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lol nice!!!!
Ok so maybe it dont actually say in ... but it's implied with the
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lol still works, thanks for the help
Pleasure ...
I like Valentine's Day, but I don't put too much stock in it. I usually just use it as an excuse to act silly and dorky.
so you are saying you are serious and cool the other 364 days out of the year?
No. I'm pretty silly and dorky all year. The difference is that I'm silly and dorky with flowers and candies on Valentine's Day.
I put together the most awesome gifts for my friend this year, since we're both currently single.
LOL a friend of mine is ditching his gf and coming to visit me tonight and bringing 6 girls with him. I almost feel bad for being his wingman but since i hate valentines im over it. Anyone else want to come out? There are 6 of them and they want to "party".
The problem is that you guys have this wierd notion that women expect something!! It doesn't really matter because I can buy myself candy. flowers, lingerie that I actually like any time. I'd rather have nothing than something given begrudgingly. If it's such a big deal to be willing to buy someone you care about a $3 card then don't do it. She'll appreciate that more. And if you don't care for her don't do anything; what's the big deal?
You miss the point as always. Women even though they dont say it want SOMETHING and expect it. When I find someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, she is going to get random flowers and any given day, sometimes breakfast in bed, sometimes gifts, sometimes a massage or a day at the spa not because of a commercialized holiday but because I love her every day I spend with her.
Some women do expect something, though. Not all, probably not even most, but some. I see it as something to have fun with and refuse to ever stress about what I have or have not gotten, but I have encountered plenty of people who will freak the out if things don't go exactly the way they're "supposed" to.
I'm not missing anything. You keep saying "women". I'm a woman I don't care if I get anything or not. But should someone decide to give me something I couldn't care less if it was a gumball. As long as they give it sincerely.
Not all women do, though. We've all been socialized to assume that women take Valentine's Day seriously, and enough of them do to allow us to maintain that assumption, but it's not a universal. Plenty of women genuinely don't give a .
Your absolutely right. It doesn't have to be expensive just touching in some way. If she is expecting diamonds or anything overpriced tell the christmas was two months ago.
yeah that is pretty much every girl I dated
thats just cause your an ugly cow and never got anything (see previous post about little fat girl in class that we HAD to give a valentine too haha)
yeah I think there are more that do than not. Its hard for guys to understand when women say "NO I really dont want anything" so when you dont they get all pissed. I mean come on we arent ing mind readers.
Oh yeah and btw its that time of the month so it wont be happening anyways.
Well, that's all got to do with our social constructions of gender, and the way we're all brainwashed to have certain expectations of ourselves and others, and the fact that we're constantly striving to stay within the very strict and confining rules about how we're supposed to act, and...
. I'm taking way too many women's studies classes this semester.
Yeah you are but you could teach some of us some of the secrets.
1. Ok well maybe some of them have been shallow but not all of them
2. Damn Liar
3. I dont date skanks, I only love and leave the skanks. the skanks dont even expect dinner or anything. Most of them pay for their own drinks. They just want to get laid(you should be able to relate to that you skank).
There aren't that many secrets -- racial/gender/sexuality/class/etc. based differences are entirely socially constructed, and have been forever, in an attempt to ensure that the dominant group (in this country: White, middle class, straight, Christian males) maintains power. Voila.
I got my heart broken a week before Valentines Day.
Damn sorry to hear that bro
Booooooooooooooooooooo! Lousy timing.
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