Questions for the married and couples of ST.com

[SpursWoman]

FYI: The light doesn't stay on when you close the freezer door.

[BigBeezie]

All I can say is that marriage is something that must be worked on and compromise is a big must.

I love my wife, but I'm the type of person that needs their space. She doesn't need her own space...so it gets a little annoying. She is great though, and I don't know what I would do without her.

[JoeChalupa]

I knew right away my wife was the one. We knew each other from work but I persued her even though she was a bit younger than I. We moved fast from dating, to my moving in with her and her mother while we looked for our own place in just a few months. Been together ever since. Sometimes you just know and it works.
Good luck!!

[mrsmaalox]

Neat update! It sounds like your relationship is made to be; I wish you the best! I've been through the Iraq thing and although it isn't easy, it goes by faster than you'd think. Just keep busy, stay positive, and he'll be home before you know it

[ObiwanGinobili]

Update:
Tom and I had a heart to heart talk today. We discussed marriage and children and he is very receptive to the idea of joining my fire dept as a medic when he returns. I told him to take whatever time he needs to adjust when he returns. He told me he wants me with him the day he returns and everyday after that. I can't go a day without thinking about him and I can seriously see myself with this man for the rest of my life.

A little bad news though, he will be sent to a very dangerous area in Iraq (not allowed to discuss any specifics) and I ask for everyone prayers for him and ALL the Troops that are there and in danger day in and day out.
I will talk with y'all later..I am tired and going to bed so I can dream about this wonderful man in my life.
Thanks to everyone for the advice!

thast awesome (and sad) i'm very happy for you - and I will keep you and him in my thoughts

[Soul_Patch]

best of luck to him...and hopefully you will have the strength to see it through.

[angel_luv]

I ask for everyone prayers for him and ALL the Troops that are there and in danger day in and day out.

I will put in a special prayer request for you and Tom at church and of course, I'll be praying for you guys too.