How much does a girl's past..

[Wild Cobra]

Men don't turn down sex ever, unless she's hideous. Women do daily. Generally speaking.

How many women have you cheated on?

[mavs>spurs]

Im sorry. I guess i missed the memo that Army Wife = No Life

hanging out with friends and going anywhere to stay busy sure does beat the out of being depressed at home. jus sayin

[BlairForceDejuan]

A lot. Shows their true character in my experience.

[djohn2oo8]

How many women have you cheated on?

Technically, you can't "cheat" on a buddy because she's made it clear she's not looking for more. so none I guess. What I was saying is women get offered sex daily and turn it down because they likely aren't as horny guys on the daily. Women have to be in the mood, , men are always in the mood. I did have this chick as a " buddy" though I tried to make it more than what it was, but I got tired of trying and said why not...And we were in agreement that we were not together, dating or whatever, but one day I ed up and left my phone unattended. I forgot to delete this number from Vegas when I went and the rest was history. Didn't care tho cuz she had no business looking through my phone. I'm 21 and right now there's no point of being serious b/c lotta girls around my age don't know what they want.

[BlackSwordsMan]

i have no problem going down on a girl who just got cream pied by another dude let alone a dude she slept with two days ago and has showered already
get over it stop being a prude

[IWantsACuatro]

This thread proves to me that 75% of posters on here are virgins.

I want someone like me

[TenBuckTammy]

Not all men worry about a woman's past. I still get proposals all the time.

[silverblk mystix]

Not all men worry about a woman's past. I still get proposals all the time.

[JudynTX]

Damn, I need a shower after reading this thread.

[mavs>spurs]

^retired old bag

[ididnotnothat]

I've never really delved into my gf's past and she hasn't gotten into mine either.

[Halberto]

I broke up with a girl about a year ago that I thought I would marry. It just became too much. I'm sure I've slept with more women than she has men, but I know she had slept with about 30 men. She was an attention , she loved whatever attention she would get. She treated me well, probably better than any girl I've been with, but blips of her past kept showing up. I would walk up on her flirting with guys, one actually put his straw between her s and her reaction couldn't have been more flirty. I got in his face and he walked away and she got mad at me telling me I was insecure. Couldn't take it anymore. I'd rather be with a much less attractive girl than deal with like that.

[djohn2oo8]

I broke up with a girl about a year ago that I thought I would marry. It just became too much. I'm sure I've slept with more women than she has men, but I know she had slept with about 30 men. She was an attention , she loved whatever attention she would get. She treated me well, probably better than any girl I've been with, but blips of her past kept showing up. I would walk up on her flirting with guys, one actually put his straw between her s and her reaction couldn't have been more flirty. I got in his face and he walked away and she got mad at me telling me I was insecure. Couldn't take it anymore. I'd rather be with a much less attractive girl than deal with like that.

yea, good thing you dumped her. My first time dealing with something like that I stayed too long, but I learned alot from it.

[The Reckoning]

as long as she hasnt been with any of my friends and isnt from my hometown, she's fair game.

[Halberto]

as long as she hasnt been with any of my friends and isnt from my hometown, she's fair game.

You say that, but that's pretty naive. Imagine meeting men she calls friends and finding out later they ed. Not cool. Makes you wonder about every guy she introduces to you as her friend... It can with your head. It did with me at least.

[CuckingFunt]

If all women who have had multiple sexual partners are s prone to cheating, are men who around casually also s prone to cheating?

And if so, does that mean that male cheating is just one of those inevitable things we have to deal with? And is better or more justifiable than female cheating?

Or if not, is it because men are inherently better at self control? (Because that would sort of contradict the justification for men's doggishness in the first place.) Or because they're better at separating relationship from casual sex?

If the latter, are men the only ones with any say over what cons utes a relationship? Should all women assume they're just a casual until the guy decides to let her know it's okay to develop stronger feelings?

[JoeChalupa]

If all women who have had multiple sexual partners are s prone to cheating, are men who around casually also s prone to cheating?

And if so, does that mean that male cheating is just one of those inevitable things we have to deal with? And is better or more justifiable than female cheating?

Or if not, is it because men are inherently better at self control? (Because that would sort of contradict the justification for men's doggishness in the first place.) Or because they're better at separating relationship from casual sex?

