A question for the ladies of spurstalk.

[SpursWoman]

i have turned a few damaged goods around in my day trying to show women that not all men are the same, but i mean come on why does it take like a dream guy to do stuff like that women should start a clean slate when they start talking to new guys

Haven't you been in this forum throwing all of your testosterone around about how you've cheated and are ALWAYS the one to say adios?



Dude...you're a damaged goods maker, not turner-arounder.

[tlongII]

what i can say is i know that a lot of women are messed up when they get into relationships now days because someone has ed them over in previous relationships the difference between women and men sometimes is that us men will get over it and love someone again in the next relationship, where as women carry what id like to call baggage from the past relationships and automatically think that that the new guy is going to be like the old guy was.......this is a classical form of what i like to call "Damaged Goods" i have turned a few damaged goods around in my day trying to show women that not all men are the same, but i mean come on why does it take like a dream guy to do stuff like that women should start a clean slate when they start talking to new guys

So now you're calling yourself a "dream guy." Oh, okay.


BTW, thanks for the Jessica Alba sig!

[batman2883]

Haven't you been in this forum throwing all of your testosterone around about how you've cheated and are ALWAYS the one to say adios?



Dude...you're a damaged goods maker, not turner-arounder.

no i never cheated but i am the one that always says adios.....and tlong no im not saying im a dream guy but in order to turn damaged goods around you have to act like a dream guy you have to give them everything they want and sweep them way off their feets more than an average person who hadn't been damaged before

[SmotPoker]

Well, again, thanks for all of the advice. But I'm moving on, in fact, I had a little flingl yesterday with my ex from hs. I have a job now, and I don't smot the poke as often as I did. All of you have valid points though, and I appreciate them...some of which are just ridiculous.

[easjer]

the difference between women and men sometimes is that us men will get over it and love someone again in the next relationship, where as women carry what id like to call baggage from the past relationships and automatically think that that the new guy is going to be like the old guy was......

You have got to be kidding me. Ok, let me make a gross generalization too - all abusers are men. I know this because every abusive relationship I've been in (and that would be three) were with abusive men.

Jackass.

I was in a relationship with a guy who couldn't let go of the woman he 'loved' and nothing I ever did was good enough for him because he wouldn't let go of that image of the perfect woman. Thank God I met my husband after him (and if I'd assumed my husband was anything like the abusive assholes I'd been around previously I would not be married to him now, because he never would have had a chance).

It happens to both sexes. You may have more experience with women, because that is the gender you primarily date, but it's not a gender issue.

And the reason people assume you are talking about yourself is that your post is awfully personal. For future reference.

[Wifey]

no women are pretty much heartless...they have no end to their fury, us men we get mad and do stupid little things to get even, like lets say cancel the credit cards, women will sleep with your best friend to make you mad.....women have no hearts....thus the statement, hath no fury like a woman scorned

You seem to have some serious issues...

[SpursWoman]

Isn't that the GiG.

Eh, you're right ... they all look a like.

[Mr. Defense]

You seem to have some serious issues...

hi honey. i LooooVE you...


call me laters, i'm out for now.

YOU don't spend too much time here, you gots work to do!

[Mr. Defense]

and i took just took away my avatar that makes you angry...your welcome.

[Wifey]

what i can say is i know that a lot of women are messed up when they get into relationships now days because someone has ed them over in previous relationships the difference between women and men sometimes is that us men will get over it and love someone again in the next relationship, where as women carry what id like to call baggage from the past relationships and automatically think that that the new guy is going to be like the old guy was.......this is a classical form of what i like to call "Damaged Goods" i have turned a few damaged goods around in my day trying to show women that not all men are the same, but i mean come on why does it take like a dream guy to do stuff like that women should start a clean slate when they start talking to new guys

you have no clue about what women want do you?

First, you sound like the kind of guy women should stay away from. You get with them for one intention only and then dump them. You have no idea what love is. Once you find your true love and she dumps you, you will understand, until then you will just continue to be you.

Second, women and men are different and you need to understand those differences in order to make a relationship better.
Give her affection, communication and security. Those usually are the top three.

Third, not all women are the same. You need to find out what she likes and work with her. A relationship is more than just sex...its commitment to that person. To make them happy and by doing so you will be happy.

[Mr. Defense]

but the sex is Good too!

[Wifey]

hi honey. i LooooVE you...


call me laters, i'm out for now.

YOU don't spend too much time here, you gots work to do!

I had interview on Monday with Wells Fargo and tomorrow with Disney...what about you?

