A question for the ladies of spurstalk.

[SpursWoman]

I actually had in mind a few friends I have away from the forum when I said that....sorry.

That's what happens 15 years after the good girls get the bad boys. Which also makes me laugh at the several posts I've seen over the last couple of weeks here about girls only liking guys that treat them like ....I know how that always turns out. Eventually the good girls get tired of it, and bad boy ends up scraping the skidmarks off his own BVD's.

[Shelly]

Eventually the good girls get tired of it, and bad boy ends up scraping the skidmarks off his own BVD's.

Thank you. Thank you very much for that visual.

Now if you'll excuse me, I must go eat some chocolate now!

[SpursWoman]

Whats your definition of heavy drinker.

Someone who drinks a lot?

[SpursWoman]

Thank you. Thank you very much for that visual.

Now if you'll excuse me, I must go eat some chocolate now!

You're welcome!

[Mr. Defense]

Eventually the good girls get tired of it, and bad boy ends up scraping the skidmarks off his own BVD's.

scraping? wtf?

those don't need to be cleaned, those need to be thrown away...

[SpursWoman]

scraping? wtf?

those don't need to be cleaned, those need to be thrown away...

Fortunately I've never encountered such a thing ... I was just trying to think of something pretty damn nasty. Yeah, I'd imagine those would be -canned, so to speak.

[Mr. Defense]

and bishop, people who drink too much KNOW they do.

they just choose to accept it and say it...until something bad happens...THAT's when people learn lessons the hard way...

again, not saying this is you....actually...i'm talking about myself.

DWI in 2000. Public Intox in 2000.

Used to drive high too. Ask desflood...we use to party together...

seriously though...i'm lucky. i never hurt anyone physically.

and i don't do that no more...

although i did drink more than i should have last night...i knew i was cool and i wasn't drunk or buzzing and i made it home...lesson learned.

[SpursWoman]

Who the wears BVD's anyway.

Do they still even make them? Ya'll are too damn literal.

[pache100]

Let me put it this way do guys under 35 still were tighty whitey's. Damn I don't wear anything I figured all guys after 13 or 14 just let the boys go wherever the boys go.

EEEEEUUWWWW! That can't be comfortable.

[SpursWoman]

huh?




I'd imagine someone who would wear tighty-whities would do so for the support ... the same way women with big boobs need a well-fitting bra. The bigger they are, the more it hurts when they are allowed to just hang.

[Mr. Defense]

I have about 4 or 5 drinks a night over 4 hours sometimes more on Sat. Since my father in-law moved in I drink about a 6 or 7 beers on monday night. Maybe 2 or 3 nights a month I don't drink. I very rarely get faced maybe 2 or 3 times a year I would consider myself drunk. I get a buzz maybe once a week but only on my first or second drink on a empty stomach. I drink because I enjoy it and it relaxes me. Am I a heavy drinker or a alcholic.

so at a minimum, you have 4 drinks a night, for 27 days out of 30 per month.

more on saturday.

but now on mondays, your drinking a 6 pack.

but you only get face drunk 2 times a year.

you know that you get a buzz once a week (which i can only assume is a testament to your bodies high tolerance) but only on an empty stomach, even though you drink every day...almost everyday.

you enjoy drinking because it relaxes you.

okay. those are the facts, as spoken by you.

Let me ask you this. Do you believe that you NEED alcohol to relax?

And as for you asking others if your an alcoholic, only YOU can answer that question brother.

An alcoholic is not someone that gets drunk all the time.

An alcoholic is just a regular person...but one that has a DEPENDANCY on alcohol.

I've been there. I know. But i got tired of getting wasted, overeating and then throwing up in the back yard before i passed out...

so i switched to weed.

worked great. no calories. really really relaxed me.

but then i got lazy. i accepted all the tyness in my life.

tyness that I was responsible for in the 1st place.

so i quit weed.

and i'm trying to stop drinking, but it's not easy.

