoys when it comes to lovemaking. She has no qualms about letting her lover know what makes her tick.
As well, she'll always be up for a sexual escapade with you, and she'll likely be bold in and out of the bedroom. You can rest assured that she's not shy or uncomfortable about discussing fantasies and naughty little ideas.
The best part of having an aggressive lover is that you won't always have to be the one who initiates foreplay; she won't hesitate to take off your clothes and sit on top of you, swaying back and forth while holding up your head so that you can suck on her nipples.
This is the kind of woman who could make love to you with slow-motioned sensuality or enjoy some sexual frolic made up of animalistic intuition, which can result in some permanent scars on your back.
And I'm sure that the fact that she goes in search of her own orgasms would take away some of the pressures that most guys feel when it comes to having sex. Now you don't have to worry about making her climax because she'll ensure that the both of you do.
Is there a down side to women like this?
the drawbacks
Although most guys swear that they would do virtually anything to land a woman who would tell it like it is and treat them like sexual prey on a nightly basis, reality dictates otherwise for some.
To start, some guys I talked to, who had the advantage of dating such women, discussed their fears. Jim revealed, "I became irrationally jealous. I always envisioned her treating other men this way and would become enraged, which ultimately led to petty fights."
Harold admitted that, "I was afraid that if there was one night that I simply was too tired or just not in the mood, she would lose all interest in me and go find herself a virtual racehorse that was young, dumb and full of [expletive deleted]."
As well, most guys I spoke to admitted that they sometimes stopped desiring sex so much simply because they knew it was so readily available to them. Because there was no challenge involved in getting the pie, they sort of lost their appe es.
But fear not; the good definitely outweighed the bad and although there were some complaints, most guys wouldn't trade in their mates for anything in this world. They simply learned a few tricks of the trade and made the best of their situation.
how can you keep up?
If you happen to be one of the lucky guys who has the pleasure of making love to a woman of this genre, here are a few ways to ensure that she'll be satisfied for good:
Keep her coming
Stay mysterious and always ensure that she desires you. Just as men get turned on by the thrill of the chase, so too do women. Don't always give in, and when you do, bring her to immeasurable heights.
Order her around
Obviously, no one likes to have a drill sergeant barking orders at them in the sack, but talking to her while making love, as well as telling her what you want her to do will likely excite her more than usual.
Take control
Because she's used to having complete control in bed, imagine how enlightening it would be if you took absolute power and dominated the scenario, and had her at your sexual mercy (willingly of course).
Initiate sex
Before she gets the chance to make any moves on you, start the foreplay by approaching her from behind and grabbing hold of her breasts while sucking on the back of her neck. Your spontaneity will turn her on immensely.
well-kept secrets
Okay, so maybe you're not surrounded by aggressive women who enjoy making love wherever, whenever at the moment. But keep in mind that sometimes it takes a little time for a woman to open up in that department, as most women are still afraid of being looked upon as trashy or promiscuous.
And if you want to make your woman more aggressive when it comes to lovemaking, talk to her
^^^^^^
Effin' Apples.
The point was not made though. The point you were SUPPOSED to make was all about making the first move in a new relationship. The point you DID make in this thread was for an already established relationship and the reference was to sex. Therefore, YOU LOSE MANNY.
Well, if it means anything as far as new relationships go....someone asked an extremely open, general question and someone else took the bait and made the first specific move.
It's the oldest trick, women act coy and shy and men pursue. Of course, it helps if they're hot
Like men ever initiate anything that a woman hasn't already green-lighted in her mind, anyway.
Like men ever initiate anything that a woman hasn't already green-lighted in her mind, anyway.
Actually, women are easily duped (sp?). All a dude has to do is act like an asshole and women can't resist. Women always want the bad boy.
I wouldn't wait for Rasho to make the first move, have you ever seen him play?
^not necessarily true.
they want a confident man.
sometimes those are 'bad boys' with tats, other times, not.
but a bad boy is still a boy.
women want a man.
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