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    I'm just about to go into Aidan's room this morning, but decided to post regardign what happened last night. The Guest Wireless Access was down last night, which is why I am updating now.

    Aidan is still having the occassional episode/storm, but none have come anywhere close to how the really bad one was yesterday morning/afternoon. In general, he is calming himself down, but they did have to give a bolus of sedative last night when I was in there with him. They are putting shoes on his feet to prevent them from falling. They are also waiting for splints to come in to put on his hands/arms so his wrists won't be permanently turned inward. They have also started turning him every couple of hours to help loosen anything in his lungs, as well as prevent hot spots and bed sores from forming.

    I finally got to see him open his eyes on his own last night. It was kinda like watching someone wake up from a nap, but he didn't really respond when I tried to make him notice me (me and the nurse would try to put a hand over one of his eyes neither the other eye nor his head moved in response). Erin said he did this when she was in there, but she was able to get a response from him. Maybe he just wasn't as sedated previously.

    At this time, the tracheostomy is scheduled for Monday. IMO, this is far later than it should be, but apparently this was the earliest the surgeon and the ENT Dr. could coordinate a time. This means watching him have these episodes over the weekend (ugh!) and hoping he doesn't have another really bad one. The nurse says that as long as they are able to get him successfully sedated, they have no reason to do the trach yet as an emergency procedure. Whatever. Here's an idea: How about sedating him as soon as his pulse gets over 180, not 3 hours later when it is over 200?!?!?!

    Anyway, there is a meeting scheduled for 2PM this afternoon with all the Drs. and nurses so we can get all of our questions answered. I am going to try to record the session using my cell phone so I can thoroughly do ent the proceedings later

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    I am impressed by your lack of medical knowledge. A trach is usually not placed in a child until 2-3 weeks after an incident. The trach is not going to make a difference in the frequency of storms he experiences. The trach is respiratory and the storms are neuro. Also, being in the medical field myself I know that during any type of seizure type activity which is what you see during these storms the heart rate will be erratic and may seem to be high when in fact it is not. I am sure these nurses and doctors are doing what is best for your child and should be commended everyday for their hard work. It appears to me that your child has suffered a severe neurological blow and is still alive today because of the care he has received. Just remember, when you point a finger at others there are three more pointing back at you!
    Last edited by laine; 03-02-2008 at 11:39 AM.

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    Sounds like parents that are talking about recording meetings are NOT thinking about their child but maybe a way to find fault in someone (money???). Again I say, who is to blame here?

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    Hey Laine, the person updating us about the child is not actually posting on the forums so you are talking to yourself asshole.

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    Sounds like parents that are talking about recording meetings are NOT thinking about their child but maybe a way to find fault in someone (money???). Again I say, who is to blame here?
    I think the parents want to record the meeting, because they are too stressed with having their child in this condition, in ICU, hooked up to machines, tubes, and monitors. They want to make sure they can replay what they are being told, because in their frame of mind, it's hard to retain information. I, know, I've been in there.

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    Sounds like parents that are talking about recording meetings are NOT thinking about their child but maybe a way to find fault in someone (money???). Again I say, who is to blame here?
    I think the parents want to record the meeting, because they are too stressed with having their child in this condition, in ICU, hooked up to machines, tubes, and monitors. They want to make sure they can replay what they are being told, because in their frame of mind, it's hard to retain information. I, know, I've been in there.
    That is my thought as well....And I too work in the medical field, LAINE.
    This family has been recieving emails, cards, prayers, and well wishes. I think the mom just wants to update everyone what is going on and would like to give accurate assessments and info. Be a good person and send a prayer or an ecard, thanks.

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    There have been no new developments in Aidan's condition. Russell has had a 2nd interview with a local company to find some work. We have had several people assure them that heartrates of 150-200 in little ones are not as alarming as in an adult. Russell has the flu pretty bad right now.

    For those without a Wachovia bank in their area or for those that just find the internet easier, a PayPal account has been set up if you wish to use PayPal to make a donation. The email address is [email protected].

    The family thanks you for your continued thoughts and prayers.

    I will update more when I find out more.

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    I'm still shocked that this guy lost his job. What kind of person/business would do that to someone. I'm pretty upset about that, this world is sick. I wish I could send a letter to that former employer.

    Thanks for keeping us updated.

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    update on Aidan's surgery:

    We just met with Dr. Hoover about Aidan's surgery. He made it through the surgery without any complications. He now has a tube in his trachea as well as one in his belly (referred to as a "button"). He also currently has a NG tube for decompressing his stomach. All nutrition will be handled by IV during his recovery time and he will have the ventillator attached to his trach tube.

