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That's much better advice...
Don't let them know that you would cut off your left nut to be with them... let them wonder if you're really interested in them or not. It's not dishonest, it's self control, and women like it.
You just gotta be willing to make eye contact(women love that ) and just go with the flow, dont be nervous, dont be over confident....and just explain the situation
That's much better advice...
Don't let them know that you would cut off your left nut to be with them... let them wonder if you're really interested in them or not. It's not dishonest, it's self control, and women like it.
holy crap. that is the first non- you ever posted.
I'm so proud I could cry.
What can i say im very capable, i just love posting
So... exactly how many times have you gone to PF Changs???
screw the beer keg.. you need to the holy for halloween.
Or you could be batman and your son could be robin... that would kick ass.
especially if you did up a littel kids wagon like the batmobile with cardboard and black spray paint.......
that would be a kick ass costume duo, i have got him all into batman too
So... exactly how many times have you gone to PF Changs???
We haven't yet ... maybe we can go for our 1 year anniversary ... a month from Sunday.
you should call and mak the reservations .. and get the sitter..... and do EVERYTHING to make it happen yourself.
then when you get there you can look him in the eye and say real sweetly: "thank you so much dear for bringing me to PF Changs.. this is really very nice and thoughtfull of you."
and with the wagon you could still be going strong long after he's too tired to keep walking.
just go up to the door and say "trick or treat! yeah.. thats my kid in the 'batmobile' wagon... yeah he has narcoplepsy.... yeah it;s really sad.. oh! extra candy?? why thank you so much....."
narcolepsy ha ha haha ha, that is funny
It's Adam Jones from A Perfect Circle.
1.take a shower,shave,and use AXE Tsunami.Spray it all over.
2.before you ask her out tease her.Smile at her,compliment her,small talk(you know give her an "appetizer")
3.Shyness? Use that to your advantage and just say what you feel and ask her out.Real women(not girls) like a man no matter if he's straight forward and all macho or shy.Speak from the heart(not from the nuts) and you will be allright.If she says "no" DON'T SHOW your emotions!Bluff it!Remember she's one in a million and if she didn't bite,keep her as a friend and go to the next.Women like to be chased but not stalked.
4.a card or a single flower with a smile,a sincere smile will go a long way.Do that before you even ask her out.
Everyone's different.It just depends on what you want from that certain girl you want to go out with.
You gotta go thru the fire an burn before you learn.
Last edited by minusplus; 10-14-2005 at 12:28 PM.
he's right you will get rejected a few times, but it will lead to a better path, just be prepared and dont give up after the first rejection
That's the way the cookie crumbles sometimes...
Aliyah said it best, and i follow these rules strictly
"if at first you dont succeed, dust yourself off and try again, you can dust it off and try again, try again."
Tell her you'll give her 50 bucks for a hummer.
Lots of good advice on here.to staying away from the movies. You just sit there, and there's way too much left to chance that can ruin the evening (the movie could suck or you get stuck sitting next to some assholes. Then she associates a bad time with your company. It's very Pavlovian, because women and drooling dogs aren't all that different.
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The putt-putt angle is a classic, and clearly its someplace that you'd feel fairly comfortable. And comfort is going to be the key factor here. You need to exude comfort and you need to make sure she is comfortable. One of the biggest hurdles you're going to face is convincing this girl that this isn't going to shift the earth's axis and ruin your friendship, so you can't appear to suddenly have this change in demeanor. She'll either think that a) you're just trying to get in her pants and/or b) you've been lying all this time while acting like a nice guy just to get close enough to try to spring this trap on her. Both are not good thoughts. The fact that you're friends already is IMO a huge plus. In my experience (and I'm not a woman so this could way off the mark in general) if you're friends with a girl it's kind of like being in the minor leagues. She clearly believes that there is some talent there, otherwise she wouldn't have brought you into the system, but you're just not ready for the big leagues yet. So clearly you've got something about you that she likes. If you know what it is, try to accentuate it.
