uhhhh..... yeah....
Why are there so many votes for downgrade?
haha i guess that is the bad side of me reading this place too!
Why are there so many votes for downgrade?
umm well I don't know why people are voting more on downgrade. it's a big step moving in with someone, maybe some have just had bad experiences.
oh well, i get your room if you move.
I Used to live with my boyfriend but he had to go back to his parents house because his car broke down and things were getting very expensive. I felt bad because I am a full time student with a part time job. I couldn't really help him pay for things. So my advice is that if you are in a situation in your life where you are financially stable and money is not going to be an issue than you should do it if thats what you want. If you know you still have alot of growing up then maybe you should wait a bit.
dont mean to be negative...just speaking from personal exp. bad idea! i think if its meant to be you wont have to ask people on a forum. youll just KNOW. hesitation isnt your mind thinking it through, its your heart telling you its not right. but whatever you decide just remember to write your name on your stuff now. GOOD LUCK! :p
What Manny (I think/forget) said...if you're in a serious relationship, it's probably a good idea if you're ever considering marriage with that person. I'd never marry someone before living with them for a while.
Unless Kim Kardashian, Jessica Biel, or Jessica Alba wanted to marry me.
I wanted to ask because I've personally never moved in with a boyfriend before. I've seen other couples live together and have it work out and others fail miserably so that's why I wanted to ask. In my previous relationships I never wanted to live with them.. this is the first time I've felt this way. The only thing I'm hesitant on is if we could make it financially on our own. That's why I'm giving it some time so we can save up money to get in a better position.
DEFINITELY SAVE UP. you will be shocked to see just how much it costs to get settled into a new place. if you are not prepared financially it'll be over before it can really begin, and it might not only mess up your relationship, it'll screw you over financially (with your credit especially).
Or he can move in here ya know? and we can split the bills another way!
hahaha!
I'm glad I lived with my ex-girlfriend for four years. It showed that not only could I live peacefully with a female, but I liked living with a female. I will definitely live with my future wife before I get married. You learn a lot (good/bad) being with someone every waking minute.
how about no.Or he can move in here ya know? and we can split the bills another way!
hahaha!
i moved in with my husband the day we got married. it's been 8.5 years, so definate upgrade IMO.
I agree with Manny on this one. In fact my parents encouraged it when I was in my my 20's. I think they thought it would keep me from getting married too young. They were right. I didn't get married until I was 26.
I lived with someone for about a year and it ended and then later when I met my first husband we moved in together after about 3 months of dating and lived together for about 9 months before we got married. There were red flags everywhere but I still married him. After a decade together I left.
My second husband and I are about to celebrate our 10 wedding anniversary in 4-5 weeks. We only lived together for 8 weeks before we got married. We still had the normal adjustment period that all couples had, we just knew that we couldn't walk away since we were married.
So, although getting married without living together very long worked out better for me I still think it's a good idea in the long run. You don't want to end up married to a psycho.
yes ,but that's a temporarily induced psychotic state brought on by summer vacation. It will soon be over!!!! (August 28th)
You only live once - so do what makes you happy. Just make sure you know you can leave if you become absolutely miserable or threatened in any way. It's the only way you're going to find out if you can co-exist with someone, so if you feel it go for it and respond to anything that comes up in the future.
Sounds like you need to grow up quite a bit more before moving in with someone. To be totally honest judging by your posts in this thread and other threads I have serious doubts as to wether or not you'd be capable of taking care of a man.
Not saying this is you but.....Spoiled women with high expectations of what a man is capable of offering them usually don't find a good healthy relationship until they've been knocked off their high horse and get past 35 into their second or third marriage.
Nice.
I got knocked right the off of mine at 24....and I found the best at 32, almost 33. Close.
I seriously doubt people's posts are a good indicator of their character. Thank God I can act however I want on a message board. The internet isn't as serious as life you know..
The internet is an escape zone. Don't listen to BTB. Nobody else is judging you LuvBones.
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