Tony and Eva apparently ARE divorcing

[Crookshanks]

What is wrong with you people? You have no idea why Erin got divorced. Jesus.

Geez manny - lighten up - it was sarcasm.

[z0sa]

http://www.tmz.com/2010/11/17/brent-barry-divorce-eva-longoria-tony-parker-erin-barry/

Very, very interesting. But still inconclusive. yet his dad acts like it is true.

[4down]

Messages->Options->Select All->Delete->Confirm?->Yes.


=:married:

[MaNuMaNiAc]

So Erin is divorcing Brent, maybe with the hopes she'll be the next Mrs. Tony Parker - but Tony says not so fast cherie - I'm young, single and I was once voted one of the 50 most beautiful people - I'm movin on to younger babes!

So Erin busts up her family, devastates her children and Brent - and for what? She's going to be the biggest loser here.

:lmao

[Slomo]

Somewhere whottt is pissed!

:lmao

You know I thought of him at least 10 pages ago. :depressed

[ALVAREZ6]

Because you need to relax. I'm just trying to help you get through this time of crisis in your life. I know how hard you're taking this and I just want to help.
So you're basically ignoring my posts.


I've already stated numerous times this subject has very little affect on me personally. You must have read this Manny, why do you ignore it?

I can play your game too:
Manny, you need to relax man. You've spent way too much time in this thread, responding to posts left and right from all angles. At the end of the day, it's just a thread about Tony's cheating rumors. What can I do to make you not care enough so you can go do something productive instead the opposite?

[ALVAREZ6]

Be a proud pothead or, . . . get off the pot. We need warriors.

I'm very proud, tbh. Well, technically proud isn't the most accurate word for this.

But in no way did I attempt to include any negative connotations about weed. I just threw it in for the hell of it.

[Chieflion]

Free publicity for Spurstalk, imo. 1600+ guests viewing Spurstalk at the moment.

[Pauleta14]

That's true - and that's why I find it hard to believe! A man would have to be an idiot to keep hundreds of incriminating texts on his phone.



Of course Eva could be lieing about the texting but why would she?

She didn't say anything...

The only official statements come from their facebook and/twitter account, saying "they love each other and hope the other will be happy, bla bla bla..."

It's ok to talk about it (we're free :lol), but it's too early to have a SOLID opinion ...

[timvp]

Since Brent is the ultimate jokester, I can already hear him saying:

"WTF, the first time Tony decides to make a pass to a Barry and it's Erin?!?"

[TwelveGs210]

Eh, this was a long time coming. I'm not sure what kind of kinky sexual prowess that Eva had at one time, but obviously there must have been some craziness goin' on in that bedroom in the beginning for Tony to even consider at that time getting married, especially to Eva Longoria. I mean Eva is attractive, but for somebody in their 20's, rich and successful, not to mention voted as "one of the 50 most beautiful people" at one time, I definitely think Tony chose below is standards. Can you imagine the amount of "dime piece" drop dead gorgeous women that make offers to Tony?

Chris Rock said it best, his quote was "A man is only as faithful as his options." and Tony definitely has options. I have run into Eva twice, in person. Once at the Blanco Cafe, and once at the Tower of America's. Lets just say the people who do her hair and makeup are able to work wonders for her, and at least create this illusion that she is one of the more beautiful actresses out there. She is extremely skinny, her ass is pretty much non-existent, her breasts are small, and after seeing her at the Blanco Cafe up close and personal, her face is far from beautiful without a team of professionals making her up before her appearance. I'm sure Tony made an impulse decision due to whatever he was feeling at the time as far as getting married, but the reality of having to spend "the rest of your life" with someone probably set in, and he decided to take his chances on getting whatever it was that he was craving from somebody willing to do it.

As far as the current state of marriages in our generation, it just isnt what is was to our parents, and our grandparents. Now days both sides cheat, wouldn't be surprised to see an Eva scandal surface as well. In my point of view, I definitely think that couples should take an honest look at the possibilty of being "swingers" because all straight men are going to look at other attractive women, and the craving for another woman WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. Might as well work out a deal, and have your extra-curricular activities TOGETHER as a couple. Couple that plays together STAYS together.

[Crookshanks]

Since Brent is the ultimate jokester, I can already hear him saying:

"WTF, the first time Tony decides to make a pass to a Barry and it's Erin?!?"

