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arent girls your age old too ? LOL
the grocery store... ok I saw that on happy Days.. Fonzi told Richie, Ralph mouth, and Potsi that he met chicks in the grocery store..
arent girls your age old too ? LOL
Hey, how tall are you again?
Guys should never ask, "where is a good place to meet women?" That means you lack confidence and it doesn't matter where the women are because you are not going to approach them in the first place son.....I should take you on as my padawan learner.
I've always met people when I was the least interested in doing so.
*shrugs*
I guess it depends on what kind of woman you're looking for to be able to figure out where to find her.
Yes, but there aren't any nice young men there!JK
It reminded me of a joke from a sit com where the father tells the daughter how he wants her to date only nice boys that will respect her and treat her properly, and she says- "But, Dad, I thought you wanted me to date Catholic boys."
Yes, I can say it-I'm Catholic.
And I think it's gay to not offer any suggestions at all. He originally stated from the get-go that he is too old to hang out in the clubs, so I offered some alternatives. You haven't offered . That's gay.Word. Thats also why I think getting a dog just for the purpose of getting women was gay. You want a lady to like you for who you are. If you carry your self in a positive/confident way, you won't need to go out and look for tail. You'll attract the chicks any where you go.
And I think it's gay to not offer any suggestions at all. He originally stated from the get-go that he is too old to hang out in the clubs, so I offered some alternatives. You haven't offered . That's gay.
Well then,
Wasn't there a story about some Wal Marts having singles nights? No, thank you.
If only it were that easy!I've always met people when I was the least interested in doing so.
*shrugs*
I guess it depends on what kind of woman you're looking for to be able to figure out where to find her.
Anyway, I have found one I'm very serious about, so no complaints here. I just hope her feelings are developing in the same direction...
Dating is a numbers game and the most active get the rewards. for instance, you go out and meet 100 women in a week, at clubs, universities, while working-out, getting coffee, where-ever, maybe 10 will want to and are free to go out with you...that's how you get started....
I dunno, maybe its just me but there is something very cold and unfeeling about this post, turning it into a 'game' and playing the numbers. It seems kind of like the opposite approach I would take to dating.
Sure, the most active might get the most "rewards" but they might also get a Valtrex prescription, too.
It's not just you. The game/conquest aspect is one of the reasons I hate being single. As others have mentioned, my best dating experiences have been with people that I met naturally when neither of us were specifically hunting.
Don't you have a prescription?
Nah, I borrow off of Jessica Alba.
BS SHE IS CLEAN DAMMIT!!!
That's what I reckon dan, rather than the "give up and don't care" approach.
However, each tactic works for different people, and there is definitely something to the idea that you give out different vibes when "trying" to meet someone as against "not caring". Thus the 9/10 failure rate in your eg above.
I really don't think he meant it like that. He meant that you have to be active, PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE, in order to meet a whole bunch of women because it's hard to find one you are interested in without doing that. Maybe I'm misinterpreting him, but I think he's more commenting about likelihood of finding success, that is chemistry with the right person, unless you are actively social with the opposite sex.
Spurswoman has contrasted that with the "actively suppress your desire to meet someone" approach which does work for some people.
See, I think you got SW wrong. I don't think she actively suppressed anything, I believe what she is saying is that when you aren't looking, it just happens. That has almost always been the case for me, relationships have pretty much sprung out of nowhere, and never from a club or a bar when people are actively pursuing these things.
I might have gotten NBADAN wrong, but something tells me I didn't. Just his overall personality on the site and what I gather about him makes me think he really does see it as a numbers 'game' which is rather callous, imho.
Ace Cash America on welfare check day.
Hit up on the hoes at work.
Nah, I did mean what rough said....you could take the passive approach like SW, and if you are as witty and pretty as SW, you could afford too...but good looking women don't just fall into most normal looking guys laps....you have to be proactive...so while some women may not like 'over-aggressive men', some women do....they percieve it as confidence and that can be very attractive to some women....unless he's a total womanizer...but if he looks like Mario Lopez, they'll live with it....I might have gotten NBADAN wrong, but something tells me I didn't. Just his overall personality on the site and what I gather about him makes me think he really does see it as a numbers 'game' which is rather callous, imho
Mario Lopez?He is not attractive at all.
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