Intersting, reading this. A male's perspective on heartache and heartbreak. I didn't know guys could be so sensitive. I thought most guys were into the screw em & loose em mindset. I really am impressed with you guys
And I better not hear: "April Fools" at the end of the day
yeah man she is so passive that it would just be hard. But I don't know. I'm on the fence part of me wants to pursue it and risk getting shot down and another part of me just wants to not try and not talk to her again even if she comes back trying to talk to me. I just can't figure out what I should do.. need to put my thinking cap on
I can almost promise you won't hear that from myself, flo, or Tdan.Intersting, reading this. A male's perspective on heartache and heartbreak. I didn't know guys could be so sensitive. I thought most guys were into the screw em & loose em mindset. I really am impressed with you guys
And I better not hear: "April Fools" at the end of the day
Wait it out bro, give it some time. If she comes back then ask her about the whole situation.
haha yeah some guys are like us. I used to be more like your typical guy I suppose but it never got me anywhere. I became more fascinated with relationships and how perplexing things can get sometimes because of two people's personalities. I used to just keep it all inside and let things eat at me, but something happened and I basically just said it, I'll talk about the things that bother me because other people have the same things going on. I mean this kind of stuff is why bands make millions in the music industry, why certain movies and tv shows have so many people that watch them, everyone deals with some sort of relationship problems one way or another and talking about it shouldn't be a big deal.Intersting, reading this. A male's perspective on heartache and heartbreak. I didn't know guys could be so sensitive. I thought most guys were into the screw em & loose em mindset. I really am impressed with you guys
And I better not hear: "April Fools" at the end of the day
Yeah most people shield it and hide it which isnt healthy. Its good to get a different view point especially from someone on the outside. Its easy to be blinded by the relationship.
Yeah dude, I rememeber the pic exactly. She looks more like you than her husband, Dad!
Yeah dude, I rememeber the pic exactly. She looks more like you than her husband, Dad!
LMAO come on flo your ing with me. That newest picture does kind of look like me a bit though.
Yeah it does help when you hear of someone else going through something similiar. It helps because it you know you are not alone.
Really dude it does. I'm just busting your balls about it being yours, but she does resemble you.
Im going to get Tdan's opinion later today, lol now im all worried.
haha so I'll be the judge
Yup hahhaha so I better hear a NAH man she looks nothing like you hahaha.
Nah TD, you say that that babygirl is his!
Nah TD, you say that that babygirl is his!
Flo your not talking about the little girl in my pic are you? If you are then thats my niece.
LOL yeah ok that was thier "family pic" but if you see her new one on her profile, it should be her main one, thats the one im talking about. Its a little eerie!!
Cut her off completely.
I learned a long time ago that exes are exes for a reason. There's no going back.
Thats what I said. But thats easier said than done sometime. Especially depending on the cir stances behind the break-up.
man I know. That is what I was saying about her being a drug, like I know it's bad for me, and I know it will just bring me down but for some reason I always answer her calls,emails or texts. The problem is that I don't communicate with her. I've gone long periods of time and haven't called or texted her (like 3 months twice, and almost a year this last time). It's always her opening up the doors again to me, and everytime I think to myself 'man you shouldn't answer or respond' but I always do. I know I shouldn't but I always do. It's like I've spent so many hours thinking about it that when it happens it shakes my whole world up. And like I might go another 6 months to a year and not hear a thing, but I know she will call someday and that is when I need to make the decision. But as for me, I have way too much pride and would never drunk dial or text....I don't even have her number in my phone to tell you the truth
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yeah, like part of me thinks she wants me to pursue her and to drunk dial and stuff because I remember times in college she would literally ask me to drunk dial her....
Another part of me thinks she just wants to be friends
Another part of me thinks she actually realizes that she missed out on me and still likes me and tries to run from it.
but the thing is that I would never not call someone back, or when I leave a VM to see if she wanted to get something to eat that coming up weekend, text several hours later that you are busy that weekend....like even if you just wanted to be friends with me, friends don't blow people off. So I have no idea. All I know is that it's f'ed up and I actually wish I never would have met her in the first place because I was much better off I think. Every one of my girl friends (friends that are girls) say that I can do much better than her, and that I am out of her league...which truth be told I think they are right. But the fact is that she ed me over, and keeps ing me over, and I can't figure out what the is going on with her and something intrigues me. I'm just venting now, but you can imagine the frustration!
yeah, like part of me thinks she wants me to pursue her and to drunk dial and stuff because I remember times in college she would literally ask me to drunk dial her.
Another part of me thinks she just wants to be friends
Another part of me thinks she actually realizes that she missed out on me and still likes me and tries to run from it.
but the thing is that I would never not call someone back, or when I leave a VM to see if she wanted to get something to eat that coming up weekend, text several hours later that you are busy that weekend....like even if you just wanted to be friends with me, friends don't blow people off. So I have no idea. All I know is that it's f'ed up and I actually wish I never would have met her in the first place because I was much better off I think. Every one of my girl friends (friends that are girls) say that I can do much better than her, and that I am out of her league...which truth be told I think they are right. But the fact is that she ed me over, and keeps ing me over, and I can't figure out what the is going on with her and something intrigues me. I'm just venting now, but you can imagine the frustration!
Dude I totally understand and know where you're coming from. You remember that movie with Mel Gibson, "What women think"? Yeah I know it's gay as , but I sometimes wish that I had that power just to see WTF they were thinking. Especially like the woman who you are dealing with. It's like it's hot and cold. One day she is all over you, the next day she nowhere to be found. You just want closure so you can move on.
The fact that she ed you over upset the balance and put her in control of the situation, which is confusing and frustrating for you. The only reason you're still interested is because there's a part of you that wants her to become interested enough that you can turn her down.But the fact is that she ed me over, and keeps ing me over, and I can't figure out what the is going on with her and something intrigues me. I'm just venting now, but you can imagine the frustration!
I've seen what women want, and the answer is to make your life a living
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