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    So, if the fight was physical, she shouldn't have 'stuck her nose in someone's business?'

    I thought you taught common sense, coach.
    Yep. Common sense just told you it could cost you your life. You fail to see the finality in death I guess. That situation was absolutely none of her ing business. I applaud her efforts to be a good human being. I think she meant to do the right thing or so it seems so far. But look at what it cost her. Her family, husband and kids if she has them will forever be without her. No amount of courage and honor can replace what is now gone. No memory or good time will ever bring her back no matter what load of someone feeds them to give comfort.

    Why you people feel that doing good or that good was done can actually justify or replace life is beyond me. that I'd rather have my wife, mom or sister back.

    People get so wrapped up in the notion of doing good and doing whats "right". Sometimes whats lost in the big picture far out weighs the "right" within the moment. I can promise you this much and without a shread of doubt if she could still breath and think she'd regret her move.

    So in its most simple of terms common sense should show you something here. It won't though people will continue to think along some ficticious noble bull line because it helps give them reason and value for living.

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    Sometimes B2B just needs to shut the up.
    Yeah because making it a conversation and bringing other perspectives to the table has no place on a message board.

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    Yeah because making it a conversation and bringing other perspectives to the table has no place on a message board.
    In this case you are full of .

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    Laughing My ing Ass Off at how smart and enlightened B2B thinks he is

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    In this case you are full of .
    How am I full of ? She's ing dead you blind . She's not coming home all because she got in the middle of some other families business.

    I'm not saying she attacted the dude for no reason....that was sarcasm and hypothetical. Jesus sake.

    I bet right now her family is wondering why this had to happen and why her and why her good deed goes punished. Answer: because she put herself in the middle of a situation that she shouldn't have. No ing way was her life worth whatever effort she put into breaking this fight up. She wasn't protecting her child or her family or a helpless 5 year old from a rapist. Wake up people...your good deed doesn't carry on after death. Its death its final.

    Sounds like some white trash piece of was banging his wife around and she popped in. Should have called security or maybe she did but no way would I ever think that any one of her family members wouldn't change the situation and plead with her to not take action, no way they think what she did was worth it.

    Good deed: Yes
    Bad choice: Yes

    Sorry you can only look at things one ing way.

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    My husband said her name sounded familiar to him so he may have spoken with her before.

    Very tragic.

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    Laughing My ing Ass Off at how smart and enlightened B2B thinks he is
    There is nothing enlightening about it. She's ing dead dude. She's not going to make dinner for her family tonight or be served a nice meal. She's ing dead and all for absolutely nothing. She should have walked.

    Had this been any one of your family members you'd have wished they stayed out of it too.

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    There is nothing enlightening about it. She's ing dead dude. She's not going to make dinner for her family tonight or be served a nice meal. She's ing dead and all for absolutely nothing. She should have walked.

    Had this been any one of your family members you'd have wished they stayed out of it too.
    And maybe if she had not intervened then the woman who was arguing with her husband might be dead.

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    Or maybe she intervened because the lady was her patient and it's possible she knew the husband too.

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    How am I full of ? She's ing dead you blind . She's not coming home all because she got in the middle of some other families business.

    I'm not saying she attacted the dude for no reason....that was sarcasm and hypothetical. Jesus sake.

    I bet right now her family is wondering why this had to happen and why her and why her good deed goes punished. Answer: because she put herself in the middle of a situation that she shouldn't have. No ing way was her life worth whatever effort she put into breaking this fight up. She wasn't protecting her child or her family or a helpless 5 year old from a rapist. Wake up people...your good deed doesn't carry on after death. Its death its final.

    Sounds like some white trash piece of was banging his wife around and she popped in. Should have called security or maybe she did but no way would I ever think that any one of her family members wouldn't change the situation and plead with her to not take action, no way they think what she did was worth it.

    Good deed: Yes
    Bad choice: Yes

    Sorry you can only look at things one ing way.
    Listen up you clueless . You were originally trying to argue that it was within the killer's rights to shoot the woman doctor. Do you want me to quote your original post? How the was that doctor supposed to know that the dude would pull a gun when she intervened anyway? She did what any individual would have done in that situation. Now shut the up!

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    And maybe if she had not intervened then the woman who was arguing with her husband might be dead.
    I'm sure none of her family would consider it a worthy trade. I'm sure she (now dead) probably doesn't consider it a fair swap either. Again somewhere along the line you people think one good deed equates to losing life and thats just fine and dandy. Sometimes that way of thinking applies. I would gladly give up my life to save my son but no way I give up my life to save the life of some stranger I don't know, especially another adult.

