I know. That's why in my first post I specifically said it was nice because it gave the appearance that a guy's focus went beyond just s -- even if I know where they're looking, "nice earrings" still sounds better than "nice s" and is, therefore, a more successful approach.
I don't wear glasses to look/feel smart, I wear glasses because I like them.

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.. .but my friendships havent really changed. i guess it stems from the fact that i make sure they know that i dont plan on being serious with them.