After that you need what a friend of mine once dubbed the three C's. Calm, confident, compliment. If you're nervous you're going to make her nervous, if you come across like you think she'll say know, she's going to think that you know of some reason why she should say know. The compliment thing can be a little tricky but it sounds like you're in a position to make it work. There are two schools of thought on this: the first is that if you know something that she is self conscious about you can compliment her about it. If she believes what she thinks is a weakness is a positive to you then she's going to be less guarded and more open around you. The trick is that you have to use some finesse. If the girl has braces and hates them don't try to compliment her smile or she's going to smell bull on you. But if she's always complaining that she needs to lose ten pounds you can say something about how chicks like Paris Hilton make you sick because they're so damn bony, but she looks like a real woman. like that. The other is to compliment her on whatever she thinks is her greatest asset. At the very least it shows you know her well enough and that you agree on something. Again, finesse and sincerity are must haves. You're the only one in position to know which would work better. This carries over to the date too. The rule of thumb is that you should average something nice to say about her once an hour and a half or so. Any more than that and you look like a suck up.
Take this from a guy who blew a few good opportunities in high school because the problems you listed. I was uber-shy, I tended to put girls on pedestals, and the rare occasion that I landed a date, I blew it by trying to hard and changing from what the girl liked about me in the first place. I overhauled my approach once I got college and believe me, this works. I'm married, to a girl who was at first just a very good friend. You can do it!
Last edited by spurs_fan_in_exile; 10-14-2005 at 12:04 PM.
That is a straight up lie, and if it isn't then you are a in denial...
Thanks. Awesome advice.Lots of good advice on here.
The putt-putt angle is a classic, and clearly its someplace that you'd feel fairly comfortable. And comfort is going to be the key factor here. You need to exude comfort and you need to make sure she is comfortable. One of the biggest hurdles you're going to face is convincing this girl that this isn't going to shift the earth's axis and ruin your friendship, so you can't appear to suddenly have this change in demeanor. She'll either think that a) you're just trying to get in her pants and/or b) you've been lying all this time while acting like a nice guy just to get close enough to try to spring this trap on her. Both are not good thoughts. The fact that you're friends already is IMO a huge plus. In my experience (and I'm not a woman so this could way off the mark in general) if you're friends with a girl it's kind of like being in the minor leagues. She clearly believes that there is some talent there, otherwise she wouldn't have brought you into the system, but you're just not ready for the big leagues yet. So clearly you've got something about you that she likes. If you know what it is, try to accentuate it.
After that you need what a friend of mine once dubbed the three C's. Calm, confident, compliment. If you're nervous you're going to make her nervous, if you come across like you think she'll say know, she's going to think that you know of some reason why she should say know. The compliment thing can be a little tricky but it sounds like you're in a position to make it work. There are two schools of thought on this: the first is that if you know something that she is self conscious about you can compliment her about it. If she believes what she thinks is a weakness is a positive to you then she's going to be less guarded and more open around you. The trick is that you have to use some finesse. If the girl has braces and hates them don't try to compliment her smile or she's going to smell bull on you. But if she's always complaining that she needs to lose ten pounds you can say something about how chicks like Paris Hilton make you sick because they're so damn bony, but she looks like a real woman. like that. The other is to compliment her on whatever she thinks is her greatest asset. At the very least it shows you know her well enough and that you agree on something. Again, finesse and sincerity are must haves. You're the only one in position to know which would work better. This carries over to the date too. The rule of thumb is that you should average something nice to say about her once an hour and a half or so. Any more than that and you look like a suck up.
Take this from a guy who blew a few good opportunities in high school because the problems you listed. I was uber-shy, I tended to put girls on pedestals, and the rare occasion that I landed a date, I blew it by trying to hard and changing from what the girl liked about me in the first place. I overhauled my approach once I got college and believe me, this works. I'm married, to a girl who was at first just a very good friend. You can do it!
I actaully know what he's talkin about. That happens to me sometimes...If it's a chick that I've known for a while and I really like, then I normally don't think about it, I sort of think that I just wanna be with her or some other crap.
On the other hand, if it's a chick I just met, or a chick that I don't really talk to, then that's all I'm thinkin about.
IN ARGENTINA ASK GIRL OUT WE SAY "TOUCH MEAT MINE?"
Give her this:
ALVAREZ NO HIM SENORITA WITH.
Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you, the Argentine ducks.
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