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Thats actually a pretty good analogy.
Thats actually a pretty good analogy.
Fair enough.Except that she's not evil. Besides, it wasn't her advice.
For those of you arguing that telling the other person is selfish because you just want to "ease the guilt"...well NOT telling the other person can be selfish as well for the reason that now, you are making the decision to stay with the other person. What I mean is, the other person has the right to know they were cheated on and to make a decision whether or not to forgive and stay with the person or not.
as an update. he's not telling her. I'll make sure to post an update if he cheats again...any bets ...bets? i'm jk.
at this point in my life, if my wife cheated on me,
I would stare at the ground in quiet serenity for a little while and just think all of this through, divorce her, not care about her anymore or what she did, and travel the world visiting sites and having girlfriends wherever I go.
Basically shrug my shoulders, oh well, and move on and do a lot of cool happy things. I'd be single again, so watch out ladies!! No serious relationships for me for a LONG time though. Might not even get married ever again.
I thought of this thread the other day when they played Kellie Pickler's new song " The Best Years of Your life" on the radio.
Man there is nothing simple or easy about that scenario.
Most of us have been person B, and everyone I know just about has been person A, whether they felt bad for it or not. I personally can say I have never cheated, but have been cheated on in the worst ways.
When she told me, I knew she felt bad and it was a genuine I'm sorry. But it didn't matter to me, it ultimately stunned the relationship and months later it finally collapsed from staggering too long in the storm. Of course I was genuinely happy she confessed and had the guts to come clean, but it felt like a left upper cut on my heart.
I hope I never have to feel such things again for it took me a long time to get over that, then her, then find myself and figure out what to do with my life. A couple months ago (first week of Jan.) I finally came to terms and got my closure randomly one night. But that scar will always be there. When she told me, the weird feeling of something's wrong had made sense.
I wish people would just believe in their significant other, and love better. It's easy to cheat, or do wrong to someone. It's hard to be true and honest. But the payout is so awesome if people could just be straight and honest.
when she told you, i bet you 2 had sex that night
and it, hit it and quit it
I think you should know your spouse well enough to determine whether he/she would want to know if you cheated on them. Myself, I think I'd frankly rather live in ignorance. Especially if it was just a one time thing.
did what the other lady did in one of teh articles posted on this site a few weeks ago
sniff....
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