    How long is recovery? At this time they have him paralyzed and he will remain that way for the next week. Therapists will still be able to work on his joints, etc., but he should not move on his own at all until next Monday. This means no storms (hopefully), but it also means he won't be interacting with us during that time.

    This gives us about a week to come to a final decision on a rehab location. We're pretty sure we'll be going to the Carolinas Rehabilitation Center located within Levine Children's Hospital in Charlotte, though. Right now, we're just happy he is out of surgery and recovering.

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    I am impressed by your lack of medical knowledge. A trach is usually not placed in a child until 2-3 weeks after an incident. The trach is not going to make a difference in the frequency of storms he experiences. The trach is respiratory and the storms are neuro. Also, being in the medical field myself I know that during any type of seizure type activity which is what you see during these storms the heart rate will be erratic and may seem to be high when in fact it is not. I am sure these nurses and doctors are doing what is best for your child and should be commended everyday for their hard work. It appears to me that your child has suffered a severe neurological blow and is still alive today because of the care he has received. Just remember, when you point a finger at others there are three more pointing back at you!
    As a medical professional and a parent I am absolutely astounded by your total lack of understanding. God help the next human in crisis you come in contact with.

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    Erin and I just had a meeting with Dr. Black. Here is what we can tell you:

    As stated previously, Aidan will be "paralyzed" (i.e., drug-induced) until Friday. At this point, they will start easing off the drugs and begin assessing how well he responds. The paralysis is so the trach will "mature" (i.e, the skin surrounding the hole can get used to it being there) and reduce the chance of any scarring.

    Aidan has been placed on Clonidine in an effort to further control his sympathetic storms. This is being done transdermally (like a nicotine patch), and the patch works for a week before it has to be replaced.

    Erin and I will have to learn how to change his trach tube. They hope to have us watch Dr. Hoover do the first one so we will have an idea of how to do this. Dr. Black assures us that once we learn, that it will be easy to do and we won't think much of it down the line. The best thing is that after the first change, we'll be able to hold him!

    Dr. Black is looking at Aidan leaving PICU and moving to an inpatient rehab facility (we have firmly decided on Levine) by the middle to end of next week. Rehab time is still looking at 8-12 weeks, but he said to not be surprised if Aidan takes as little as 4 or as many as 16 weeks to get through this next stage of recovery. We hope to have him home and starting outpatient therapy by Evan's birthday (June 22).
    We have another family conference at 1PM on Friday. Dr. Black wants to do these on a weekly basis for as long as we are at the hospital.

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    Keep us informed. I'm still praying for him.

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    10:15 AM -- Russell leaves for two interviews. He doesn't return until after 4PM. Erin has to stay in the sleep room "pretty much" all day (see next time stamp).

    Noon -- After Evan went down for a nap, Erin goes to see Aidan. His nurse lets her know that they had taken him off of the medicine that was keeping him paralyzed. The reasoning behind doing this was because Aidan has a pretty large air leak around his trach and they are hoping that with him breathing more on his own it will help "seal" that leak. They also lowered his sedation meds. He was doing really well this morning, and was really calm this morning. When Erin was back there his heart rate was low and he was resting.

    Sometime between Noon and 4PM -- The people from the Rehab Center come in to do an initial assessment. The case manager couldn't tell Erin for sure that Aidan would be accepted into the rehab program. They said the call was up to the doctors at the rehab.

    4PM -- Russell gets back from his interviews (both went well, but he is leaning toward the latter one since it has the possibility of going permanent). The nurse comes in a little later to tell us that they took Aidan off the ventilator at around 3 and that he had been doing pretty good on his own, but was having some storming episodes. Erin goes back to see him, while Russell keeps an eye on Evan. Nana, Uncle Matt, Aunt Bev, and Mamaw arrive a short time later.

    5PM -- Erin comes in with dinner and lets everyone know that Aidan had been having the storming episodes. The first bolus of Ativan was given at that time.

    9PM -- After trying to feed Evan baby food, getting him to take a bottle instead and finally getting him to fall asleep, Russell comes to Aidan's room to check in after hearing Erin was crying. Aidan's heart rate was well over 200 again, and his respiration was over 100! This had been going on for 2 hours (2 hours previous, his heart rate was at 180). He was posturing severely (i.e, very rigid) and red as a beet (remember, elevated heart rate = elevated temp). Nana is holding one of Aidan's hands, while everyone was wondering why the nothing was being done. Russell was ready to have malpractice lawyers on speed dial and just about ripped the nurse and respiratory therapist (RT) on duty a couple of new bowels until Erin proceeded to rip him one and accuse him of being more concerned with listening to the Bedlam basketball game online (Pokes lost 68-56 -- damn) than Aidan's condition (for the record, Evan was fighting sleep and Matt doesn't do well when the kiddos are crying). Aidan's nurse proceeds to get on the phone in an attempt to get Dr. Black in STAT.

