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Why don't you just ask her out man? It doesn't have to be that complicated. Stop over analyzing this . Thats the female's job.
It sounds like she wants to take is slow. You can still tap it. That's all you want, right?
Why don't you just ask her out man? It doesn't have to be that complicated. Stop over analyzing this . Thats the female's job.
You are dead in the water man. You won't know it until you go out with her and a group of friends and she winds up drunk, making out with some random dude while you watch with failed smile.
Sorry, things have been happening too fast for me to post another update. She just asked ME out. I guess we can lock the thread now.
Yup, best thing for you to do now is to take the possibly of sex out of your mind with this girl. Accept the friendship and be a friend, its always good to have female friends.
Start off the friendship buy inviting her to lunch, not dinner.
Maybe this time you'll score another affectionate kiss on the cheek. lol
Oh dude she asked you out? Thats normally awesome, but considering the groundwork of pussification you've laid I'm worried for you. The night is likely to end with you taking it up the ass. Enjoy.
Nah I'm kidding, GL!
Uh oh, pity date.
Probably so. This probably isn't so important it merited 5 pages.
keep the pimp hand strong brah!
Nah, this was the best thread of the week.Probably so. This probably isn't so important it merited 5 pages.
My advice to you on your date:
Gently grab her hand and place it on your package. This will give you an accurate indication of where things are headed into the evening.
Updates?
I'm sure I could gay it up better than that...
Seriously though, OP, if it's all about getting laid for you, read some Seduction Community stuff.
If you are actually trying to find a soulmate, be yourself. (See, told you I could gay it up!)
I agree.
Being long out of that game, I can offer my wife's observations, mixed in with some of my own: be direct but not crude. Don't be too nice.
It is not an easy balance to strike, but it is better to be a bit forward than to come off wishy washy. Self-confidence is the best way to get a woman's interest. All things in moderation though. There is a line between confidence and narcissism.
You seem decent enough for that not to be a risk, though.
Hold off on texts. Too much human communication is non-verbal. Limit texts to "meet me at such-and-such at 7pm" and other simple things.
Maybe not *this* Random Dude...
This is "oh my god, I got drunk and did something stupid with this guy".
She is a bit embarassed, would be my guess, and wants to back off a bit.
To paraphrase an old truism:
"A drunk woman's words are a sober woman's thoughts."
She likes you, but is feeling a bit awkward about it.
Try something to defuse along these lines:
"Don't sweat it. It always makes a guy's day when an attractive woman shows an interest."
No way, jose.
We want all the lurid details now, and will pester you mercilessly about them.
Good luck.
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