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Not too long ago I hooked up with a 15 years old, is that ed up?
Maturity is a state of mind.
Not too long ago I hooked up with a 15 years old, is that ed up?
balli never came back!
Assume nothing. My old man and I began our fling when I was 19 and he was 25 - we've been married for almost 12 years now.
Aside from that, as one of the other posters mentioned, a girl that age is most likely just using you for her own fun and would like some other man's body just as well as your own. What makes you think you're so special she'll want to keep you forever?
In this country you would be arrested and charged with rape if you are 18 or over.
I personally could care less. As long as they are legal. And I sorta prefer them to be out of that "teen" age bracket, but it isn't mandatory. I dated a girl who was 18 and I was 23. I felt sorta weird at first until I saw her body outside of clothes and those weird feelings immediately left. And truth be told most of the women who are around my age already have kids. No thanks to that one. I see soooo many hot pieces of young ass at my gym it is beyond ridiculous.
There are a lot of responses in here I want to reply to, so I'll just sum them all up with this:
Ruff is right, I'm not an asshole (yet anyway). There's nothing wrong with that. My soul isn't going to let me some teenage girl under false pretenses before hitting the road. If she was older and more worldly and could see it coming, or if I was closer to her age, I might be more cool with it. But I'm not. Maybe most people don't 'get' moral fallout, but I do and it isn't pleasant.
It is true that she could be in for all the wrong reasons too. I hadn't considered that she was into anything other than my stunning intellect and maturity. And if so, I just need to find that out, because I think I can manage to deal with a 19 year old girl using my aged body.
Her dad just died of brain cancer last year- so that complicates things in terms of how well I have to treat her and what/why she's looking at this older pothead.
I started this thread not to be a clueless asshole, but because the only advice I get from my friends is the 'tear her in half' variety and I needed a different outlook.
I've dated up before. When I was 22 I spent a few months with a chick who was 27 and yeah, the age difference/maturity gap killed it. So that's the reason I'm pessimistic about age not being an issue.
I'm probably going to take her out tonight- to a clean, reasonably priced restaurant and I'll feel her out the best I can without straight up dropping my balls and negotiating a contract like situation. I'll probably end up hitting it for longer than I want, before letting her down easy. Or who knows, maybe I'll grow to like her.
Finally, this girl is too hot for me. If I never post again after today, it's because I stroked out on top of her. , wish me luck.
I'm 23, in my defense she was in a club where only people over 18 can (should) get in and she looks like a full grown beast.
Just give her a hundred bucks after you do her. That should make her feel better.
Dude, why are you freaking out over a 19 yr old when you are only 26.
That is nothing. You speak as if she is sub 18.
surrreeee.
every 19 year old girl i know says the exact thing then gets heartbroken/embarrased faster than you can say ma-tur-ity.
dont take young girls seriously. ever. they're fresh from their household, where their parents thought they were the most mature and greatest women ever to walk the earth.
you're scared to bang a hot 19 yr old, dumb. the fact you're planning on this is funny. did yall sit down and plan it out that it would happen this wk, like yall are 16 and waiting for the parents to go out of town, funny
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If she's over 18, who cares?
I feel sad inside having read this . You don't need advice. Get some slickum for your hang-down.
Let us know how it goes.
Whatever. I didn't say I was never heartbroken or embarrassed, so I don't know what your point is. My point, is that there is differing degrees of maturity in teenage girls and if you don't know that, you must not know many teenage girls.surrreeee.
every 19 year old girl i know says the exact thing then gets heartbroken/embarrased faster than you can say ma-tur-ity.
dont take young girls seriously. ever. they're fresh from their household, where their parents thought they were the most mature and greatest women ever to walk the earth.
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do it once more for memory sake, a week later, make your long term interests known.... if she stays, cool. if not, move on, on to the next one....
Bali..............She's in it for the weed.
i didnt say there wasnt varying degrees of maturity, but the vast majority of girls think theyre such a case study.
a sign of maturity to me is humility, and all the girls running around claiming theyre so mature really doesnt help their case very much.
wgaf
pics???
I turn 40 this year. Both of y'all would seem like kids to me, were we all in the same room.
I don't see all that much problem with this. If both get their yas yas and neither has any sky-high expectations about any committment, you are both old enough to enlist and get into combat.
Hilarious thread.
Balli, I would be most concerned with the fact that RuffnReady seems to be your psyche-mate.
Tell her all you want to do is , and then knock the bottom out of it. I just don't see where conscience plays a role in this situation.
There is wonderful potential in this scenario. If she loves to , you can get her hooked and then always have a booty call on standby.
I come from the school of thought that states- "If a man believes he understands the way a woman thinks, he is one."
My first wife was seven years younger than me, we were married for ten years, and remain decent friends. I was 25 when her older brother introduced us. At the time, I was seeing a woman 13 years senior. Recently, I parted ways with my last girlfriend (she is nine years older), because after four years, she couldn't remain just friends. So, I guess I've actually had some experience with relationships that involved some age disparity, but as I stated, I don't understand the question. If a young woman enjoys giving you head, then you cultivate that relationship at that level as any reasonable person would.
Great problem to have, balli.
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