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Veronica gets it and she's never even been on a date! Ashbeigh, my statement that you are re ed stands.
Ugh.
You don't belong in a relationship. You've cheated now when she was just gone just a month and you cheated before. Blame it on her for leaving you home alone. Blame it on your friends for influencing you. Blame it on drinking. Whatever you want to do to make yourself feel better.
But bottomline is that she deserves the truth. If she chooses to stay with you and work it out, that's on her. But you can't deny her that choice.
Veronica gets it and she's never even been on a date! Ashbeigh, my statement that you are re ed stands.
If I were going to be gone for that long amount of time, a month, with tempting situations, which he implied, yes. I would at least say, "Hey, this is what I'm going to do what are you going to do?" (to be fair) Now if it were going to be a weekend trip to Houston or something, there would be no need for anything like that. But yeah, I do see how I may have been wrong in putting the blame on her for him cheating, which I didn't mean. And I agree with everything everyone is saying, and I'm not saying that I'm 100% right either. I mean, my God, I'm almost a nun in comparision to most people relationship wise. Mcornelio shouldn't pick out my post and run with it.You would sit down with your boyfriend and discuss "boundaries" before going on vacation?And if you didn't do that, then you would take responsibility for him cheating on you? I've never heard of such a thing.
really what advantages are their in telling her... shes gonna cry im gonna feel like , im probably gonna start getting all teary eyes... shes probably gonna say she hates me and hopes i die even thought its true... then she will probably calm down... look at me, tell me she hates me some more and that how could i put her in this situation then probably try to hit me... cry some more... but i see no point in making her feel bad by telling her. i just wished i could have kept my zipper up.
...what a waste of time. This guy can't even take responsibilty for his ed up actions. Get over yourself and tell her. Let her move on and if she decides to stay with your cheating ass than who gives a .
Don't be such a wuss. Just let her go and take it like a man. Now's the best time to do it since you've both grown somewhat accostomed to being without each other. You'll only be making a bad situation worse by staying with her. Salvage some shread of dignity and go through the heartache. It sure as beats dealing with the guilt you're gonna live through if you stay with her.
A month is NOT THAT LONG.
Ashbeeigh, your inexperience is showing.
Sigh.
You don't get it. You really don't get it. Jess has gone to Houston for months at a time. COUPLES DON'T DO THAT BECAUSE MONOAGAMY IS ING IMPLIED!
Ashbeigh, have you ever been in a relationship and spent a month apart from the other person?
Dude, don't tell her. You know I'm right. Of course the women in here are going to destroy you for doing this. The guys that are ridiculing you are just doing it to look good to women. It serves no purpose to tell her you cheated.
Does this mean I win a date?
J/K !
I admitted it! So, your attacks are all boiled down to my inexperience. And I'll leave it alone, if y'all will leave it alone.
This thread is not about my inexperience. You can PM me or IM me if you want to bust my ass. It's about mcornelio.
haha this turned into a on ashbeeigh thread.
He's cheated on her repeatedly. The purpose of telling her is that she can make a decision to stay with him while knowing the facts. Fooling her is the worst thing he can do. He's not even saying that he'll never do it again.
I can't believe ashbeeigh cheated on that dude!
My "attacks" are not all boiled down to your inexperience - they are boiled down to your irrationality and inexperience. Someone irrational would say to discuss boundaries before a month-long trip. Someone inexperienced would say that a month is a long time. Your mistake was twofold. But I'm willing to let it go now.
I told you to shut up earlier in the thread because each subsequent post was just making you look dumber. I'm glad you finally came to the same conclusion.
so what do i tell her? i cheated im sorry please dont dump me? doesnt sound like a good idea...
There are no advantages for you.
Don't you see how selfish you have been and are being?
All your reasons for not telling her are about you!
I say this because if you truly had concern for her feelings, you would not have cheated in the first place- much less multiple times.
I'm doing it because I've been cheated on. On top of that I had to find out through a friend of hers that I had been cheated on in the first place. It's a ty situation to be in and to think everything will be alright if nobody knows is asking for problems 2 fold in the future.
Bull . Women follow their heart, not facts. I'm sure this chick has a good idea of what he's like if she's been with him for 6 months.
Just let her leave and go some other chicks like you did when she was gone for a month. Don't be a pussy. Man up and take responsibility for what you did.
wtf... why the is this damned thread so big? wow you guys cant help but come in here and insult the idiot who cheated on the girl he loves can you?
Dude, people don't help out assholes. You're not some dude on the side of the road who needs a lift, what the did you expect?
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