Except you're reading what I write. Those you are ing about couldn't care less about you, will never read what you write. So if I am ing about you, it's getting to you. Your ing is going nowhere.
I said already, just set the tone early that you aren't interested in solving the issue, only in venting your spleen on the forum. That will allow anyone else reading the space they need to disregard it instead of responding with something they feel could be helpful. Remember, it's not about the nail.
It's not about the nail.
Of course it's to be expected. What are you trying to explain anyhow? Say something I don't already know but use fewer words.