I don't care who you are - that's funny right there! :lol :lol :lol

[ALVAREZ6]

Since Brent is the ultimate jokester, I can already hear him saying:

"WTF, the first time Tony decides to make a pass to a Barry and it's Erin?!?"

:lol

He's definitely been passing more effectively lately, in all ways.

[MannyIsGod]

So you're basically ignoring my posts.


I've already stated numerous times this subject has very little affect on me personally. You must have read this Manny, why do you ignore it?

I can play your game too:
Manny, you need to relax man. You've spent way too much time in this thread, responding to posts left and right from all angles. At the end of the day, it's just a thread about Tony's cheating rumors. What can I do to make you not care enough so you can go do something productive instead the opposite?


I'll send you a fruitbasket in your time of need, my friend.

[TwelveGs210]

Since Brent is the ultimate jokester, I can already hear him saying:

"WTF, the first time Tony decides to make a pass to a Barry and it's Erin?!?"

I can see him saying that..I'm tuning in to NBA TV NOW!

[ALVAREZ6]

I'll send you a fruitbasket in your time of need, my friend.

I'll send you a dildo

[Obstructed_View]

Free publicity for Spurstalk, imo. 1600+ guests viewing Spurstalk at the moment.

Hey, where's that dipshit that pimps his crappy post-game podcast?

[MannyIsGod]

I'll send you a dildo
:lol

u mad.

[Chieflion]

Hey, where's that dipshit that pimps his crappy post-game podcast?

I can't watch the podcast anyway, so I will just take your word for it. The guy disappeared, tbh. I also don't turn on my sigs on, so I probably can't see him publicizing his stuff.

[ALVAREZ6]

What are you doing with a dildo, pray tell?
I don't possess one, but that's not necessary for me to ensure a dildo reaches my friend Manny. Online ordering isn't a very recent innovation, tbh.

[smrattler]

Barry filed for divorce on Oct 29.

Sounds like they had been on the rocks fo months at least. If he found out his wife had something going on with Parker, wonder if he got the information back to Longoria. Speculations like this will be floating around like crazy for a while.

Of course, none of it may be true. The Parkers could be just another couple divorcing. Except they're rich and famous, so we have to add all kinds of plots and conspiracies.

[ALVAREZ6]

:lol

u mad.

LOL you couldn't imagine I am steaming out my ears

I actually just threw my roommate off our balcony :bang:bang:bang:bang

[hitmanyr2k]

Like I said a few hours ago, I hate to judge a book by its cover but the first time I saw a pic of Barry's wife the first thing that came to mind was cheater :lol She has a mischievous look about her. I like it.

[Obstructed_View]

If he found out his wife had something going on with Parker, wonder if he got the information back to Longoria.

Revenge sex with a desperate housewife? Sign me up!

[hater]

Eh, this was a long time coming. I'm not sure what kind of kinky sexual prowess that Eva had at one time, but obviously there must have been some craziness goin' on in that bedroom in the beginning for Tony to even consider at that time getting married, especially to Eva Longoria. I mean Eva is attractive, but for somebody in their 20's, rich and successful, not to mention voted as "one of the 50 most beautiful people" at one time, I definitely think Tony chose below is standards. Can you imagine the amount of "dime piece" drop dead gorgeous women that make offers to Tony?

Chris Rock said it best, his quote was "A man is only as faithful as his options." and Tony definitely has options. I have run into Eva twice, in person. Once at the Blanco Cafe, and once at the Tower of America's. Lets just say the people who do her hair and makeup are able to work wonders for her, and at least create this illusion that she is one of the more beautiful actresses out there. She is extremely skinny, her ass is pretty much non-existent, her breasts are small, and after seeing her at the Blanco Cafe up close and personal, her face is far from beautiful without a team of professionals making her up before her appearance. I'm sure Tony made an impulse decision due to whatever he was feeling at the time as far as getting married, but the reality of having to spend "the rest of your life" with someone probably set in, and he decided to take his chances on getting whatever it was that he was craving from somebody willing to do it.

As far as the current state of marriages in our generation, it just isnt what is was to our parents, and our grandparents. Now days both sides cheat, wouldn't be surprised to see an Eva scandal surface as well. In my point of view, I definitely think that couples should take an honest look at the possibilty of being "swingers" because all straight men are going to look at other attractive women, and the craving for another woman WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. Might as well work out a deal, and have your extra-curricular activities TOGETHER as a couple. Couple that plays together STAYS together.



