This conversation is quite interesting. From my own experience, I've gone out with guys who have chosen complete es over me, but then try to come back to me later after they get dumped. I also know guys who have treated their girlfriends like queens, only to get dumped for some guy that treats them like . I don't think it's fair to generalize since both sexes have their faults, but it's unfortunate that both sides have to pay for the bad apples out there.
I guess the bottom line is that you have to keep taking chances that the next person you give your heart to doesn't trample all over it.
For those about to rock, we salute you.
1P1, I always need to get laid.So? Just because in your network of family and friends there have been people who cheated, doesn't mean that everyone in the world does it or that it even makes it right. I've never cheated on anyone and I can guarantee you that I never will. Just like I'm sure that there are a lot of people on this forum who have never cheated on their significant other either.
Tlong, maybe you just need to get laid. Let me check my blackbook to see if I know anyone.
If you ain't cheatin, you ain't tryin.
Damn....must resist urge....to say something...
I don't have the time to go through the other pages of this thread, but it sure as can't end well.
I think I agree with that statement the most.I don't think it's fair to generalize since both sexes have their faults, but it's unfortunate that both sides have to pay for the bad apples out there.
I guess the bottom line is that you have to keep taking chances that the next person you give your heart to doesn't trample all over it.
For those about to rock, we salute you.
You were born out of wedlock?
You're going to fix tlong up with a guy?Tlong, maybe you just need to get laid. Let me check my blackbook to see if I know anyone.
Or, you have chicks in your black book?
You forgot to log in as The Suck Up.
@ this thread. Pretty entertaining.
LOL. you MEN are ridiculous.
This reminds me of the old treehouse:
I've just finished reading Barash and Lipton's The Myth of Monogamy, and it has really led me to reconsider everything I thought I knew about sexual relationships. After reading and thinking, I simply can't believe that monogamy is the "natural" or "normal" course for humans. I'd like to believe that it is, but there is so much now that challenges that. Although I think that monogamy can work for many, I'm now a believer that monogamy isn't necessarily best. It isn't necessarily something that one should strive for. And no, I've never cheated on any of my girlfriends.
And I certainly don't think that being alone equates with being miserable. I was with a wonderful woman for seven years and we were engaged for two years. We broke up last spring because we decided that what we each wanted out of life wouldn't allow us to have the best relationship we could have. We still talk at least twice a week and have an excellent relationship as friends. Despite me missing her sometimes, I wouldn't have a girlfriend right now even if I was paid a bunch to do it. And I can't see that changing for a long while. Some people are independent enough to thrive without needing another.
...get over it. it goes both ways my man. people are human and humans are capable of making mistakes...men and women.
This thread needs more science:
http://www.laddertheory.com/
The ladder theory is a funny, scientific explanation of how men and women
are attracted to each other. It also covers such topics as why women
sometimes just want to be friends but men always want sex. It is based upon
many years of sociological field testing, and was first conceptualized in
1994 in Exeter, CA by Dallas Lynn with acknowledgements to Jared Whitson for
his role in formalizing the theory.
What I don't get is people who stay with their partner after they've been cheated on. One strike and you're out is my policy.
The Ladder Theory has some merit. Nice find.
So even when I'm ugly you would talk to me?
I didn't say being alone equates with being miserable...just whomever deserves to be both.
I was very, very happy to be by myself for a long time after I got divorced.
Sincerely,
STDs and the architects of most of Western Civilization
I didn't read all of it but I have gotten to the point where I just wanted to be friends with some women, if turns into a thing where you start to feel obligated due to the sex and don't want that obligation or don't feel the same way they do.
A lot of women can be the same way...if it's your decision to want to be friends they have a hard time accepting it as well.
Catching cheaters on the Today show. Tomorrow, online dating sites and the married people who use them.
Ain't life grand?
Last edited by DisgruntledLionFan#54,927; 11-07-2006 at 08:09 AM.
IMHO, one should just do what works for them. If you aren't into the whole committed relationship then don't get into one. If you are into the whole "hit it" theory then by all means "hit it" while you can.
You think girls only talk to guys who look like Brad Pitt? I'm telling you that girls may at first just go by looks, but if you have a great personality and are sincere and funny, you won't be "ugly" in their eyes.
All I know is that I am sincere.
The 'funny' thing and personality must be tested by others.
btw. It is funny you were explaining it to me that girls are also talking with ugly guys
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