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She knows??!?!?!
*shrugs*
Maybe I was wrong. in my previous post.
and these times that he leaves are?.....
Should I tell LJ not to cheat every time he leaves the house without me?
*shrugs*
Maybe I was wrong. in my previous post.
It was about talking about concerns about their relationship. Not leaving notes, "Hey don't sleep with anyone." Damn.
no... she doesnt know it, but i am a cheating bas ... and i dont mean any harm by it... really its just i dont know... im a sick
mocrnelio, if she breaks up with you you can always date Ashbeigh so long as you get her the appropriate stationary for her to leave you non cheating instructions on.
Cheating ain't cool.
You give guys like me a bad name....
Not telling is suffering enough for you? Like not telling is doing your penance? You are a moron.
If she's hot don't tell her.
This thread was never about my dumb posts, and you're ing full of about everything you have ever heard about me. It was my opinion, for this guy, not for you.
It concerns me that you will eventually be giving advice for a living.
So you've cheated on her prior to this last month?
What makes you think you deserve the companionship and caring of a relationship?
If you love ing around so much, then just around.
Or are you not man enough to be without a steady girl?
Everyone can see right through what you're saying, mcornelio. If you really cared, you would have first of all NOT cheated. Since you did and you "care so much" then you should tell her everything about being a sick and BEG her to stay with you and help you. Look at the le of this thread! You don't care that much... be honest. You're not even happy she's back and you can be with her again... instead you'd rather have a bunch of one night stands.
I was never endorsing myself Jess, nor was I was ever saying it was what he should do. I don't understand how this turned into a "Manny and Jess attack Ash" thread.
Yeah, and looking at your thread le again, "My Last Day Of Being Single Again... Should I Be Happy Or Sad?", it saddens me that you considered yourself "single" while she was out of town. You do not need to be in a relationship. Break up.
a) Out of aaaaaaall the responses in this thread, like .5% are about you - it's not all about you, as much as you apparently want it to be.
b) You character (and inability to make a comprehensive point) does reflect on your abilities, and it doesn't matter if you were trying to endorse yourself or not.
c) If you weren't saying that's what he should do, then what was the point?
If you love her and are good to her then you should not tell her! You probably should try to avoid cheating in the future, but the only thing you're going to do by telling her is you're going to hurt her. It serves no purpose. You can't undo the cheating incident. Just carry that baggage on your own.
dude if its your character to sleep around then do both of you a favor and just end it then. even if you guys get past this, whats gonna happen next time she leaves out of town? your gonna go through this dilemma again? you say she knows your a pig and everything then its pretty simple what needs to be done-- end it and be done then you can do whatever you want without having to worry about feeling guilty about not being faithful.
Both of you responded to my one response to him with attacks. It was unnecessary, this isn't the quattro. That's what I would have done, I was letting him know.
That is what I was going to say. She deserves better than you and I hope you learnt your lesson, but I seriously doubt it.
You're not ready for a committment yet obviously, so just around till you are.
We responded with attacks because your initial response was stupid. It wasn't going to help mcornelio or anyone else, and it wasn't funny, so what was the point?
You would sit down with your boyfriend and discuss "boundaries" before going on vacation?
but i do really care dammit, if i didnt care i would feel like a lowlife piece of would i, i would just go about like nothing is wrong... i have cheated before and i always feel like afterwards... its usually not my idea its just that for some strange reason i always get caught up with some other ... i could wake up with nothing on my mind but going to work and going back home, but somehow i end up in a club somewhere... i think im gonna have to stop hanging out with my friends if im gonna stay in a single relationship its all their fault... i feel better blaming it on my friends... so sue me
You're blaming your friends? That's lame, you have no-one to blame but yourself. If you were truly committed, you wouldn't get in those situations.
I think you need to let this girl know what she is dealing with. If you really care about her, let her honestly evaluate the situation you have put her in and decide what she needs to do about it.
You seem to cheat compulsively and keeping your girl friend in the dark is just enpowering you.
You just don't want to accept responsibility. It is clear. Do whatever you want but dont' act like you give 2 s about what anyone else thinks or says you should do because its obvious you don't. I feel bad for the girl.
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