/thread

[4down]

You obviously haven't been seen Erin then. She's every bit as fine as Eva.


it's like deciding what cut of steak you like best... the shitty part is eating off your boy's plate (IF true)

[HarlemHeat37]

:lol 30 pages for this??..313 guests?! :lol..

I can't go through 30 pages, so I'm guessing the same points were repeated..

- "Sexting" IS cheating, obviously..

- Athletes cheating on their wives is obviously really common, and there's nothing wrong with it..I can't imagine being rich and famous and not making some kind of deal with my spouse before getting married..I'm sure some guys agree to stay faithful, maybe Tony was one of the guys, but it just seems silly to actually believe that a person of that status would stay faithful..both parties receive many benefits from it..if you marry a pro athlete or any kind of celebrity, or even just a rich man, you would have to be an idiot to believe they're going to be faithful to you..

- Nothing wrong with Parker going after Brent Barry's wife, even though it might have been a better idea to just go after one of the many women he could get that aren't one of his ex-teammate's wives..if she wants it, she wants it..

- I feel bad for Brent Barry, but meh..if she was willing to cheat on him, then she's gaping anyways..I'm sure he got good use out of her, on to the next one..

[Nick, the Nazi]

Well, at least it wasn't Brent's mom he was nailing.

[Crookshanks]

:lol 30 pages for this??..313 guests?! :lol..

I can't go through 30 pages, so I'm guessing the same points were repeated..

- "Sexting" IS cheating, obviously..

- Athletes cheating on their wives is obviously really common, and there's nothing wrong with it..I can't imagine being rich and famous and not making some kind of deal with my spouse before getting married..I'm sure some guys agree to stay faithful, maybe Tony was one of the guys, but it just seems silly to actually believe that a person of that status would stay faithful..both parties receive many benefits from it..if you marry a pro athlete or any kind of celebrity, or even just a rich man, you would have to be an idiot to believe they're going to be faithful to you..

- Nothing wrong with Parker going after Brent Barry's wife, even though it might have been a better idea to just go after one of the many women he could get that aren't one of his ex-teammate's wives..if she wants it, she wants it..

- I feel bad for Brent Barry, but meh..if she was willing to cheat on him, then she's gaping anyways..I'm sure he got good use out of her, on to the next one..

Wow - I'm glad I don't know you, and I feel sorry for any woman you date.

[in2deep]

unfortunately Brent's wife was gonna get dick one way or another. That's how women are. Unfortunately Parker was stupid enough to let her touch his cigare

[SequSpur]

Since Brent is the ultimate jokester, I can already hear him saying:

"WTF, the first time Tony decides to make a pass to a Barry and it's Erin?!?"

lmao...

[Cry Havoc]

As far as the current state of marriages in our generation, it just isnt what is was to our parents, and our grandparents. Now days both sides cheat, wouldn't be surprised to see an Eva scandal surface as well. In my point of view, I definitely think that couples should take an honest look at the possibilty of being "swingers" because all straight men are going to look at other attractive women, and the craving for another woman WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. Might as well work out a deal, and have your extra-curricular activities TOGETHER as a couple. Couple that plays together STAYS together.

Yeah! Let's go back to our grandparents time when women didn't have equal rights and it was acceptable and legal for a husband to beat his wife! That will make marriage sacred again!

:lol

Women used to stay with their men because they had no choice. No career, no ability to make money of their own accord, no way to extricate themselves from a society with the attitude of, "well, if you dont want to get hit maybe you shouldn't talk back to your husband."

Ah yes, simpler times, when marriage meant something. :lol

[MannyIsGod]

Wow - I'm glad I don't know you, and I feel sorry for any woman you date.

Thats ok because I'm pretty sure he feels sorry for any man who dates you. :toast

[HarlemHeat37]

Why?..

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years, and I've never cheated on her(and I hope she's never cheated on me)..however, if I was rich and/or famous, life would be a lot different, and we would certainly have some kind of agreement in place..obviously..

Also, for those blaming Parker for going after Barry's wife, why?..it's not Parker's fault that Brent Barry's wife is a whore..in fact, you could argue that Tony did him a favor by revealing it..who knows how many other guys she has cheated on him with..she is somebody else's problem now..

[DesignatedT]

Why?..

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years, and I've never cheated on her(and I hope she's never cheated on me)..however, if I was rich and/or famous, life would be a lot different, and we would certainly have some kind of agreement in place..obviously..