I don't get drunk though. NEVER.

and i've been to the bar 3 or 4 times in the past two weeks without drinking anything but water with lime...so i know I own my vices....i own them to the point where they are no longer vices. which is great.

ask yourself this brother. cuz i'm telling you this cuz i care for you as a brother even though we are of no relation.

so ask yourself...do you own the alcohol or does it own you.

Godbless you. You are in my prayers.

[SpursWoman]

I have about 4 or 5 drinks a night over 4 hours sometimes more on Sat. Since my father in-law moved in I drink about a 6 or 7 beers on monday night. Maybe 2 or 3 nights a month I don't drink. I very rarely get faced maybe 2 or 3 times a year I would consider myself drunk. I get a buzz maybe once a week but only on my first or second drink on a empty stomach. I drink because I enjoy it and it relaxes me. Am I a heavy drinker or a alcholic.

Everyone's tolerance for alcohol is different, but I'd definitely watch out if alcoholism runs in your family...and probably find a little more healthy way to unwind.

Of course you know that reformed heavy drinkers are always worse on the soap box than those that have never had a sip, right?

[SpursWoman]

Its also much easier to get a BJ while your driving if there isn't all kinds of layers for her to navigate.

OMG, don't even get me started on that one....

[Mr. Defense]

well man, i must say i admire the fact that you quit smoking.

and doing it for your wife and child shows just how good a man you are and how you can do anything you choose when you have the proper motivation.

as for your drinking?

One opinion matters Ryan. YOURS.

maybe you should ask those that LOVE you most in your life. see what they have to say about it. you'll KNOW that whatever they tell you, it's cuz they love you.

so ask them if your in need of some persepective.

it sound like you are very responsible with your drinking.

i give you props for that cuz there are very very few people that could drink like you do and be as responsible as you are.

You don't need and maybe you don't want my advice, but i'm gonna give it anyway and you can disregard as you choose...

but i'd suggest having a glass of water with every drink. alternate.

you lose nothing. you still get to drink as much alcohol as you choose to.

but your liver will be happier. i can promise you that.

Goodluck man. I'm done preaching on this subject...

now...as for your no underwear problem...

all i can say is? My boys need a house....a big one too...

and women have stopped wearing thongs now right?

i mean, how the can that be comfortable....

[TOP-CHERRY]

I love generalizing. Women don't have a ing clue. You gals think you can just throw a beer in our hand and turn on the game and thats enough.

We need quiet time at least a hour a day. We don't want to hear your B.S. about taking out the trash, do you look fat, and how uncomfortable Aunt Flow makes you feel when she come to visit. Enough. We are men keep it on the surface we show are love and apriciation through a kiss before bed, Prada, and Coach.

We are ing tired. We work all day so you guys can relax and keep the next generation of kids from stealing from us.

HAH!
Yeah, tired enough to be posting in a Spurs forum about relationships while "working", right?

The pressure to provide is unfathomable to most women thats why they look for a man to support them and then when they get bored they cheat.

If your a women and work and are either supplying the primary income or are making over 30k a year this doesn't apply to you. You have exceeded my expectation.

These 2 statements are contradictory. First, you say that the pressure to provide is too much for a woman... which means that your expectation of a woman is to provide for the family. So how is it that women who do provide "exceed" your expectation?

[Puppy Dog]

^uh oh ryan. this one is not playing.

it's your fault bro...your stirred the nest...

[TOP-CHERRY]

I realize he was supposedly exaggerating... But I'm just sayin'...

[Solid D]

Does this thread have a chance of becoming another Quattro thread, but on a different level?

[TOP-CHERRY]

Only time will tell.

[Puppy Dog]

ryan has some issues with women stemming from past experience.

i think that much is obvious.

this has led to him being overly judgmental of women as a whole at this point in his life.

we all fall victim to this with regard to the opposite sex at one time or another in our lives...

[SpursWoman]

we all fall victim to this with regard to the opposite sex at one time or another in our lives...

Took me finding a really good one to semi-get over it.