I think what we are all trying to say is that if her ex called her for booty call in the middle of the night her panties would be left in the car....
True. If she was babbling on and on about her ex then I woudl take that as a sign. If she used it as an excuse once while explaining why she couldnt be in a relationship with stretch, I wouldnt think anything of it.
I think what we are all trying to say is that if her ex called her for booty call in the middle of the night her panties would be left in the car....
are you saying that stretch wont be able to fulfill her sexually so she'll have to sneak around with her ex just so she can get a decent lay?you gonna take that from these guys stretch?
No No No they're cunning because they lack smarts. We could be manipulated much easier but blind faith trickery is all they got buddy.
Indeed.
The "need time" excuse means that she is ing somebody else or is planning on it.
Run.
I don't think she meant she needed time to get over her ex in the sense that she still wanted him, wanted to be with him... I took it to mean that she needed time to work through all those things that "feeling" people have to work through when a relationship ends so that they can be ready to be in another relationship. It is better and healther to work through eveything from the previous one before you move into another one. I think she did not want him to be a "rebound" guy.
That's how I see it. Trying to stay positive, but who knows... we will see...
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I would think that is an excuse so she doesn't hurt your feelings but
es are so crazy she probably actually meant it.
Stretch, what age are you talking about?
I ask because I noticed a huge change in women from the teens/early 20s versus late 20s and onwards (and of course all that I'm about to say is generalising). Early 20s, until say 25, women (and men) don't seem to know what they want, they like the arrogant arsehole archetype, aren't very good at open honest communication in relationships, etc. However, late 20s it all changes and they start to know what they want, communicate it more openly, go for the good-guy types not the arseholes, etc.
So, tailor your behaviour to the situation, I guess (something I was never able to do - I could never be the arrogant prick).
From what you've said it doesn't sound like she's really into you though, so I'd be moving on. It's better being single and free than stuck in a relationship going nowhere...
Age is just a number. I'd base it more on maturity level.
Stretch,
Just ask her what "more time" meant. We can all sit here and guess what she was doing, who was doing her, and what she meant........... but you are the only one with the power to find out.
And to reiterate what pego said, keep her thinking there is another girl you're casually dating, or better yet, girls.
This chicks a waste of time...
remember that post, print it, tape it to your refrigerator for the next two months, so I don't have to tell you I told you so.
Well, you were wrong. We are getting back together. Big thanks for those who told me to stay patient. and a big " you" to those who told me to forget about it.![]()
Wait, didn't you just say you are making 1600 a month? Do you live with ur parents still?
I'm not trying to be a smart ass here. I would like to know how you plan to pay bills, eat, AND afford a high maintenance GF?
I have two jobs. I also am a travel agent. In fact, I'm about to post some threads here in the Club about it, and for people who post in spurstalk, I will cut nice deals for them. Flight tix, hotel reservations, car rentals, etc...
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Good for you buddy!!
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I'm thinking about coming to SA during the playoffs to watch the Spurs win another championship, and hang out with these crazy bas s from in here. Hook me up with some good rates dawg!!
Cool. I'll see what I can do for ya. PM me when you know the dates and locations you wish to arrive and depart from, and any other information I would need, such as price ranges you are hoping for, area you wish to stay, if you need a car/hotel or anything, etc...
Not saying it will or won't work out, but isn't it kind of early to judge what the right decision was in this situation?
Dude, the " you" part was a joke. We will see what happens, but I'm hoping for the best.
What is "the best" in your opinion?
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