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You can thank my coworkers for this one. It's a slow day in the office and one of my female worker monkeys felt the need to share the fight she with her boyfriend last night. She was at his play and decided they should watch a movie. But when she went to the bookshelf to pick one out she found another DVD hidden behind a few others, which turned out to be some lesbian porn. This lead to a huge fight. She feels like this is practically cheating because he is apparently lusting after other women and was willing to take steps to hide it, which is what goes into having an affair. The males of my office (including me) think that's hooey. There's no direct contact or communication. It's not any different than a girl thinking Colin Farrell or Firth or Powell is hot, even if they are married.
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Matthew 5:28
I would say if the porn watching detracts from his relationship with her, then its cheating in regards to their situation.
I think this has been addressed in Cosmo about 316546513246541321 times.
No, it's not cheating.
But if he seems to prefer it to real-life sex with her, that's a completely different issue.
I think this has been addressed in Cosmo about 316546513246541321 times.
She made cuz he's been cheating on her with palmala?
This just tells me that there's no activity going on in the bedroom.
So whos fault is that?
I was just thinking that.
no matter how great a girl you got, Palmela and Handela are always great.
No.
While I think it's a completely different issue than a married woman lusting after Colin Firth or Colin Farrel ( unless she was hiding a video of them doing gay pron together), I still don't think its cheating. It's probably more a case of the fact that he would have been more than willing to share his video library with her but he was afraid she might over-react.
If they have a fruitfull and good relationship, uh then no.
If he is constantly asking her what she would think of adding a third, or "experimenting" then theres problems.
But if there are no problems, then, yeah, shes all wet on this issue.
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Not enough info to answer the question.
If they rarely have sex because he's more interested in flying solo with the porn, then that would be his fault.
But if he's more interested in flying solo because she's either frigid, uptight, or just not all of that interested in sex...then it's probably on her.
If they have lots of sex and he's still doing a lot of solo-flying, then she either needs to take some vitamins, buy some lube, and perhaps hit the gym a little more often to build up some endurance...or STFU and deal with it.
Most likely scenerio: they have a normal sex life, but she's a little (or a lot) insecure and is jealous that her man is jacking off to other naked women.
damn you write for cosmo or something??.
Not enough info to answer the question.
If they rarely have sex because he's more interested in flying solo with the porn, then that would be his fault.
But if he's more interested in flying solo because she's either frigid, uptight, or just not all of that interested in sex...then it's probably on her.
If they have lots of sex and he's still doing a lot of solo-flying, then she either needs to take some vitamins, buy some lube, and perhaps hit the gym a little more often to build up some endurance...or STFU and deal with it.
Most likely scenerio: they have a normal sex life, but she's a little (or a lot) insecure and is jealous that her man is jacking off to other naked women.
you should
I didn't get that impression from her at all.shes all wet on this issue.
Physically, no. In matters of the heart (spiritually and emotionally), it can be destructive and I'll tell you why. I know of two different couples who's marriages ended in divorce. One of them ended partly because of the husband's porn addiction and the other marriage ended SOLELY due to the husband's porn addiction. In both cases, the man was admittedly unable to have normal sex with his wife. One of the men was unable to become aroused without the visual stimulus of photos or videos. Both men were unable to have fulfilling sex with their wives without visualizing someone other than their wives.
I cannot think of too many people, men or women, who would enjoy a relationship based on a vicarious partner.
We used to have our own forum for stuff like this.
Unless the chick comes out of tv and gives me a blowjob, I'm not cheating.
Wow, I didn't think that was possible. How could anyone NOT prefer a real "kitty"!?!?
I imagine it's what is attached to the kitty (another human being) that poses the problem. With porn you don't have any pressure to please someone, it's completely on your terms, and your DVD player never says no. Add another person to the mix and it gets really complicated on every level.Wow, I didn't think that was possible. How could anyone NOT prefer a real "kitty"!?!?
I guess the "owner" of the "kitty" I take care of is above average when it comes to those kind of things.
Would it be cheating if a guy s a fake vibrating pussy?
...or has no opinion on whether size matters, and doesn't give a about any motion in any ocean. Or how quickly it docks.
This was talked about on The View a few weeks ago, they reaired it I think earlier this week or the week before. Anyway. I'm as big of a prude as Elisabeth is and she thinks it is. It's a type of "emotional cheating." and then Joy and Barbara ripped he a new one for what she thought. I agree with her, if that's all the guy does. But if it's an occassional glance, go for it.
No way, it's never cheating no matter how you look at it. Can it ruin a realtionship and be a very unhealthy habit? Yes, of course. Just because something detracts from a relationship that doesn't make it cheating or anywhere close to it. Alcohol, drugs, gambling, internet, television, and god knows what else can all detract from and destroy relationships, but they are nowhere near cheating.
I am not a big fan of porn, personally it makes me feel a little dirty watching it anymore. Don't get me wrong I've watched plenty of porn, but around age 25 or so I started to feel a little disgusted by it, don't know why. Maybe it's because I started to notice how big of s s the pornstars were.
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