Ray, please explain to me how bombing the crap out of the Middle East, destabilising the region, and riding in like Crusaders taking back the Holy Oil is in any way lessening the hatred of those people "who want to destroy us", or preventing them from doing so? It's not, it's turning more people to their cause.
Your thinking is so turned around it's insane. Somehow you believe that mass killing and subjugation of a people will lessen their tendancy to violence against their oppressor (which is the West, led by the US). That is absolutely ridiculous.
The course of human history, and every freakin Hollywood war movie for that matter, tells us that the more one race/nation/religion tries to force another race/nation/religion to their way, the more the oppressed will oppose it.
By invading Iraq without justification (and there was no link to 9/11 - the 9/11 Commission stated that, I've read the report), the US further destabilised the cradle of insanity that is the ME. In effect, your country managed to amplify the Muslim/Western divide and make religious conflict the greatest threat to the modern world. Well done.
