if it was only a few minutes of feeling like it would be worth it, but ive felt like for a long time
Why didn't y'all talk about this before she left on her trip and set some boundries? I'm putting this on both of you. This is obviolusly a turning point in the relationship, good or bad. You could always say you slept with those girls, even if you did just get some ass and it "didn't mean anything." Be a bigger man and tell her the truth straight up if you really do love her. But if you don't, as it seems to most of us, I really hope those bruises on your face she gives you never heal.
if it was only a few minutes of feeling like it would be worth it, but ive felt like for a long time
i wasn't trying to encourage the dude either way, just saying if he is willing to admit that she has "been around" that perhaps he shouldnt feel so bad about his cheating since she is not exactly the monogomous type. i don't know anything about their relationship but neither does anyone else in this forum. i agree with you that it would probably would be best for both parties involved if they broke up and moved on.
I don't know if she cheated and I don't know if she's a 2 bit . I know that YOU cheated and you're trying to justify it. You're a head for that. Man up and tell her.
You're an idiot.
Its Not My Fault... She Snoozed She Lost... Bottom Line, She Know Im A Pig And Left My By My Lonely So There... She Has To Know That The Party Goes On.. With You Or Without You.
On both of them? Are you stupid as ? Is she supposed to write him a note telling him he's not supposed to cheat? You're ing re ed.
Like I said, you don't love her and you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship. Break up with her and all the girls you want.
Man, give me her email or some form of communication if you really feel that way so I can send her a link to this thread. I bet your ass would turn into a pile of crying before you do something like that.
, I can already hear it. "I'm sorrrrrrrry"
Wow, you're an ass ... You're going to try to blame this on her? Even if she did get around before, that doesn't mean that's what she will do now. Quit typing in all CAPS, the forums won't allow it ... freakin learn by now.
Anyways, I hope she's Hispanic and has a VERY overprotective family. Maybe you'll find out the definition of stupid the hard way. Or you could put your in your pants, pump the blood to the right brain and look it up in the dictionary.
i really cant say she isnt the monogomous type, cuz she never cheated on me and never gave me reason to doubt... and when i met her she had a boyfriend, but we never even had sex until they broke up... so thats why i feel like
Have you ever heard two wrongs don't make it right? Make up your damn mind.. you know it's your fault and with all you're saying right now trying to justify it... I can't believe you've managed to keep a girlfriend this long.
Before she left asshole.
i accept that your right... but see thats the point... everyone in this thread is right and im a s.o.b lying cheating lowlife bas .... but i love her and i dont want to break up with her... and dont want to tell her... so what can i do?
Yeah, I understand what you meant and thats why I called you re ed. If Jess goes to Houston, I don't have to tell her "Don't any guys!"
So yeah, you're ing re ed.
Why should she have to sit down with him and tell him not to cheat before she left? They are in a monogamous relationship.
Should I tell LJ not to cheat every time he leaves the house without me?![]()
Ashbeeigh, I suggest you never do couples' counseling if you think a person needs to leave a note on not cheating before they leave on vacation.
Well, you can either tell her or not, but if you don't tell her you better get your ass checked and make sure you don't have anything. I really think she's better off without you and she should have a right to decide, but I don't think you'll tell her.
I almost used you and Jess as my example because everyone knows that Lj and I don't do anything separate.
okay kori maybe if you know lj was a cheating bas .. then u might have to tell him not to cheat...
Well this isn't you and Jess is it?
So you've cheated on your girlfriend many times before and she knows already that you are a cheating bas ?
From what I am reading mcornelio this may not be your last day to be single.
Ashbeigh, just shut up. Just shuuuuuuuuuuuuuut up because you're just making yourself look dumber with each post. We all understand that you allow your significant others to piss on w ever they want, but thats not the norm. Neither is being pissed on, for that matter.
if she asks ill tell...believe me not telling is enough suffering for me... i feel like all of the things the angry women from the board have called me are true... but i cant do about it... cant argue against any of them... ill see her tonight when i get out of work... hopefully everthing will be ok
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