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I hope they consider moving back to S.A.. I would think job prospects would be better.
Cool. I didn't see him in any pics.
I hope they consider moving back to S.A.. I would think job prospects would be better.
well bigSnack came by with a case of beer a bag full of candy bars and stack of nude magazines so i take it I won the contest?
Oh well, I guess no more fat jokes from me for a awhile.
I was robbed. Like we didn't all know who was going to win.
After reading this thread I have a sudden urge to cook User a big lobster dinner followed by a long, full body massage and a few *other* things and thank God the whole time how lucky I am. You don't need religion to know when you're hurting someone that loves you...chances are, if they are that unhappy...you're ing up.
I really hope things get better for you guys....
I have a 12 pack of bud longnecks if anyone wants to swing by and get it,
I don't think I should have been part of the comtest I never really entered my insult.
A case of beer and BigSac is only going to drink one? Mouse got a great deal!!!
I was robbed. Like we didn't all know who was going to win.
i'll have your $50 waiting...gimme a couple weeks and a mailing adress bro...you were the grand prize winner...what you do with your 50 is your business...
good job man.
i will kill you. not a threat. not a joke. a promise. step off or get stepped on.
you don't think i can find you in san diego?
i can and i will.
don't play.
i got NOTHING to lose bro. not a GODDAMN THING.
now go back to your s you closet .
not that there's anything wrong with that...
you are right. ask K to give you her number. she needs strong women to talk to right now...the more the merrier...get Spurswoman her number too...that way the 3 strongest women in this forum can help her where i cannot...Thanks in advance.
you are right. and i am amazed too...but not to worry. pain is over.
she speaks the truth. she is right about EVERYTHING she said.yes, it made you impotent...
you only care about you...what makes you happy...about pleasing youself as if you were a king...well...if you give you shall receive...which means that once you show me love... you will get love...but I'm a very loving person...and have loved you very much...your problem is the guilt was eating you up and you did not want to face it, so you smoked...now, its your move...i have forgiven you for your crime and you can take it or leave it...you want a happy life...then its your choice to start making the right choices accourding to God's will...what will it be?
I've always have taken care of you...you go through moods like women's fashion...since we got together I've had to put up with you, the good and the bad...but I married you because I loved and still love you...
I bought you your ring for $300 plus but you lost it when you went to the lake with your friends...which you never told me about, going to the lake and the lost of the ring...you bought yourself one to replace it with and you kept it on your keychange because you wanted to hook up with a lady...now, who is taking care of who? I have always been honest, fair and loving to you as a wife should be...I'm not perfect but if you consider taking all your ...man, you have been terribly BLESSED.
Its your obligation to pay bills...what you want to live off of me? You have responsibilities you need to account for...you are upset because you would spend $100 a night at the bar and then didn't have money..or didn't have money to buy weed or go out drinking...that's your problem...get in with reality...I was the responsible one, I paid my hearing aids ($7 grand), shared loan ($11K), two other credit cards ($3k), discover ($6K), food, gifts to the family (including your family and you), and toiletries...I was almost debt free before I got laid off and that would have benefited not only me but you as well...luckily for unemployment I am able to help pay our bills, your credit card and our cell phones if needed...and regardless of our financial difficulty...I still love you and hope one day you understand what I do for you
although, i'm gonna steal one of your lines babydoll...
"I still love you and hope one day you understand what I do for you..."
hey, well, what can you do...the fatman deserves everything he gets...pathetic bas ...
I love the FAT guy!!
well, you may love dat peez of chet, but i don't... 'im...he got wutz comin to him...
remember, you must, these words of wisdom, if a Jedi of the Force, you ever wish to be..
"Do or do not... there is no try."
"Size matters not. Look at me. Judge me by my size, do you? Hmm? Hmm. And well you should not. For my ally is the Force, and a powerful ally it is. Life creates it, makes it grow. Its energy surrounds us and binds us. Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter. You must feel the Force around you; here, between you, me, the tree, the rock, everywhere, yes."
"The dark side clouds everything. Impossible to see the future is."
"Death is a natural part of life. Rejoice for those around you who transform into the Force. Mourn them do not. Miss them do not. Attachment leads to jealously. The shadow of greed, that is."
"Ready are you? What know you of ready? For eight hundred years have I trained Jedi. My own counsel will I keep on who is to be trained. A Jedi must have the deepest commitment, the most serious mind. This one a long time have I watched. All his life has he looked away... to the future, to the horizon. Never his mind on where he was. Hmm? What he was doing. Hmph. Adventure. Heh. Excitement. Heh. A Jedi craves not these things. You are reckless."
"[Luke:] I can’t believe it. [Yoda:] That is why you fail."
"Remember, a Jedi's strength flows from the Force. But beware. Anger, fear, aggression. The dark side are they. Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny. Pass on what you have learned.
time to forever sleep, it is...
may the Force be with you...always...
I heve seen Zaxs wife and I must say that ass is very Waxable, It is worth a beat down from BigZax just to at least fantasize about her..
This dude cracks me up
The only thing I get from these Zak posts is how good he makes the rest of us guys in relationships look.
This thread is so crazy...should not have been done in the first place. BigZak wants to feel the pain Jesus felt but he will never...its to great for any man to bear.
