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Poor Shoog, you have been served so many times, the Sheriff's Dept has your address on their GPS' address book.
I beg to differ.
Poor Shoog, you have been served so many times, the Sheriff's Dept has your address on their GPS' address book.
But you can get really damn close to that perfect fit ... and if you don't hang on to it as best as you can and not ruin it because you can't keep your in your pants (or legs closed...whatever), than you are a selfish moron who deserves to be bitter, miserable and alone. The grass isn't always greener...blah blah blah.
Well, yes and no. I think there is 1 person based on the choices you make. That the decisions I made in the past mean that SFIE is the one for me now, and since we married, we make choices based on how they effect us, not just me or him.
I don't there is anyone else for me, based on who I am now. But I think there would have been 1 person for me if I'd chosen differently - it wouldn't have been SFIE, however.
I guess I'm making a distinction in here somewhere, and I do believe in God's plan - I just think it's more flexible than 1 single person. More like, door 1 leads to person A, door 2 leads to person B, door 3 leads to person C. But you only choose one door, you know? You won't choose door 1 and be equally likely to be with person A or B, with an equally good shot at a relationship with either of them.
But you can get really damn close to that perfect fit ... and if you don't hang on to it as best as you can and not ruin it because you can't keep your in your pants (or legs closed...whatever), than you are a selfish moron who deserves to be bitter, miserable and alone. The grass isn't always greener...blah blah blah.
Or, what she said.
But you can get really damn close to that perfect fit ... and if you don't hang on to it as best as you can and not ruin it because you can't keep your in your pants (or legs closed...whatever), than you are a selfish moron who deserves to be bitter, miserable and alone. The grass isn't always greener...blah blah blah.
Honestly, I think we place too much importance in getting married. I know just as many miserable married folk as I do single folk.
Perception can be a funny thing.
I can't disagree ... I just bought a house with my significant other, and we aren't married, other than any common-law issues that would arise out of that. But we're very happy ... and I also know judging from my own past and a lot of miserably-married people I know, that we are also very lucky.
But do you think you could keep it in your pants for a woman who was really exceptional at sucking?
Question.
How come there is no single woman in the whole worls that would fits me?
Hey! There is no good reason for you to insult my basketball team in this thread!
For a ten spot I'd fit you just fine.
Yes Kori that was unfair you evil womanHey! There is no good reason for you to insult my basketball team in this thread!
Tammy - 10 bucks?
naaahh thanks
I've seen them all over the place. I'm attracted to nice girls alot..the girl I want now is the nicest and funniest person I've ever met. I never try to get girls out of my league, I'm no moron...I know my limitations in attracting someone of the opposite sex. But I also know that women say that they want a nice guy and when they do get a nice guy..they treat him as just a friend.
Granted I'm sure alot of guys know what I'm talking about, they have become the friend to someone they are madly in love with. They say they want someone as nice as you, but not you.
I'm sure guys do know what they want too. They aren't that dissimilar from women..and I'm sure that guys have had a nice girl who is doing everything to get him, and he doesn't give her the time of day. I'm not denying that.
Last edited by Duff McCartney; 11-06-2006 at 07:27 PM.
so true ... *wipes tear from eye*
I concur. But don't sell yourself short. I'm no Denzel but I've been with some women who I would normally consider out of my league but it wasn't "instant attraction". I consider myself an acquired taste....like a nice cup of hot coffee. They may not like it at first but after a few sips they begin to enjoy the warm feeling they get inside. Believe me, there are many men out there with beautiful women and I get the "How did you end up with her?" question all the time from women all the time. So believe in yourself!!
Just once...I wish I could find the right person...
In my humble opinion, you might want to start by losing the pinwheel beanie.Just once...I wish I could find the right person...
More than one right person for what? To have sex with?
Tlong, you're striking me as a bit of a bitter bachleor guy who has commitment issues in this thread (At least, that's what Dr. Phil would say). Not that I'm an overly romantic or anything, but I don't believe that EVERYONE cheats. My parents have been married for about 40 years and they've never cheated on eachother. There's a difference between thinking, "Damn, that chick is hot" or even flirting with some other girl when you're with someone and actually going and hooking up with them.
In my humble opinion, you might want to start by losing the pinwheel beanie.
I never understood this argument from both girls and guys who say that they would never try to get a girl "who's out of their league." How would you even know what that person's type is? There's more to attraction than just good looks, a hot body, etc. I've run into several guys who I found completely HOT and sexy, only to be completely turned off when they open their mouths. Similiarly, I've run into several guys who I would never think I'd like or be attracted to, but once I start talking to them, if they're smart/make me laugh/are a good person, they become attractive to me. So you should never think that a guy/girl is out of your league without trying to get to know the person first.
You're right when you say that a lot of girls say they want a nice guy, but when they do find him, they treat him as a friend. But, I think that depends on your age and what your looking for. A "bad boy" may be exciting and fun to date when you're like 17 or 19, but as you get older and are looking to settle down or make a committment, nice guys will always win.
Yep, that's me. The Bitter Bachelor!
My parents have been married over 50 years and they've never cheated on each other. At least that's what they told me.....................until I found out otherwise.
Very well put.
Since TLong would "hit it" with about anything that has on orifice. I can see why he has the at ude he does but with therapy and a good woman perhaps his outlook on life would improve.
So? Just because in your network of family and friends there have been people who cheated, doesn't mean that everyone in the world does it or that it even makes it right. I've never cheated on anyone and I can guarantee you that I never will. Just like I'm sure that there are a lot of people on this forum who have never cheated on their significant other either.
Tlong, maybe you just need to get laid. Let me check my blackbook to see if I know anyone.
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