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Exactly!
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Exactly!
I have never been a fan of the games;one of my college roommates was terrible about it. So she ran off alot of pretty nice guys and ended up miserable most the time. What surprises me now, is how viciously skilled young girls are that these days. Because of my son, I spend way too much time with teenage boys and they tell me EVERYTHING. I don't know where these girls learn this stuff so young. Unless their moms still do it.
hahahahahhahaha. That's awesome advice!
That's so sad.
Girls need to be honest, too. If the guy asks you out, and you do not want to go out with him, just say so- nicely. Don't think you are sparing his feelings by saying you have to check your calendar or you are really busy right now. Then, he thinks you really mean that and he wonders about when to ask you again.
Damnit, just smoke the damn pot and get it over with. You don't need a woman's advice for that. Just spark it up and be done already.
Fvck.
Nah. He got pwned. It is what it is.
That's not my problem at all...I don't have a problem getting dates...and even if I did, I'm not going to ask 40 women out in the hopes that one of them will me...that's why women think guys only want sex. That's why being nice doesn't work a lot of the time in the first place. Because guys see...ooh female, I like. Without giving it much other consideration. And IME. Women see right through that .
And in truth the women thinking those guys just want sex are right, because guys that take that approach are just looking for sex...and let's face it, in about 60% of a man's relationships...as it is ending, the first thought that runs through his mind is that is could potentially be a while before he gets laid again...unless he's got someone else lined up...I'm sure it's similar for women. And again...I think most of the time the woman knows the guys biggest hang up is that he doesn't want to go without getting laid for a month.
And in truth...it most likely will be a while before he gets laid again....because women don''t want to be called s.
I'll pass on the numbers game/meat market scene pretty much...getting a date is not my problem. I don't have some maniacal urge to be in any relationship I can get my hands on....
Okay--
No more joking--some serious advice.
I don't know how old you or your future girlfriend is, but it seems like the younger the woman, the more apt she may be into game-playing.
Now remember--this is a generalization only.
There are exceptions. A lot of older women may be into games or may be really ed up from years of getting shafted by the pricks they dated/ ed/married/lived with...etc.
Some younger women may be straight forward, honest, and sincere.
That being said--
1. Never let them know that you really like her too early. Women hate that---they need some mystique or they get bored.
2. Never let them see you sweat. The girl is too busy to call you back or ignores you? Whatever you do--do NOT under any cir stances let her know this pisses you off. If you talk to her again (and I would not unless she had a dam good reason for giving you ), need to act like you hardly noticed. Make her think you probably were with some babe the night she was supposed to go out with you.
I know Angel is going to disagree.
After all--she is an Angel.
And a damn fine one at that...
Last edited by Man of Steel; 12-03-2007 at 03:51 PM.
Norcal, what happened? Whatever it was, you didn't get "owned" because there is no "owning" in personal relationships, not amongst sane, balanced people anyway.
It is not a game with winners and losers, it's just "match" or "no match", and you'll get 10 "no match"s for every "match" unless you are not picky. IMHO, there's no point being in a relationship just for the sake of it, so the hardest thing in dating is finding someone compatible that I want to try and build something with.
If I have any advice it is not to go for the total hotties/ultra-cool set - they can have any guy they want, so unless you are on their level of "cool" you're never going to get anywhere. Go for a girl with a compatible personality who you also like the look of because that has a higher chance of working out.
Also, prepare yourself for frustration. In my experience, many young women go for arrogant wits who treat them like until their mid-20s when they start to wake up to themselves and look for nice guys. If you can be the arrogant wit they want good luck to you, but if you are actually a nice guy (and I suspect that you might be, despite some of what you say on this board), then cross your fingers and hope for the best... or date older women!
Don't listen to these twits NorCal. Go for the hotties! You're young so why not?
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Or in SequSpur's case, the booster seat!
I was just thinking how much I disagreed with you with I saw what you posted about me.
And before I rip your thread apart, thanks very much for the sweet compliment.
That said...
As to your first point...
If a guy likes me, I would not want him to put off saying so.
Granted, it would help his case if we had spoken a few times or at least long enough to where I felt he had, had time to learn something about me.
The guys that walk up and immediately start hitting on me are a turn off but so are the guys who think I am cute, funny, whatever but are afraid to tell me.
I don't want a boy friend who is timid and scared, especially of me!
Regarding your second point...
If a girl 1) does not find a guy to be interesting enough to call and/or 2) does not respect or regard him enough to return his calls, then she is not worth his time.
Don't play her game. Don't seek revenge. Just pity the fool who will encounter her next.
All I ask of any guy is that they be honest about who he is and that he has a genuine interest in who I am.
If I can't respect and befriend a guy, no matter how cute he is, I won't even consider dating him.
That rule has meant a lot less dates but it has also prevented a lot of wasted time and broken hearts.
So to me it is worth it.
Norcal, what happened? Whatever it was, you didn't get "owned" because there is no "owning" in personal relationships, not amongst sane, balanced people anyway.
It is not a game with winners and losers, it's just "match" or "no match", and you'll get 10 "no match"s for every "match" unless you are not picky. IMHO, there's no point being in a relationship just for the sake of it, so the hardest thing in dating is finding someone compatible that I want to try and build something with.
If I have any advice it is not to go for the total hotties/ultra-cool set - they can have any guy they want, so unless you are on their level of "cool" you're never going to get anywhere. Go for a girl with a compatible personality who you also like the look of because that has a higher chance of working out.
Also, prepare yourself for frustration. In my experience, many young women go for arrogant wits who treat them like until their mid-20s when they start to wake up to themselves and look for nice guys. If you can be the arrogant wit they want good luck to you, but if you are actually a nice guy (and I suspect that you might be, despite some of what you say on this board), then cross your fingers and hope for the best... or date older women!
actually the girl was about 2 years older than me... well maybe a little less but she was a in hottie. still pulled her number... but it.
out of all my years on this earth, i still havent asked a girl out.
rejection is a very strong force indeed.
NEVER TAKE THE ADVICE OF THIS MAN.
Shocking as it may be, I'm going to have to go with Sanity on this one.
The stereotype that all "hot" girls are inherently evil/ y/manipulative/shallow is one that annoys me every bit as much as any other stereotype mentioned in this thread.
Right, because you're the hot that has nice big ties but you aren't a little ty like all the rest. Okay, just kidding.
Simmer down.
In case you hadn't noticed, I've been actually contributing to your thread instead of acting like an ass.
No- that would be me.
You took out an important part of my quote.
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