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Awesome!I used to hate my ex-husband, but now I really don't care. He gave me 2 awesome kids that I can now share with someone who's actually good enough for them.
The number of people I hate is greater than the number of people I care about.
Awesome!I used to hate my ex-husband, but now I really don't care. He gave me 2 awesome kids that I can now share with someone who's actually good enough for them.
Keep you friends close and your enemies even closer.
In-laws.
They all ing suck so bad I don't even speak to them beyond " o" and "how about that weather."
My siblings' tastes in mates was so bad I can't even begin to describe it. They are willfully evil and on any definition of family I can think of. Makes me want to hit something or someone.
Hard.
I hate a few people, but one of them is old so must either
a)Get revenge soon
b)Go after the desendents
I find it's easier to hurt someone by messing with their descendants. And that's trainwrecks advise for the day.
Not killing mind you because that is the coward's way out.
Just joking people....or am I.
De de de duh. (cue dog with the shifty eyes)
I hate the Ogre.
Well he's not in my life right now...but an exboyfriend. He was/is an abuser. He's probably the ONLY person I can say that I HATE and wish bad things upon!
There are others that I just dislike.
i hate stupid people... so i guess i hate myself too
Eh... I'd rather we be in opposite sides of the earth.
I'm glad you could get away from that.
I hate noone. Not even my exes who hurt me pretty bad. I don't think I can talk to one anytime soon but I hope they find what they're looking for. I hate on myself sometimes for the things I put me and my heart thru. That's all on me.
Very true.
I loathe you cherry LOATHE
I hate Derek Fisher for 0.4*.
i hate derek jeter for being a ing yankee...i hate all yankees for that matter along with that old guy that does boxing commentating for hbo boxing....i hate that guy, and i hate ben stein for talking so damn slow about dry red eye's, and i hate howard stern for being lucky enough to share his radio shows with porn stars who fornicate on live radio while he watches, i hate kid crad in the morning cause that show is just stupid and sucks ass, i hate that prince guy who is gets to bang shakira whenever he wants to and no one can compete with that, i mean the dude is a prince....she will be a princess....how do i steal her away from that.....i hate condoms they suck, why cant we just press a mental button in our mind that controls the potent sperm with the less potent sperm so that we can have sex with not worrying about getting someone pregnant, i hate eve for tempting adam to get her the damn apple and taking away one of our extra ribs.......i hate a lot more but i fear i could write a book about all the i hate
I don't hate anyone right now (although George Bush is getting REAAALLLY close). I have only ever hated three people in my life. Two were people I worked (one man, one woman) for and one was a woman my brother lived with for awhile. I got over all those eventually.
To get over hating, you have to forgive. And you forgive for YOURSELF, not for the people you hate. Carrying hate around in your heart will make you sick. It takes conscious work, but it can be done. Of course, time and distance help a lot, too; but, it's really hard if it's someone you have to see on a daily basis.
That is one of my primary mottoes in life. We don't always get to know what the reason IS, but, after 53 1/2 years of life, I have come to belive EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
Last edited by pache100; 02-06-2006 at 01:39 PM.
Actually George Bush has to be one of the people i admire the most......and as i do not completely agree with your comment pache.....i will fight till the death to defend your right to say it
[QUOTE=pache100]To get over hating, you have to forgive. And you forgive for YOURSELF, not for the people you hate. Carrying hate around in your heart will make you sick. It takes conscious work, but it can be done. Of course, time and distance help a lot, too; but, it's really hard if it's someone you have to see on a daily basis.
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Excellent post. At some point you have to forgive yourself for hating the other person. You can never change what they did to you, but by forgiving yourself for buying into their garbage you can rise above it all and feel better about yourself. It removes you from the situation and allows to move on. And you are so right about distance and time helping.
Thanks.
All that is very true. But you also have to, at some point, forgive the person you hate. You do this for yourself, too, not for them. You cannot allow your hate for them to make you sick. And if you carry it around inside you long enough, it will eventually make you sick in one way or another. If you cannot forgive, you have to do what some here have mentioned...train yourself not to care at all, in any way. If you can do that, one day, you will realize that you have actually forgiven that person. I gave myself an ulcer with hate once (over the woman boss). And, I had other health problems, too. I had no idea what was causing it. Then, I got sick one time and they thought I might have toxic shock syndrome; then they thought I had gall bladder problems. And I had a monster case of insomnia. I went to a new doctor, a young one, and he asked me some very pointed questions. He asked me what I think about before I go to sleep at night, if I worried about stuff, whatever. He told me if I was worried about something I could fix, to get up and fix it. And he asked me if worrying about the other stuff fixed any of it, and if not, to forget it because I couldn't change it. Then he asked me if I had hard feelings toward anyone. When I told him yes, he told me I had to let them go, even if that meant forgiving the person. I worked on that a couple of weeks and over the next couple of months, my health improved immensely. The ulcer went away after about 6 months, and all the other symptoms gradually went away, too. When I find myself getting wrapped around the axle about something someone has done to me, I always remember the lessons he taught me and I let it go. Life it too short to be sick over stuff like that. And the other person is rarely worth the effort anyway.
I HATE ARMOR PLATED ELEPHANTS, ARMADILLOS, and THE DUCK IMITATION MEAT, the PLATYPUS.!!!
Osama Bin Laden
Aww. As do I.
Loathe God Damn It Loathe Cherry
Sorry, but you cannot possibly loathe me more than I loathe you.
Oh Cherry You Cant Quite Possibly Imagine How Much I Loathe You, I Loathe You So Much That I Question God On A Daily Basis Why Oh Why Did He Send Such A Lowly Piece Of Crap Like You To Earth
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