I will say few things. Assists in today's league are very overrated. Stat guys easily give them out versus back in the day. For example I didn't see Draymond dissing out amazing passes for the most part. They were just simple hand offs to Klay,Curry,Durant and he easily got to 7 a game. They were normal passes that anybody could throw. Out of the current bigs in the league I would say only Jokic,Simmons,Gasol,Griffin, and other euro bigs are great passers. When I mean by great passers they can actually set up and run a play to get guys a bucket.
As for 90's ball being nothing but dirty goon defense I would say that's not 100 percent true. You had dirty teams during that era in the Knicks,Pacers,Heat,Jazz. All 4 of those teams contained thugs that were out just to hurt you. Don't remember seeing any other teams out of those top 4 that played dirty basketball. The rest of the league was doing hand checking but it wasn't dirty and you had bumping but not to the extreme mugging every game like you are saying.
The defense really picked up after '95. From '95-'07 you had strong defenses but weak offense. I can't really say all of that was dirty. For example the '99 Spurs were a defensive juggernaut but they weren't a dirty team. Guys like Jerome Kersey,Ellie,Perdue were physical players but not goons. The second 3 peat bulls outside of Rodman were not dirty but were a great defensive team. Only championship team during that stretch I felt was dirty was the Kobe-Shaq Lakers. Kobe,Fisher,Horry,Fox,Shaq all committed cheap shots and dirty fouls during their le run.
Curry to a large degree even in this era is overrated. He didn't become a superstar player until Klay Thompson became an all-star player. Once Klay reach that level then it became hard to guard Curry due to the spacing. Notice how Curry is reluctant to comeback from a minor hand injury. The reason for it is because he knows he will get exposed out there. He was in the 4 games he played this year averaging 20 points on overall 40 percent shooting and 24 percent 3 point shooting.
I don't miss the dirty flagrant WWE fouling from that era but at the same time whats going on in the league with Harden and company isn't basketball either. It's gotten to the extreme where the offensive player has too much leeway where if you even graze them slightly it's a foul. That's not fun to watch. I still play basketball a few times a week and I will say this nobody would loves to play by NBA rules out on the streets. Everybody hates it when guys call touch fouls.