I wouldn't ever get into a relationship if I had the mentality of CuckingFunt. Ever.
No . I used to do the same thing CF does when I was single...make it clear from the get go it wasn't leading to a long term monogamous relationship or marriage anytime soon. Every time I broke up it was either because they were getting too serious or because I had found someone that interested me more.
Da ?You dont have morals then. Cant believe you boast about integrity/morals when youre wired this way.
She never said that. Why do you keep making this assumption?
You serious, bro? Shes single because she purposely ended a relationship with someone she loved so she could . If the relationship simply ran its course, shes single and she hooks up then cool nothing wrong with that. We know thats not the case though (her words), stop white knighting tbh.
then you didn't have girlfriends, doggie. those are buddies. ya'll didn't break up, ya'll just stopped ing. you don't treat ya girl like that. you either committ or don't.
Where did "out of the blue" come from? The whole point of my previous post is that I've recognized that absolute physical monogamy doesn't work for me and that I'm completely up front about that fact with people before we get into a relationship. I'm also up front about the fact that, so long as there's emotional monogamy/fidelity and complete honesty, I don't require physical monogamy from my partner, either. There's nothing out of the blue about going from "I may eventually want to sleep with someone else" to "I want to sleep with someone else."
Furthermore, nowhere in any of these posts have I said anything about developing feelings for anyone outside of my relationship. Emotional monogamy and emotional fidelity are things I take VERY seriously. The only way it would be possible for me to develop real feelings for another person would be if my feelings for my partner started to wane, which would itself be reason enough for me to, depending on other cir stances, either repair or end the relationship. When I talk about wanting to someone outside of my relationship, that's exactly/entirely what I'm talking about: wanting to . It's not about having a million simultaneous relationships. Nor is it about going out and hooking up indiscriminately. It's about following through on a sexual attraction/curiosity or relieving sexual tension with someone I know and trust. And it's something that a) only happens if/when everyone involved is on the same page with what it means and where my loyalties lie, and b) hasn't happened all that many times in my past.
okay so ya'll have buddies. this thread is about gf/bf's
No brah. Why not stay single and just bounce around (which shes doing anyway) and spare the poor person that is dumb enough to get in a relationship with you?
But then she wants to boast about how proud she is of her integrity.
@ Trills fantasy romantic relationships.
I absolutely have morals. They're just different than yours.
Which is why it's a great idea to make that clear from the start. Seems like a pretty considerate thing to do. For the record, I don't think I could have a relationship like that either.
you're such a troll...but hey, whatever makes you feel better lol. the reality is, what you think is a bf/gf relationship, was really just a buddy relationship. own it.
When I'm in a relationship, my partner is my partner. I take that bond very seriously and am absolutely committed to it. My definition of commitment just doesn't include or require physical monogamy.
And that's okay. It's what works for me. It doesn't have to work for you.
Ok, your morals are not those of an average person then. What a terrible way to live life tbh.
buddies =/= bf/gf
If you are in your perfect fantasy relationship and have totally ruled out the option of moving on then why aren't you married?
Is it too late to change my "women of Spurstalk" vote?
Who was that other chick? CuteSpurFan? She's probably not even a female.
You may not have picked up on this, because I keep it so well hidden, but normalcy really isn't terribly important to me.
lol average person morals
you slack jawed, dip chewing, brisket burning dummy lol i never said my relationship is perfect. all i said is what you're describing about your backwoods past, isn't a bf/gf relationship. i can say i haven't cheated on my woman and i committed to my woman. she is enough for me. i didn't put any qualifiers out there and sell her a dream like you did with your buddies
If you are in your perfect fantasy relationship and have totally ruled out the option of moving on then why aren't you married?
i can see why your wife left you.
Oh, so she is just a buddy. Got it.
and DAMN! My wife left me?
*checking visa bill*
Nope. Still here as far as I can tell.
62 and lonely...sad
It's normal for a relationship to not work out but saying, "Hey, I wanna dildo-bang this big tied girl I saw at the bar tomorrow sooooo, this relationship is over. You have 5 minutes to pack up your vibrators. Oh by the way, thanks for investing your emotional commitment to me during the meantime. It was delicious."
All your fault, tbh. You should know when you talk about strange this breaks out. It's a divisive topic in these parts.
There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)
Posting Permissions
Reply With Quote
