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Great show! Except it's been so long since the season finale, I don't even remember where it left off.
CC--true dat!
For every woman that wishes her husband didn't work/think about work so much there are ten that wish their lazy husband would get off his ass and go make them a good living.
CC--true dat!
Wow. And all it took was you starting this thread.
Spurstalk saves relationships.
What?!? Nothing has changed. Obviously, it ISN'T enough for you or you wouldn't have made this thread. Don't kid yourself.
Isn't the problem with the reciprocation of said love? Sounds like 'as long as he allows me to love him...' can be subs uted for 'as long as i blindly continue on the same path that made me start this post in the first place...'
I know. But I'm gonna have to make do with it. As many said I can't change him. I never can. All I can do is hope for the best.
That sucks. One day you're going to get tired of "hoping for the best" and it'll hit you how unhappy you really are.
If you're willing to "settle", then that's all the happiness you deserve, and you've become what's in the picture above.
Dare to not live a fear-based existence. That advice doesn't just apply to relationships.
He's cheating on you.
Only time can tell. What do you know? Maybe 'the best' could happen? I'd take my chances.
True but you also have to be realistic and know that he's been like this, according to you, for the longest time being a workaholic. Kind of hard to make people change, no matter how much you love them.
Anyway it's all been said already. Either accept him for who he is or move on to find that missing part that you seem to long for.
You need to take a step back and think for a bit. What would you tell someone in your position?
Yep. I'm gonna have to go with the former. I'd learn to live and shut up eventually.
And what would "The best" be? What's that target or bullseye?
Yes.
He's banging his secretary.
She probably looks like the long necked chick from the Orbitz commercial that calls the other chick a "lint licker".
I love that commercial.
I don't really know your situation but this is what I'll say.
Don't be blinded by love. That will get you in trouble in the future sooner or later if you're unhappy now. It'll just keep repeating over and over if you're not careful even though you've come to "accept" it. You may think you've accepted it but you also may have subconsciously surpressed it. That stuff will start seeping out during fights and sooner or later, boom, it all comes out again. Friendly advice.
Anyway I'm not saying to break up with him. This is really up to you now how you'll approach this and you say you'll accept it so good luck.
Honestly, I don't know. I seem to have lost perspective.
success in the bed goes a long way.
You do realize that you're not living in a Hollywood romantic comedy, correct?
I say, take your frustrations out by cheating on him with a ST poster.
Call me.
Relationships and love need some kind of comprise. If one party gives while the other takes, the first party is going to be really unhappy and you don't want to be unhappy.
I don't really know your situation but this is what I'll say.
Don't be blinded by love. That will get you in trouble in the future sooner or later if you're unhappy now. It'll just keep repeating over and over if you're not careful even though you've come to "accept" it. You may think you've accepted it but you also may have subconsciously surpressed it. That stuff will start seeping out during fights and sooner or later, boom, it all comes out again. Friendly advice.
Anyway I'm not saying to break up with him. This is really up to you now how you'll approach this and you say you'll accept it so good luck.
Touche.
But how can I not be blinded by love? It hurts me, yes. But it also makes me very happy at the same time.
I don't think he's banging a female secretary.
Does no one pay attention to anything around here?
Yes. I know that, but one can fantasize, right?
Seriously, does the word leave and love mix?
I was chuckling...right up to the part where pee-wee propositioned a gay male. Then I LOLed.
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