The rules you just laid out.
The rules of the different demoninations.
Mainly, the existence of a , whatever it may be, is contradictory to an all loving and merciful god and can not coexisit, in my view.
I also find it contradictory to say I'm supposed to worship somebody while being on an equal level as them. And if I'm not on an equal level, then how can god not have pity on me regardless of what I may or may not do?
And, I don't need suc b to any organized religion, and I don't need to be an atheist. I can find spirituality within myself, and be at peace with that and nothing more. And if that happens to offend any god or son of god out there, so be it.