I haven’t experienced anyone close to me dying due a child being unmasked. I also haven’t experienced anyone close to me being murdered. That doesn’t mean i can’t take a position on either of those things being bad. Even if they are to varying degrees.
I also think that going unmasked and/or being unvaxxed, like drunk driving, should not be an individual choice because they put other people in harms way, even to varying degrees
for some reason, you don’t think the comparisons can be made because the impacts vary in severity or likelihood of bad outcomes