May seems like an odd observation, since Wesley has a good family and caring background, but...
He feels like an older child of, like, a single overworked mom, at least on the court. And in interviews, as if there's this cloud over his head. He can't be happy, he's unsettled, because there's too much to do, too many people to take care of -- dinner, cleaning, getting his siblings into pjs and into bed, doing his homework. He feels that way on court, too, like it all hangs on him.
I know Coach Brey at ND is a good coach, and he'll have a great one in Pop, so I hope he settles down and realizes it's not all on his shoulders, that he can relax and learn. I hope he trusts the organization to steer him right and bring out his game.