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Harsh. Sorry, that's gotta suck.
well i dont know what's up really
the girl got too much going on and i aint up for it
i guess i got pwned by this . whatever!
Harsh. Sorry, that's gotta suck.
Not to worry---just find another one!
From personal experience, I've met a couple of females in Chicago since being single for a little while. Called each one back the next day. They didn't mind it at all. =) So there you are. I think if you have a girl who thinks you're annoying for calling back the next day, she's just trying to play games and isn't worth your time to begin with.
Last edited by Cry Havoc; 12-02-2007 at 10:56 PM.
You didn't get pwned...it's happened to every man and woman in history.
The waiting to call game is one that I've never quite understood. And one that seems to be played by people fond of wasting A LOT of time.
Yeah, I edited it a bit to say basically the same thing before I saw your post.
The cool thing about dating is, you won't have to play games with the right girl. If she's not mature enough to deal with the situation like an adult, you don't have to worry about her anyway, because as hot as she is, she can't back it up with human decency!
Right on! Anyone who says otherwise is full of it...
I didn't keep calling her, but I did call a girl within minutes because I was positive that she had given me the wrong number. She said, you sure don't waste any time...
The waiting game is because of liking girls a whole lot previously and getting dumped by them for some guy that could care less if they live or die. Probably a similar reason why women do it. I'm not saying it's correct reaction and it is kind of a generalized way of looking at the opposite sex...but a of a lot of people do it, especially when you are young.
That's because 90% of women are idiots when it comes to that sort of thing and think that men only respond to the ones who are manipulative shrews.
Another thing is that....to most guys, it's always the jerks that get the girls...which encourages most guys to act like jerks....at least at first.
I think it's similar with women...a lot of guys want the hot y chick as some kind of conquest which probably encourages a lot of women to act y...
No one wants to be the doormat...
Fear of rejection is a powerful force...arguably the most powerful social force there is.
Wow I expected to get responses of laughter and jokes.
I am really suprised.
I love you guys...
The whole nonsense gives me a headache. Things would be so much easier if everyone just acted honestly and didn't play any of the games.
Then again, I've always avoided the manipulative game playing and almost every single person I've dated has gotten su ious because of it.
Likewise. People I date are a little perplexed at how "nice" I am. Mostly it's just because I am not (try not to be) overly self-indulgent, and I listen to the other person. It's bizarre how that actually throws them for a loop.
Detach yourself emotionally and make it a numbers game. Ask every 7 1/2 you see for their number (7 1/2 's have 9 's and 10's for girlfriends). Once you're ok'd by the 7/ 1/2 you work your way up. You'll be swimming in it in no time. That's what I'm talkin' about. Yeah baby.
Well you probably had some kind of well balanced childhood and came from a loving family or something...
Some people come from families where the spouses hate each other or one rejects the other...and so they try to avoid that rejection seeing all the havok it caused.
The thing is..if no one ever acts like they like someone a whole lot...then if they get rejected they can always say they didn't care or something and save face. Not get teased by their friends.
Fear of rejection, peer pressure...these are common motivating factors for people, especially kids.
The thing is...men and women both do it. Frequently. Especially when young. A lot of people figure it out eventually...but some never do.
Embrace rejection and you will never be without.
My parents were divorced when I was 4 1/2, actually, and neither them nor any of the other members of my family are/were terribly well adjusted. I was just a smart kid who saw through the bull and always knew exactly how ed up everyone was, which helped me tremendously.
I would agree with that. Especially as it relates to the way boys and girls interact as children and through puberty.
But I think there are far more external factors involved in adulthood. The many representations of appropriate male/female behavior in the media are pretty astounding. Women are guided by Cosmopolitan to be manipulative, sex-pot teases who use their own sexuality to get what they want. Men are guided by Maxim to treat women like objects and/or conquests and dare not let their own interests or desires drive attraction for fear of getting laughed at by the boys.
Don't over analyze it Crocodile boy, just bag it and shag it.
the person?
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call her, tell her you want some flight to boston. then walk into your parents garage; get on your bike, ride it to her house, and wear that out until her parents come home.
oh and make sure you use a condom.... unless you want your to fall off
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