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We're talking average dudes here not in bill gates.
I dunno brah I bet if you had twelve cars and fifty million dollars in your bank account you could look like Peter Griffin and still pull Playmate of the Year ass.
We're talking average dudes here not in bill gates.
Honey I love a man that treats me nice at dinner and then turns into an animal in the sack.
Well those things would never happen to me because I am not a failure at life.
Have you ever considered suicide?
I think it's really just...being nice in and of itself isn't going to make the typical woman fall in love with you or make her want to sleep with you.
It's just not that simple...for men or women.
It's re ed to discuss this topic as if all women want the same thing or as if all men can be broken down into the category of either nice or an asshole. Neither of these assumptions work in the real world.
you nail any of those san marcos girls who are young enough to be your daughter yet?
if not go for delta zeta sorority girls
let them get like two beers and a xanax in them and then you don't even have to try
Really if you want to get a girl you have to walk right up to her and Miggs her. She'll be clawing back for more.
Not true, but nice Silence of the Lambs reference.
Is it fun having some assholes sloppy seconds?However, everything changed for me at about age 25 - suddenly women started to see me for who I was and I've had a series of great girlfriends since then. Nice guys can win in the end.
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I have met people just tonight that impressed the out of me. To waive the white flag prematurely speakes volumes of character.
they are in a tie with the rich ones
Homeland security, thanks for calling me a failure but you're not the first to call me a failure at life. And yes I have considered suicide but I'm not a quitter. There were many times while I was in college where I could have taken the easy pussy way out and quit but I didn't. I sucked it up and finished.
Women don't care about niceness. They care about security and money. They want men that are going to be able to support them and take care of them. Being nice doesn't mean if you can't take care of a woman financially.
5'6 200lbs is a fatass.
Nah I'm pretty much hung up on the age thing and am tired of worrying about it. I'd rather be at ease than worrying about that kind of . However, the other day in one of my classes this cute curly haired stoner chick that's gone out of her way to be friendly towards me came up and and sat next to me during a movie and dude she put her feet up on the seat and swung her hips and pelvis my direction and aimed her crotch at me for the entire movie. I was like dayumn...I don't remember many girls doing that kind of the last time I was in college. They definitely seem to be making them a little bit different now.
DOK,
On one end of the spectrum are "nice guys." On the other end of the spectrum are assholes. In the middle of that spectrum are "good guys." When you get older, you will want to be a good guy, not a nice guy. And it's not simply true that "assholes" get women. Charming assholes get women, because they are responding to the confidence and charm that those guys possess. Asperger's Assholes don't get women.
Confidence and having a backbone are two things that women pretty much universally respond to. You don't have to be an asshole to have those qualities.
It's called y comedy.
Laughter = approval, in fact, I've read as much as 90% of all laughter stems from approval of something or someone. The more you make a girl laugh, the more she subconsciously approves of everything you do, which makes you attractive
And being y should be something no man has to learn, its being over y and therfore, an asshole that ruins the angle for many.
Yeah, "nice guy" is really another word for sensitive wussy boy. I used to be a sensitive wussy boy. I lost my virginity way after the age when most boys do.
If you put them on a pedestal, shower them with compliments and gifts and treat them like a queen, then they don't respect you and take no interest because you're not enough of a challenge. I also lost 40 lbs and started learning how to dress and groom myself like a man. Don't insult them, but bust their balls a little bit and tease them like you would a little sister. Show them that you're not that impressed and that it's their job to impress you. And yeah, having a good sense of humor with a y edge works. My girlfriend is a good solid 8, and she's the kind of girl that would've never noticed me ten years ago. She's a former TCU sorority girl and I would've been intimidated by her when I was in college.
I think the problem here is the OP is confusing "nice" with "timid". You can be nice and assertive and I guarantee you women will usually respond. On the other hand, if you're a chicken about the whole thing, and play it safe the whole way. Riding the "but I respect her too much to do that"wagon all the way to "40 year old virgin" territory is NOT being nice, its being a pussy.
Yeah, once you adjust the semantics, it becomes a lot easy to figure out where these guys are going wrong.
"Sensitive, timid wusses finish last." Well, no .
The problem is that guys who don't pull ass tend to think hot chicks are smart and can guess their every move, or that they need something incredibly original and/or thought provoking to break the ice, the guy himself thinks he doesn't deserve her, etc
Approach her like she's a 2, treat her like she's a 2 if she's being a , while being as physically attractive as you can be. You will get your share of hot es if you do this.
Don't get me wrong, there isn't a fool proof formula for anything when it comes to picking up women. At least, I don't think there is. Plus, I'm far from being an authority on the matter, but I've gotten laid enough times in my life to know that the whole "nice guys finish last" bull is not about nice guys, its about pussy's who don't want to admit it. I know, I was one of them. A long dry spell forces you to do some soul searching let me tell you, and that is exactly what I was being, a pussy, and pussies don't get pussy.
Agreed. If there's one thing I learned selling food door to door all day, its that everyone's hungry so you can't pass anyone up.
Hit up every you find attractive and stop caring. Pussies don't get pussy is a very ing good expression, dude.
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