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    Or maybe she intervened because the lady was her patient and it's possible she knew the husband too.
    Exactly. That is hardly a bad choice.

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    Maybe she attacked him and he defended himself with his legal firearm. Thank god we let people own and carry guns. I know I've gotten into fights with strangers before when people try to tell me to stop yelling and belittling my wife in public.
    There is always two sides
    .....and you had another thread in which you were offering to be a life coach???

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    Listen up you clueless . You were originally trying to argue that it was within the killer's rights to shoot the woman doctor. Do you want me to quote your original post? How the was that doctor supposed to know that the dude would pull a gun when she intervened anyway? She did what any individual would have done in that situation. Now shut the up!
    I never questioned her motive to help, you . I simply said common sense stated that it turned out to be the wrong choice. That is exactly why you mind your own god damn business and protect yourself and your family first. She dead and not coming back it was obviously the wrong choice.

    I wasn't arguing the killers right I just said what if and I was being sarcastic you stupid arrogant dude ass.

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    .....and you had another thread in which you were offering to be a life coach???
    I seriously can't believe how many stupid people can't tell the difference between sarcasm and reality. Are you really this stupid to think I was serious with that statement. You thought I was being serious. How ing stupid can you possibly be?

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    Well, there goes the neighborhood.

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    Exactly. That is hardly a bad choice.
    Really. Did you know she died? I guess it all turned out ok. Hardly a bad choice when you lose your life over ing nothing.

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    I'm sure none of her family would consider it a worthy trade. I'm sure she (now dead) probably doesn't consider it a fair swap either. Again somewhere along the line you people think one good deed equates to losing life and thats just fine and dandy. Sometimes that way of thinking applies. I would gladly give up my life to save my son but no way I give up my life to save the life of some stranger I don't know, especially another adult.
    I take it you are not a man of
    religion..

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    I take it you are not a man or religion..
    Yes I am a religion. Church of Dirties

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    There is always two sides
    You started defending the shooter because we do not know the full story. But now you continue to criticize the doctor even though you do not know the full story.

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    I never questioned her motive to help, you . I simply said common sense stated that it turned out to be the wrong choice. That is exactly why you mind your own god damn business and protect yourself and your family first. She dead and not coming back it was obviously the wrong choice.

    I wasn't arguing the killers right I just said what if and I was being sarcastic you stupid arrogant dude ass.
    Jane, you ignorant . You can always use 20-20 hindsight observations to back up absurd claims like yours. One of the problems we have in this country is that too many people mind their own business.
    Last edited by tlongII; 04-04-2008 at 05:46 PM.

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    I seriously can't believe how many stupid people can't tell the difference between sarcasm and reality. Are you really this stupid to think I was serious with that statement. You thought I was being serious. How ing stupid can you possibly be?
    ...Who on this board would take a stupid ing idiot like you seriously?

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    I never questioned her motive to help, you . I simply said common sense stated that it turned out to be the wrong choice. That is exactly why you mind your own god damn business and protect yourself and your family first. She dead and not coming back it was obviously the wrong choice.

    I wasn't arguing the killers right I just said what if and I was being sarcastic you stupid arrogant dude ass.
    And my original post is that it's shameful that someone like the killer would resort to shooting a person who bothered to intervene in his efforts to fight his wife.

    My comment was more of a societal lament. Your retort is more of a WTF can anyone do about things like this except watch a husband fight with (beat the out of?) his wife. The fact that some in our society just resort immediately to violence to deal with issues strikes me as something to be concerned about.

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    Jane, you ignorant . You can always use 20-20 hindsight observations to back up absurd claims like yours. One of the problems we have in this country is that too many people mind their own business.
    Greywheel -

    I wasn't defending the shooter. I just put out a different train of thought. Why can't you people wake the up and understand that I simply opened up a thought for conversation. I in no way defended the shooter. Thats it, you idiots ran with that and started crying. Stop, read, comprehend and discuss.

    T2 -

    I hardly thinks its as simple as hindsight being 20-20. I would not have gotten in the middle of something like that. Nor would have my wife. We mind our own ing business because you never know with people these days and I prefer to go home each day and retain life. Had it been a child maybe but at the end of the day no other life is worth my own unless its a very unique situation.

    Now had some dude dropped his keys and she picked them up for him and he shot her then I'd say wellllll 20-20 and hindsight and you just never know blah blah blah. To me anytime you get in the middle of someone else's bull its a risk. Obviously judging by the outcome it was a risk she shouldn't have taken.

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