    9:30PM -- Russell comes back in to the room after a few minutes. Dr. Black is there. He explains that he feels terrible about what is happening to Aidan, and can only imagine how we feel. Russell apologizes to the nurse and the RT, and the nurse proceeds to start crying not because he hurt her feelings, but rather because she feels as helpless as we do (it doesn't help that she, too, is pregnant). The RT is even tearing up. Obviously, the past 4 hours have taken an immense toll on everyone. Dr. Black assures us that Aidan is not getting any further damage from these storms. the "secondary brain damage" referred to in many of the do ents we have read about this condition would only happen if he was not getting oxygen to his brain. His oxygen saturation has been at least 95% since they revived him. Dr. Black increases the drug dosages again, and orders boluses of Ativan to be issued every 2 hours.

    10PM -- Erin leaves to go home after Aidan calmed down.

    11PM -- Russell goes to Aidan's room to keep vigil. He was having a storm when he came in, but has since calmed down. His heart rate is back down to the 120 range and his breathing is much better at 40 bpm.

    Everyone who has been keeping a prayer vigil over Aidan, we ask that you concentrate your prayers on ending these sympathetic storms. We will not be able to make ANY significant progress until those are COMPLETELY GONE and he is off the ventilator. We don't care what the intake people said about it being likely that he may not be admitted ... we want to leave no doubt that he is ready to go when the time comes. We can't even begin to describe how hard it is to watch him have these storms. Imagine the worst temper tantrum a child can have and multiply it by at least 20. The sad thing is that he can't control them and we're all helpless and can only sit and watch.

    We appreciate everyones continued prayers. With them and God's grace, we've gotten this far. Things usually get worse before they get better, so we're hoping and praying that this is just the worst of it.

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    Thanks for the update. He's going to be fine. I believe God for that.

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    Dr. Corbier looked at the EEG and informed us that the scan showed more activity than the previous scan. This is interesting to note, especially since he is on even more sedation than his previous scan.

    They are continuing to increase the meds again (Versed, Ativan, and Fentanyl) in an effort to better control the storms. We realize they likely can't completely stop the storms. Also, he is hypersensitive to touch. The nurses told us that even when they try to take his temperature under his arm, it does not take much to get him to go into a storm. Fortunately, they have been able to get enough meds in him to keep his heart rate under 180.

    We are waiting for the nurses to finish rounds before we go back in to see Aidan again. After that, we'll likely head to the house so we can get a decent night's sleep. Since we have the meeting tomorrow morning, we want to make sure we are well-rested.

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    damn, you're doing a of a job hanging in. I'll pray.

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    We had another family conference this morning. Highlights:

    Monday, they are going to insert a different trach tube. Aidan needs a longer tube because of his stature (he's barrel chested). They've ordered several different sizes and will try to get the best fit. They will be doing this under general anesthesia again and it will require that he is monitored for another week after the procedure. This also means another week before we can hold him.

    Aidan has developed a sinus infections because of all the tubes and stuff and they are starting him on an antibiotic today to deal with that.
    Dr. Corbier would like to get another MRI next week along with an MRS. He reiterated the fact that what damage we are seeing in the brain (the hypoxia) has still only shown up in the diffusion MRI scan. For those who are not aware, a diffusion MRI creates its images by measuring the amount of oxygen in the water molecules within the brain. The MRS will give them a better idea of what the prognosis is. Dr. Corbier did say that the areas that are hypoxic are reversible. The next MRI will give definitely give us a much better idea of what we're looking at.

    Some new drugs are being added to the fray (Dantrolene and IV Clonidene along with the Clonidene patch). It will be another 72 hours or so for them to really access the effectiveness of the combination of medication. This is really all trial and error.

    Aidan has started receiving feedings through his G-tube (they will also be able to start giving him some of his long-term medications through the g-tube as well)

    Charlotte Rehab has not been cooperative. They said they would only take him for 2 weeks, and that would pretty much be to show us how to care for him. Needless to say, Dr. Black was livid! He has suggested we start concentrating on rehab locations out of state again. Russell had got a call from the Atlanta rehab center and he found out that they have scholarships available. The social worker is also going to look into other options within NC, the main one being Pitt County Memorial Hospital in Greenville, NC.

    Dr. Black also wants to try to start weaning Aidan off of the sedatives (fentanyl, versed, etc) again, because he will not be able to go to a rehab facility on these medications.

