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Already going on five months. Have some strength and do it.
Assuming you haven't broken this already, let's agree to do this.
I didn't do this in 2022, but in 2021 I did it and lasted until February 25th. Man that was the best fap of my life probably and the next one too. But I'll try not to do that this year.
Rules: You can have all the sex and/or sexual relations you can with a female partner, but no masturbation or you lose. Sex only, no fapping.
Let's go.
Already going on five months. Have some strength and do it.
Are you married... girlfriend? Do you get laid on a regular basis?
I haven't been laid and had a girlfriend since mid-late August. In Michigan. So I'm just on day two of no fap, but looking forward to traveling out of Texas some more and getting laid before April
No wife, no girlfriend
Haven't touched a girl/woman going on nine or ten years now, lost track.
You really must not get out? Or do you live somewhere extremely rural / outside the USA.
Go to singles dances often. Not meeting anyone I'm interesrted in. Most of the women going to these dances here are foreign and I don't want that. I'm in Connecticut.
Most of the single women are foreign and you're in Connecticut? Are you going to singles dances in Chinatown or something?
The Northeast is arguably the best region in the entire USA to meet women. There are far more single women 25-49 out there than single men in almost every northeastern city and decent sized community. Completely opposite from the west coast and west / southwest / most of the south, which is overall terrible for men. Your best bets are in the northeast, upper mid-atlantic and upper midwest. Plenty of single females to be had. And they're not all foreign or hipsters like in Oregon.
Skip to 11:05 on this video. Very helpful:
You definitely want to live in a red dot on that map from this video. A blue dot as a guy means you'll be fighting an uphill battle in the numbers game.
I don't go to New york, too far. I'm in my 60s so the game is different with less options and places to go to meet women my age.Most of the single women are foreign and you're in Connecticut? Are you going to singles dances in Chinatown or something?
The Northeast is arguably the best region in the entire USA to meet women. There are far more single women 25-49 out there than single men in almost every northeastern city and decent sized community. Completely opposite from the west coast and west / southwest / most of the south, which is overall terrible for men. Your best bets are in the northeast, upper mid-atlantic and upper midwest. Plenty of single females to be had. And they're not all foreign or hipsters like in Oregon.
oh, wait, nevermind.
In that case, you're well past your expiration date for dating. Might want to consult Mark Celibate on something he regularly refers to as the "VoS" tbh.
No you'll see when you get there you won't be past dating if you're single.
In that case, you're well past your expiration date for dating. Might want to consult Mark Celibate on something he regularly refers to as the "VoS" tbh.
I'll either be ing rich and drowning in pussy or dead by then, tbh
Lifted weights all my life and kept fit. look good for my age.I'll either be ing rich and drowning in pussy or dead by then, tbh
That doesn't mean if you're an introvert and never get out
you cant no fap because u will have a wet dream in 3 weeks......... has to reproduce it self to make room for the new..........
Damn. Some of you really need a personal life. I don't want to know about it, but you need one. Praying for you.
That's not true. I have never had a wet dream in my life. I didn't ejaculate any semen until the age of 14 years and 4+ months. I've gone at least 7 weeks in a row in adulthood without ejaculation. It's definitely possible if you put your mind to it.
tbh what's the point of doing this crap for a temporary time? the "75 hard day" challenge, or not drinking for X amount of weeks only to go back to getting blackout drunk every weekend, NoFap November etc...isn't the point to make these lifelong habits?
Just to prove you're strong enough to resist the temptation I guess.
Also makes for more mind blowing sex when you get to it. Although a draw back is you come faster but if you go so long without fapping you can actually *gasp* twice in her after only about a 30 minute or less window instead of telling her you're done and her not ready for it to be done.
meh I cut all that stuff out like a decade ago before “NoFap” was really a thing tbh. The point was to cut off that dopamine reward circuit and actually be forced to go out and meet women IRL. Keep getting rejected or ignored? Well that forces you to actually work on yourself (working out, grooming, improving personality, etc) instead of just turning to porn for an easy way out and turning into an incel. And there’s actually some research out there showing the physical benefits of not ejaculating regularly but that’s a different story. That was my idea anyway. But I agree with you…just doing NoFap but sitting inside your house and never going out kinda defeats the purpose
Exactly.
If you just fap (or not fap) inside your house/apartment all day every day instead of going out you become an incel. If you get out and socialize your mind adapts to being around people and you gain social skills, meet people, ultimately find someone good and get laid.
years ago i looked at some of those reddit pages where the incels would post pictures of themselves crying "how ugly am I ? " In all honesty, every single one of them could've been atleast a 7/10 if they started working out and did proper grooming which would get them a decent enough girl. Sure there are the natural Chads out there but IMO , unless you have a legitimate serious physical handicap, you can become attractive enough if you put on enough muscle and have a low enough body fat% along with good style tbh
Haha whats up bag, it's Tanner from Highschool. Remember me? Me and the guys used to give you a hard time in school. Sorry you were just an easy target lol. I can see not much has changed. Remember Sarah the girl you had a crush on? Yeah we're married now. I make over 200k a year and drive a mustang GT. I guess some things never change huh loser? Nice catching up
Being jacked is overrated, just be in shape and don't be a couch potato fatass who eats plurality junk food and is sedentary and spends more time playing video games than being outdoors. Have a fun personality. Enjoy life. Enjoy the outdoors, city blocks, playing sports, hanging out with people, strike up conversations with people (and not just with hot girls - don't be a pervy creep).
When there's a large group of guys and girls, some but not most of them being couples and most of them just being friends... my strategy for blending in is usually striking up a conversation with one of the guys. Could be about football/sports, the roller coaster we're standing in line for, the weather, even politics if they've got some right-leaning apparel on (was a thing in 2022). Just strike up a conversation with one of the guys first, not one of the ladies. You want to ease your way in... you'll never get in by making it obvious you want to make a serious play at one of the ladies from the group on the first shot.
I do credit him with helping me put up with early in life and grow a thick skin. Nothing in high school ever fazed me. It wasn't fun, I was celibate but not an incel because I had choices, they just were sleazy Mexican stoners that were way too skinny and probably wanted to get pregnant because they thought I came from money because I was the only white kid.
Sarah...oddly enough, was this other guy on that IGN message board's ex girlfriend that relocated away from his city. I never had a crush on a Sarah or came close to it.
Mustang GT...
200k a year...
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