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Oh, and the fact that the all the pictures are completely airbrushed and the person posing has had hours spent on them for hair and make-up. I don't care you how good-looking you are. You don't look like that in real life! Man or Woman.
could be.
Oh, and the fact that the all the pictures are completely airbrushed and the person posing has had hours spent on them for hair and make-up. I don't care you how good-looking you are. You don't look like that in real life! Man or Woman.
Well I'm not that bad looking
Mostly I'm nice (realy)
I'm a gentelman and treats women seriosly.
I've got specific although good sense of humor in real life during the conversations
I can dance (which I haven't expected from me before)
There in this world you need to have a match with other gender (sex)
all comparisons I studied in my mind me<->others provided me to one not-so-funny conclusion:
There is no ing match!
I won't find a right woman. I would have to deal with other persons bad habbits, inperfections.
But as many say - that's life and those inperfections are what giving you a pleasure of living with the other person, give you some adrenaline.
(Good Will Hunting - fine movie)
I just pray to God that my daughter doesn't look at some of these stick figures and think to herself "I need to look like her to be valued in society".
1. no i am not an active participantAren't you a relatively active participant in that "Rate Her" thread in the Troll forum? If I'm not mistaken, critiquing other people is what that thread is all about....and laughing at other people's negative assessments of someone is not different than saying it yourself. So yeah, you're just as guilty as everyone else, whether you realize it or not.
2. me calling people out on being negative is completely different than people
ripping others appearances, not sure what you are talking about
3. laughing at others who make ridiculous judgments is nowhere near the
same as well...i am not the root of the issue and i don't make it worse, nor
do people even realize what i am laughing about
its a magazine appealing to masses, of course they are going to try and make it as best looking as possible.
Good looking men shoul be with good looking women
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Good looking children
But all in all you can see a fake good looking in todays world.
Come - visit Europe
Esp. Poland
Everybody who goes to States says: yugh (or something like that) Ugly and fat (in general). That's the difference. But as I look from a perspective and the experience the people are getting uglier (here). It's because of 'americanisation'.
Ehh still at the disco last night there were some magnificient women.
Your description of yourself sounds fair and very "normal". There is someone out there for you (maybe morethan one); but unless you were joking you maybe should postpone that search until you understand that dealing with the other persons bad habits and imperfections is a 2-way street; it's the name of the game!! But not to worry you'll find someone!
Well I'm not that bad looking
Mostly I'm nice (realy
I'm a gentelman and treats women seriosly.
I've got specific although good sense of humor in real life during the conversations
I can dance (which I haven't expected from me before)
There in this world you need to have a match with other gender (sex)
all comparisons I studied in my mind me<->others provided me to one not-so-funny conclusion:
There is no ing match!
I won't find a right woman. I would have to deal with other persons bad habbits, inperfections.
But as many say - that's life and those inperfections are what giving you a pleasure of living with the other person, give you some adrenaline.
(Good Will Hunting - fine movie)
i think i got most of that. look, you'll be fine bro...just relax, no need to get all extended and stressed. each relationship you have is a step in the right direction, they are all learning experiences...you find out more about the opposite sex and yourself and what you want each time. i think when you are ready to settle down is when you will meet someone...those things usually have a nice way of working out. plus, there is more than one person out there for each of us, at least imo.
as for the imperfections...of course, nobody is perfect. and whomever said that is correct, you do love people for their imperfections...they grow on you and help a couple grow together.
lastly, you seem like a good guy, girls will notice that....give it time. there is a match.
My point is that the if you saw the magazine person in real life, you might not be so impressed.
you=generic you.
Thank you much.
And I'm learning realy fast.
My success is to get up from a depression. But still I've got some pessimistic sentencess that makes my colleuges thinking I'm stupid thinking like that.
The biggest problem I have is believing in myself.
But I think I will be allright although my life is not that easy.
Damn maybe I should start another topic on that one.
Well I still need to lose 20 pounds or so.
I just can't get into the rythym in the diet.
And losing justv 20 pounds it's not such a big problem to me cause I proven myself to lose more then that.
isn't a lot of that up to you? i think its unfortunate that some young men and women feel that way. be happy with who you are...and ultimately you won't be ripping on others.
Yes, a lot of that IS up to me, as her parent. But society in general puts a lot of emphasis on "fitting in"...you have to drive the right car, wear the right clothes, be thin and beautiful, etc.
I hope that the example I set for my kids about being comfortable with who you are and the importance of making your own decisions and not going with the crowd for the sake of fitting in will stick with them their entire lives.
The most important thing in rising kids is to remeber they are learning by excamples.
TV internet and esp. parents and envoirnment. Not many can be such individualists to be above it and create their own "me".
I will admit that I know that I have a distorted view of how I look.
A client at work recently told me I had a "fat ass" - she said it like it was just some observation: "You know, your waist is kind of small, but your ass is fat." I thought it was pretty funny, especially since it came from an older woman with a belly bigger than some full-term pregnant woman that I've seen. The situation deteriorated when I got stuck in a room with her for the next 4 hours ... but initially I found it entertaining.
It took me a long time to cut back on caring about how skinny I was in favor of caring about how healthy I am, but I'm in a much better place now than, say, my freshman year of college. While I did get more positive attention from guys when I could see my ribs without stretching (lots more actually, it was kind of depressing if I thought about it too much), I still got more compliments from women than men about my figure at my lowest weight. Women may be victims of a weight-obsessed society, but that doesn't mean that we don't have our fair share in perpetuating it.
^^Very true. Men are much more likely to say you look too thin while women will tell you that you look great!
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