Yall Are Going To Love This...

[Mixability]

mcornelio - *puts gun to temple...*

he's probably thinking now, "i should have stayed with the gang banged , then I could say it wasn't mine, then we could go on Maury to prove it, and I'd get ritch."

[easjer]

I left out one of the most expensive parts - daycare. Daycare is ing expensive, even for the large group daycares. The only way to save $ on that is having a family member watching the child, which still frequently requires recompense, and introduces whole new issues with raising a child (whose rules apply - the caretakers or the parents? what if you have vastly different parenting styles?).

Health insurance and daycare (with the addition of lost income of her and possibly you not working for 8-12 weeks minimum post birth) are the most expensive aspects of raising a child, and neither is really avoidable. Not to say it's not possible to work out (particularly if someone works a late or third shift), just that it HAS to be considered when you think about the potential costs.

[MaNuMaNiAc]

I left out one of the most expensive parts - daycare. Daycare is ing expensive, even for the large group daycares. The only way to save $ on that is having a family member watching the child, which still frequently requires recompense, and introduces whole new issues with raising a child (whose rules apply - the caretakers or the parents? what if you have vastly different parenting styles?).

Health insurance and daycare (with the addition of lost income of her and possibly you not working for 8-12 weeks minimum post birth) are the most expensive aspects of raising a child, and neither is really avoidable. Not to say it's not possible to work out (particularly if someone works a late or third shift), just that it HAS to be considered when you think about the potential costs.

mcornelio - *aaaand squeezes de trigger*

[Squid]

Can we get a vbookie on whether he takes care of the kid or not?

[ShoogarBear]

Now is a good time to ask Jimcs50 to start the college fund.

[easjer]

I'm swear I'm not trying to scare him, just help him so that he can make an informed decision and do what is best for everyone involved. Lots of people without a lot of money have babies and make it work. I have friends who literally count/save every penny, but they wouldn't trade their son (or the new child on the way) for anything. New car would be nice . . . pedicures and gym memberships would be nice, but their son is worth way more.

It just generally isn't enough to say I make ok money. Be realistic about the costs and what you have to sacrifice financially and take that into the equation. If those financial sacrifices alone, with no regard to the emotional and physical sacrifices, are too much, then having the baby is not the best idea.

It is one of the best and worst things you can do in your life.

[Mixability]

I'm swear I'm not trying to scare him, just help him so that he can make an informed decision and do what is best for everyone involved. Lots of people without a lot of money have babies and make it work. I have friends who literally count/save every penny, but they wouldn't trade their son (or the new child on the way) for anything. New car would be nice . . . pedicures and gym memberships would be nice, but their son is worth way more.

It just generally isn't enough to say I make ok money. Be realistic about the costs and what you have to sacrifice financially and take that into the equation. If those financial sacrifices alone, with no regard to the emotional and physical sacrifices, are too much, then having the baby is not the best idea.

It is one of the best and worst things you can do in your life.

let me guess, if you had a kid, your "very good" husband would be the one in labor and you'd coach him with his lamaze.

[Kori Ellis]

According to MCornelio, he and his girlfriend were both cheating on each other just a few months ago (or wait .. is this a recent new girlfriend?) Anyway, you don't even have an apartment, you live with your parents, and you aren't ready to have a baby.

Give strong consideration to adoption.

[Kori Ellis]

Oh and if you didn't love the girl enough to want to marry her before she got pregnant, then you aren't going to learn to love her down the line.

So no need to get into an unhappy marriage "for the sake of the child".

[CuckingFunt]

CF's advice: Quit being a selfish and find out what SHE wants and support her decision.

Jesus. How this affects you and your life can't even compare with how it's going to affect hers.

[Das Texan]

this is what you would call....

'karma'


its a sometimes.

[SpursWoman]

I'm swear I'm not trying to scare him

Well, you just scared the out of me ... and I have a 9 & 11 year old.

[spurs_fan_in_exile]

let me guess, if you had a kid, your "very good" husband would be the one in labor and you'd coach him with his lamaze.

I'd be too busy painting the damn nursery.

[Mixability]

I'd be too busy painting the damn nursery.

nothing like 50/50....... just like Britney and Kevin were 50/50.

[TheSanityAnnex]

If you need anyone to film the birth I have a video camera and a steady hand.

[Johnny_Blaze_47]

If you need anyone to film the birth I have a video camera and a steady hand.

Are you going to keep the video after they break up?

Now is a good time to ask Jimcs50 to start the college fund.

Just for that, no more old man jokes for a few days.

he's probably thinking now, "i should have stayed with the gang banged , then I could say it wasn't mine, then we could go on Maury to prove it, and I'd get ritch."

Now that would be an episode to Tivo.

[spurs_fan_in_exile]

nothing like 50/50....... just like Britney and Kevin were 50/50.

That's hardly fair. For starters my wife is a much better rapper than K-Fed.

[Johnny_Blaze_47]

That's hardly fair. For starters my wife is a much better rapper than K-Fed.

Yadadigamahjig.

[Jimcs50]

wow, from letting your ex gf get gangbanged to getting your current gf knocked up.

Kids are expensive, even for someone with a career.

Not much money for anything else, when you have formula, diapers, clothes, doctors visits, etc. to pay for.

"your" life isn't over, but now it's not only "your" life you're responsible for.

What is this about a gangbang????

Please enlighten me on this story.

[CuckingFunt]

What is this about a gangbang????

Please enlighten me on this story.

It wasn't a gangbang, actually, it was bukkake.

Which, to my knowledge, can't get someone pregnant.

[Mixability]

It wasn't a gangbang, actually, it was bukkake.

Which, to my knowledge, can't get someone pregnant.

Lucky for you, cause you'd have a million mouths to feed.

[1369]

Now is a good time to ask Jimcs50 to start the college fund.

Nasal passages, burn from Dr. Pepper they do.

[CuckingFunt]

Lucky for you, cause you'd have a million mouths to feed.

Et tu, Danyo?

[mcornelio]

i just love you guys... thats why i posted it here. you guys always make have a laugh during a crisis...

[angel_luv]

According to MCornelio, he and his girlfriend were both cheating on each other just a few months ago (or wait .. is this a recent new girlfriend?) Anyway, you don't even have an apartment, you live with your parents, and you aren't ready to have a baby.

Give strong consideration to adoption.

I highly recommend adoption. It was the best and kindest thing my birth mom could have done for me considering her situation.