If the latter, are men the only ones with any say over what cons utes a relationship? Should all women assume they're just a casual until the guy decides to let her know it's okay to develop stronger feelings?

Not all men cheat and not all women who enjoy sex are s although most women who enjoy sex, thus having numerous partners, are considered s, s and "easy" and that is just the way it is for the most part. I've had booty calls that were not relationships and I never lost respect for them because of that. We both knew we weren't gong to be a couple but we enjoyed having sex together.

What I want to know is if a woman is a "single mom" how much of that is a red flag, siren going off warning to men? Does that mean she is a because she's had sex AND gotten pregnant before?

My wife was a single mom when I met her and I never even blinked when thinking about asking her out. I just knew that I wanted to go out with her and nothing else mattered.

What say you?

[JoeChalupa]

17 years later we are still together.

[JoeChalupa]

Dating women with kids is for cuckolds. Sane people don't to get pregnant unless they are married and sure that they won't to spend their lives with that person, so the fact that she is single means she made a mistake. And since she obviously wasn't trying to get pregnant, it's proof that she has probably ed A LOT in order to have an accident or two. So basically you're not only dating a that everyone has ed, but you're stuck supporting someone elses mistake and being THAT guy. It's just a cuckolding waiting to happen in most cases, the baby daddy will always be around if he wants to see his kids and women are known to get all sentimental and go back to them. You're asking to get cheated on and screwed over when you date a chick with kids.

That said, NOT EVERY chick with kids is a bad person and I'm sure there have been instances where a chick with a kid went on to recover, find someone else, and have a healthy marriage. But we're talking on average here. No man with testicles larger than peas is going to tolerate other s around.

Well, then by your standards I'm above the averages as we are still crazy in love and I'm sticking with it.

[JoeChalupa]

So then TC, does that same standard apply to men who get women pregnant? They too have made a mistake or is it just the women's mistake?

[CuckingFunt]

It isn't JUST that they're more prone to cheating.

That's just part of it?

A man just isn't going to see a woman who every other man has had as someone worthy of his respect. He isn't going to want to marry the girl that everyone has ed, unless he's desperate. She just isn't pure at that point and can't be his "everything."

Is a woman en led to have the same reservations about the guy she dates or settles down with? Should women worry that guys who've ed a lot of other girls can't be their "everything"? Would it be understandable for a woman to see a guy who every other woman has had as unworthy of her respect?

If a guy is ing you, I'd say yes don't expect anything more unless he lets you know so or you are probably setting yourself up to get hurt.

But the decision is still entirely his, right?

[FkLA]

A high number of sexual partners is in most cases indicative of the type of person the is. She obviously isnt very loyal or committed and probably isnt very honest either. Take that into account and the amount of guys, like all the cuckolds in this thread, who think its unrealistic to find a girl who hasnt been a hoe...and its no surprise that the divorce rates are so high.

[CuckingFunt]

A high number of sexual partners is in most cases indicative of the type of person the hoe is. She obviously isnt very loyal or committed and probably isnt very honest either.

But wouldn't that mean the same things could/should be said about men who lots of women casually? That they obviously aren't very loyal, committed, or honest?

And if not, why not?

[CuckingFunt]

it's her choice, but i don't see too many women with the backbone to demand this sort of thing

Is it because we don't have the backbone? Or because we've been encouraged not to make such requests?

not necessarily, you can also decide you don't want to be with him but you asked the question differently than that. you asked if women should assume that they are nothing more than a casual and i'd say unless he gives you reason to believe otherwise, then yes.

That still implies that it's the guy who controls the discussion. That's it's a woman's responsibility to assume that she's being used as a toy, rather than the guy's responsibility to assume he's entering into an adult interaction with a person who has feelings.

[FkLA]

But wouldn't that mean the same things could/should be said about men who lots of women casually? That they obviously aren't very loyal, committed, or honest?

And if not, why not?

Women with this mindset are pathetic. Expectations set by society are completely different for both sexes. Women have men at their mercy, there is no reason for them to sleep around when they can be selective about it. Men do have less self control when it comes to sex btw, that doesnt mean it makes its ok for women to stoop down to that level.