I have applied to 13 jobs in 3 days, you? Please, who is the hard worker around here.

love you and thank you for getting rid of JLH...

[batman2883]

you have no clue about what women want do you?

First, you sound like the kind of guy women should stay away from. You get with them for one intention only and then dump them. You have no idea what love is. Once you find your true love and she dumps you, you will understand, until then you will just continue to be you.

Second, women and men are different and you need to understand those differences in order to make a relationship better.
Give her affection, communication and security. Those usually are the top three.

Third, not all women are the same. You need to find out what she likes and work with her. A relationship is more than just sex...its commitment to that person. To make them happy and by doing so you will be happy.

you have not one clue about me so dont ing assume i dont get into realtionships for one thing only if i only wanted one thing i would just get it without the relationship so until you truly get to know me....kiss my ass with your stupid assumptions

[bigzak25]

I had interview on Monday with Wells Fargo and tomorrow with Disney...what about you?

I have applied to 13 jobs in 3 days, you? Please, who is the hard worker around here.

love you and thank you for getting rid of JLH...

ehhh...save it. i'm in like flynn at SAISD and Harlandale...i get to pick.

and Mr. P is giving me a hookup at a private Charter School...so I gots mine.

matter of days only...so i'm gonna party tonight...just fyi...but i won't get drunk...pomise...

[bigzak25]

you have not one clue about me so dont ing assume i dont get into realtionships for one thing only if i only wanted one thing i would just get it without the relationship so until you truly get to know me....kiss my ass with your stupid assumptions

yeah! you tell her!

i got your back bro.


unless she tells me to shut the up...


in which case....your on your own again...

[batman2883]

HA HA HA dude i can't take when people think they know someone they have never ing met....trust me im a great ing guy in person, and i don't deal with women in a bad way, i treat women with the utmost respect and even refer to every girl/woman as ma'am regardless if they are younger than me or not. I have never cheated, and i don't play games, sure i have had numerous outings with different women but that was on mutual levels....i never got with someone just for sex...i choose my relationships wisely

[Wifey]

you have not one clue about me so dont ing assume i dont get into realtionships for one thing only if i only wanted one thing i would just get it without the relationship so until you truly get to know me....kiss my ass with your stupid assumptions

calm down dude...you seem to have an at ude problem...

You don't know anything about women and that's why you have such a hard time with them and cannot stay in a relationship....good luck though...perhaps you just haven't found your compatible match yet...

[batman2883]

oh i know a lot of about women, trust me if i didnt then i would have been the one being dumped all the time, the one thing i can say i have a problem with is commitment, cause i choose not to want to be in anything longer than a year...im too young for anything else

[Wifey]

yeah! you tell her!

i got your back bro.


unless she tells me to shut the up...


in which case....your on your own again...

YOU ARE VERY DISRESPECFUL AND THE #1 IDIOT ON WOMEN ON THIS FORUM...other wise I would be next to you but we are apart...so, don't get me started.

[Wifey]

HA HA HA dude i can't take when people think they know someone they have never ing met....trust me im a great ing guy in person, and i don't deal with women in a bad way, i treat women with the utmost respect and even refer to every girl/woman as ma'am regardless if they are younger than me or not. I have never cheated, and i don't play games, sure i have had numerous outings with different women but that was on mutual levels....i never got with someone just for sex...i choose my relationships wisely

we have met...at GTG at Kori's house...I remember you...

[batman2883]

Yeah and was i rude in any way shape or form?? I have never been to anyone, and sure you met me but you didnt get to know me...big difference

[bigzak25]

YOU ARE VERY DISRESPECFUL AND THE #1 IDIOT ON WOMEN ON THIS FORUM...

wow...i just got OWNED. thanks for my new sig!

[Wifey]

oh i know a lot of about women, trust me if i didnt then i would have been the one being dumped all the time, the one thing i can say i have a problem with is commitment, cause i choose not to want to be in anything longer than a year...im too young for anything else

my point exactly...you don't want to commit because you are not in LOVE...that's all...its ok to say it...once you are in Love...commitment is nothing.

[midgetonadonkey]

my point exactly...you don't want to commit because you are not in LOVE...that's all...its ok to say it...once you are in Love...commitment is nothing.

Even when you are in love commitment isn't easy.

[batman2883]

no its not that i was deeply in love with my last g/f with all my damn heart i was in love but i was looking out for my school too she wanted a deeper deeper commitment i couldnt give her, she knew before we started i told her i wasnt even going to think about marriage till after im done with school, cause i want to be able to support a my wife and kids when i have some with her. I want to be able to support and not make her suffer while i went to school.........