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Yeah goes to church, but sings in the choir.
Lead singer too. I'm going for the first time to the service this sunday.
Actually last night I was pretty relaxed for some reason.Tpark do you take random drug tests at work? I would recommend a hit off a joint to settle your nerves. But to be honest, if this was meant to be, no amount of weed or advise is going to stop your future from taking place.
Good luck!
But yes we do random drug tests around here year round.
Yeah goes to church, but sings in the choir.
Lead singer too. I'm going for the first time to the service this sunday.
Well then all I can say is..............listen to this before the next date to relax!
Tpark if you ever have doubts if your not good enough for your date? just think, it could be worse you could be this guy!
awesome.
Ouch! Poor Beno.
Best of luck to you T-Park.
I think it is good when guys are attentive. Bo messaged me every morning when we started talking. I looked forward to it and his being consistent helped build my confidence in him and a foundation of trust in our relationship.
Another thing Bo does well is he remembers things I tell him, long after I have forgotten I told him, as a matter of fact.
Every girl is different so where I liked the daily messages, some other girl might not.
If you are not sure what a girl prefers, ask her. I appreciate it when people make the effort to find out what I like.
Since you like this girl , I am assuming that she is sweet and authentic. Therefore if you pay attention, you will likely have a fairly good idea quickly whether or not things are going well.
I have found that the best way to overcome nerves in a social situation is to focus on making sure the other person feels at ease and is having a nice time.
Again, I wish you all the best and a lot of happiness.
Word!
TPark you sound like I did the first time I had my first serious crush, that was back in high school which was only like 3 years ago, but that's besides the point.
Anyways, the girl and I had amazing chemistry and for the first few nights we started talking outside of school we'd be up til 4 in the morning talking on the phone or she'd come over and watch TV and play video games with me...ah mthe memories. I thought to myself, "Wow I've never been able to talk to anyone like this, the chemistry...blah blah blah." Well my willingness to hang out with her whenever she wanted and asked was my downfall. By making myself too available to her, even when she would be the one asking to hang out, made me look not only desperate but pretty much like I had nothing else going on in my life, even though I did, I was just willing to make time for her.
A few weeks she stopped asking me to hang out, and when I would ask her she was less than enthusiastic about it. Still today I am convinced that she was pretty much the one, but I blew it and then spent a lot of time trying to figure out exactly what went wrong.
She was really my first serious crush, and after her I began to take a different approach to women. "Nice guys finish last" is not just a saying, it really is the truth. If you really like this girl you have to pretty much act the opposite way towards her. If she knows she can have you whenever she wants, then where's the excitement going to come from? It's like if someone told you that you could have your favorite meal every day, at first you'd be pretty excited then eventually be like ...I love Taco Cabana but not every ing day.
That girl did me a huge favor by pretty much losing interest in me, before her I hadn't really had any serious relationship or anything like that, but after she made me teach myself how to get and keep girls interested, I went from having maybe one or two girls a year to really date and to having that every week if I want it. Do yourself a favor, be aloof.
I fell for my wife real fast but what really helped was that she fell even harder for me. We were talking every night right from the start. She just couldn't get enough chalupa.
Yeah we've talked every night, but it hasn't been like hours and hours.
Texting and instant messaging to be honest, but other than that, we haven't spent alot of time on the phone.
When both get excited, then it works really well, but the problem is when only one does and does not realize it and scares the person away. Some people just take more time or have reasons to be cautious.
Try tossing her salad!
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