    We are looking at probably another 10 days to 2 weeks here in the hospital, at least. This is just taking a lot longer than any of us anticipated. Had Aidan not started having these sympathetic storms, everything would be a lot different.

    I (Erin) just wanted to add that everyone here at the hospital has been wonderful. The nursing staff, the respiratory staff, the doctors, they've all been doing a great job. I know that this is stressful on them as well. I can tell that they all really care about Aidan, as I'm sure they do with all of their patients. This whole thing is just indescribable... the range of emotions that I feel. I go from guilt, to anger, to just sheer depression all in the same day, several times a day. I don't know that I'll ever understand why, or how- I just have to pray and trust that he's going to get better. It is very frustrating, though when a rehab facility that deals with brain injury doesn't think that your child is treatable.

    On another note, Russell had another job interview this morning. He could possibly know something today. As for the interview that he had last week, it could be next week before he hears anything.

    For now, this is what is going on. Aidan is currently calm and the symptoms of the storming episodes are under control. His heart rate is around 110 or so and his breathing is good. It's a little fast because of the trach (which is why they are changing it). He seems to be resting comfortably right now. We're just continuing to pray that these storms disappear and in the meantime we pray that the doctors have found the right combination of medications to control the symptoms of the storms.

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    God bless you and your family. Sounds like the angels are with you. Expect miracles! You are in my prayers.

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    Aidan had a good night last night. Russell and I left the hospital and went out to dinner at Logan's Roadhouse. We actually ran into our social worker, Betsy, there. We came back to the hospital and sat with him for a few hours. Russell read a few chapters of Narnia to him and he was calm the entire time.

    We went ahead and went home for the night and got back to the hospital early this afternoon (the time change really messes me up). The nurse said that Aidan had just calmed down from having a pretty bad storm that lasted about 2 hours. She said that the doctors had decided to adjust his medications a little more. I think he had one other storm during the night, but I don't think it was very bad.

    On a good note, his nurse said that this morning when she and another nurse were moving and changing Aidan he had his eyes open and she felt like he was actually looking at her, she started talking to him and said 'hey, Aidan.' and he smiled at her. The other nurse saw it too. He even smiled at Russell this afternoon. I haven't seen it myself, yet.

    He's had several storms today, and they've started him on another medication, bromocryptine. I'm not exactly sure what it does specifically, but it works in conjunction with the other meds to help control the storming.

    The neurologist came in to check him and he said that he thinks Aidan is getting better. His last EEG show more brain activity and he's wanting to get another MRI done later in the week.

    Aidan is scheduled to go down into surgery at 7:30 in the morning. That may change if they have outpatient surgeries.

    I'll post more later.

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    Good to hear he smiled. Why does he have these storms? His brain trying to completly wake up? I've been thinking of him alot, and he's in my prayers.

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    As a medical professional and a parent I am absolutely astounded by your total lack of understanding. God help the next human in crisis you come in contact with.
    Some people are born assholes Mrs.M. I'm convinced that it's in their DNA.

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    We don't even know where to start with this entry. Aidan had several storms overnight that weren't too bad. Mainly just the rigid posture/stiffening up. This morning when Erin got to the hospital he was having another storm. They are having a hard time getting the vent tubing to stay on the trach tube and it pops off continually. Dr. Caceras came back on duty today so everything is being changed up again. They are switching most of Aidan's meds from IV form to oral form so that they can be given to him through his G-tube. That is a step in the rehab direction. Dr. Caceras doesn't want to give Aidan the morphine to help calm these episodes. He wants the nurses to give him Ativan and then Fentanyl and then if those aren't effective (which they usually aren't), then they can try the morphine or propofal(sp?). Right now, the morphine is working to calm him down.

    It's a lot to try to keep up with, and frankly, we're getting frustrated with it all. Either Aidan is completely drugged up to keep him from having the storms or he is more alert and constantly has them. He can sometimes calm himself, but for the most part he only calms down for maybe 5-10 minutes, sometimes it's less than a minute before he's back into it.

    If they were able to get them under control to the point that Aidan is only having one or two episodes a day, we can deal with those. He could go to rehab and they can work with him. But to constantly have these things unless he's just completely out of it ... we don't see how they are going to do anything with him in rehab.

    We just don't understand it all. We're praying for these storms to just go away completely so we can move on to the next stage. We think the best thing for all of us to realize is that Aidan is not going to just jump back from this. It's going to take time, a lot of it, and he may never be like he was before the accident. But then again, he can surprise us all and come back completely. That is what we're hoping and praying for. We miss our little boy.

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    Tell them to keep praying. I am praying still.

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    I keep praying for this kid every day, I just can't imagine what the parents are going through right now. My heart goes out to them.

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