BigZak, your weight does not make you who you are but your actions do - everyone loves you for your personality not because of what you look like, that's the reason people have trouble putting you down just because you are fat.
That is your insecurity and yours alone. I hope you have discovered from this thread that there is no reason to be insecured about your weight as long as you are doing something about it. You have already went down one size and if you keep it up you will be nice and trim for the new years.
Now, regarding your actions and your words - that's easier to critize because it says a lot about your character and you as a man. So, my suggestion is to work on that, it's more visible than the fat you are carrying and a lot uglier than being overweight.
You can be very caring and loving when you want to. You care for stangers and making just about anyone laugh. Now, get out the wonderful you and stop being an asshole. We are all waiting.
God made you special for his will not yours. So, start living it up and stop waisting time. Watcha say?
Wow. That's a good woman right there. Here's to you, Wifey.
Respect.
...and as a sidebar, take this for what it's worth:
I have a strong, caring, supportive wife (I, too, married out of my league and got better than I deserved)...but sometimes she is so supportive, so attentive to my needs, that she sacrifices her own. I try to take care of her the best I can, but she deserves better than I give much of the time...often due to my own selfishness or immaturity. I'm working as hard as I can, and I'm trying my best to give better, to love her better, but in the meantime, I am trying to make her understand that she is just as responsible for her own well-being as I am. We are here to take care of each other, but sometimes we have to take care of ourselves, too. Little by little, she's learning to make her own needs as important as she makes mine, and we're both the better for it. It keeps me aware of what her needs are, giving me the ability to better meet them...and it helps her remember how important she is during the times that I don't treat her that way. I'm hoping that those times will become fewer and fewer as I learn and become more mature, but in the meantime, she's learning to make her own needs important and urgent, and, as such, more of her needs are being met - by both of us. You're obviously a strong and independant woman, so I don't know if this applies to you, but you're also obviously a very giving and understanding woman, and women like that tend to put others first much of the time.
Make sure you're taken care of. Don't leave it to anyone else...it may take us a while to grow up enough to get it done. But you shouldn't suffer in the meantime. You deserve better. Make sure you get it.
1st of all, if i was insecure about my weight, this thread wouldn't exist.
ALL MY INSECURITIES ARE GONE...DON'T YOU GET IT?
That was the whole point. Obviously went over many peoples heads.
TO PROVE THAT I DON'T GIVE A WHAT ANYONE SAYS OR THINKS ABOUT ME.
i didn't cry...didn't even blink.
SO POINT PROVEN.
thanks for everyones help, and PM me clintsquint, i'll have your 50 as soon as i can...
PM this screen name...i will never use the others again...thanks man.
you gotta love the taste of victory...even is sacrafices have to be made...
Wow. I just finally got around to reading this thread.
BigZak, I am simply shocked. I thought you were a really cool guy...and although I still think you are, I believe that you need to grow up!
You are a walking contradiction. You say you understand and have learned from your mistakes, yet you keep making the same one again and again--hurting the one person who loves you the most in the world(your wifey). You admit that you are wrong....yet you don't seem to take any steps to correct it. I've admired you ever since I heard about you dropping your life to pursue your dream at any costs. That takes a lot of guts to do something like that and you get major points from me for doing that.
But you need to realize this: There are poorer people than you in this world, there are more depressed people than you in this world who have hit "rock bottom," there are people who have commited the same sins and mistakes you have--some even worse, and there are plenty of overweight people in this world who are fat because they over-indulge and look at food as comfort.
Get over it, you should be going after every single thing in your life with the same relentless pursuit you seem to be going after with your "Dream job." Do you want to end up looking down the road 20..30 years from now regretting the life you've lived?
You seem like a great guy, as does your wife. I really don't know much about you other than what I've read on the forum. You just need to stop trying to be a martyr and start being yourself. I'm a firm believer that there's nothing in this world that you can't change or do if you put in the effort. So put in the effort......on your wife, your career, your weight-loss/health.
guys, seriously, you just don't know...i appreciate all the kind words and advice, but
you think you can judge other peoples lives from a few silly posts?
c'mon. lets be real.
i just got off the phone with wifey. all is well. she's scared i'm bipolar....uh...yah....i am....but we ALL ARE....i've finally chosen the light and said the darkness...such is what being SAVED is all about...
i love my wife. always will. i finally love myself. so now? i can show more love to everyone than i ever had in my life before...isn't that great?
does this mean i'm perfect? no. far from it.
but i'm learning from my mistakes. i don't want to make them again.
and i won't.
i am wiser by the day, and from wisdom comes strength, and yes...power.
I love my power, but I will not abuse it. It's a blessing from the Good Lord and I would be a fool to use my blessing for evil.
I ed up trying to call our herbivore female yesterday...but she, whoever the she or he is has been spewing hate on this forum for a long time....
and i'm sick of that .
i'm at war.
at war against any negative energy.
i will give only what i get.
will i up and stumble....sure, but I will learn to pick myself up again.
Thanks be to God.
Thanks be to Jesus.
AMEN.
Dude, check your BigZak PMs. (I assume all this drama is legit) I was once 31 years old; 31 was ten times worse than 16-30, at least. Now I'm 40, and while I still think about reinventing my life everyday, I'm at peace with myself.
Holler and I will empathize.
GoN
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