You quote him as being a hater and all, but you are on the opposite end of the spectrum though, your an apologist. The fact of the matter is, nobody knows what happened in that room, but you have to understand where apologist will almost always find a reason to apologize for kobe's behavior, the haters will always find a way to disprove him.
You are right, that kobe's off court antics shouldn't affect his bball skills, just like how you hate it when people downplay La's dominance by calling kobe a rapist, BUT, i'm sure you and your fellow apologist, when comapring Kobe and MJ, will start attacking MJ's character and off court antics as well. How many threads on laker grounds or elsewhere state, well Kobe never punched his teammate, or Kobe isn't as big an a-hole/trash talker as MJ, and etc... etc... etc...
the thing is it's very hypocritical to hate people to bring up kobe being a rapist on every thread, but it's also unfair for laker fans and etc... to diss MJ for his on and off court antics as well.
or another example, how many people were crucifying j-kidd for his wife-beating tendency, saying he was a scrub and etc... OR how many people were saying LBJ never gonna win a le, because of his behavior off the court, I mean it's ridiculous people, specially laker fans saying LBJ won't win cuz he's a loser of the court and has a bad at ude when they have KObe on their team.
Just saying, it's appears to me you guys are both hypocrites and nobody wins in your argument.