Also, for those blaming Parker for going after Barry's wife, why?..it's not Parker's fault that Brent Barry's wife is a whore..in fact, you could argue that Tony did him a favor by revealing it..who knows how many other guys she has cheated on him with..she is somebody else's problem now..

Some reports are even saying that Brent and Erin Barry already had a divorce in place before this even happened but who knows.

[TwelveGs210]

Yeah! Let's go back to our grandparents time when women didn't have equal rights and it was acceptable and legal for a husband to beat his wife! That will make marriage sacred again!

:lol

Women used to stay with their men because they had no choice. No career, no ability to make money of their own accord, no way to extricate themselves from a society with the attitude of, "well, if you dont want to get hit maybe you shouldn't talk back to your husband."

Ah yes, simpler times, when marriage meant something. :lol

I dont see what your getting at, and how it relates to the point I made. Yes times were different back then, but this isnt the middle east where a woman could be stoned to death for any violation in a marriage. If a woman wanted out, she could get out. It might not have lead to the best quality of life, but the woman maintained the household tasks anyway, leaving the man wouldnt be an impossible goal.

[HarlemHeat37]

BTW, since I didn't read the entire thread, did I miss any Gary Neal jokes?..

[Brazil]

I am not a gossip guy, normally i don't give. A damn of players or celeb private life but I for once think it's quite sad news. I only hope that TP will stay focus on his game.

[Chomag]

Some reports are even saying that Brent and Erin Barry already had a divorce in place before this even happened but who knows.

From what I have seen reported that The Berry's filed on october 28th of this year and that tony has been texting to the said girl for a year.

I have no idea what the whole deal is either, but thats just reading reports.

[SA210]

http://blogs.babble.com/famecrawler/2010/11/17/tony-parker-cheating-friend-says-it-was-just-texting/


Tony Parker and Eva Longoria both announced that they are splitting. “It is with great sadness that after 7 years together, Tony and I have decided to divorce. We love each other deeply and pray for each other’s happiness,” they both announced on Twitter.


A source close to the basketball star told Mark Malkin of E! Online that Parker did exchange naughty texts with a fellow basketball player’s wife, but apparently that’s as far as it went. “There was no physical relationship,” the source said. “It was just texting. He knows the texting went too far,” the pal said. “He knows the marriage is over.”

Rumors are flying that Parker cheated with former teammate Brent Barry’s wife, Erin Barry. Brent and his wife are also going through a divorce right now.

Sports Illustrated writer Bryan Armen Graham tweeted, “Longoria said she found text messages from wife of a former teammate on Parker’s phone. Source says former teammate was Barry.”

The source confirmed that Parker did have an affair in the early days of their marriage but said that there weren’t any other affairs that would be coming out of the woodworks.

”If there are, they are lying,” the pal said. “This is not a Tiger Woods situation.”

[ALVAREZ6]

To suggest that TP's only been hitting it post divorce is ignorant, imo. He's been deep-sea diving for awhile now.
:tu

agreed

[TwelveGs210]

Dejuan Blair better handcuff Ashley Logan QUICK, or we are gonna see the Dispatch reporting soon that Tony slammed her too.

[024]

so parker only signed an extension to stay closer with barry's wife?

[NRHector]

Why?..

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years, and I've never cheated on her(and I hope she's never cheated on me)..however, if I was rich and/or famous, life would be a lot different, and we would certainly have some kind of agreement in place..obviously..

Also, for those blaming Parker for going after Barry's wife, why?..it's not Parker's fault that Brent Barry's wife is a whore..in fact, you could argue that Tony did him a favor by revealing it..who knows how many other guys she has cheated on him with..she is somebody else's problem now..there you go that's the bright side of this Franco-Mexican Novela, tony taking one for the teammates, whatta guy :toast

[HarlemHeat37]

Has anybody made a joke about Tony Parker having his career high in steals per game this season?..

[024]

Has anybody made a joke about Tony Parker having his career high in steals per game this season?..
:lol first time i heard that

[Chieflion]

Has anybody made a joke about Tony Parker having his career high in steals per game this season?..

I don't think so. But he is scoring in other ways than just basketball.

[Fpoonsie]

God, this sucks. I never much cared for Tony but always loved Brent. If all this is true, Tony's an even bigger piece a' shit than I thought.

And just when I started gettin my hopes up for the season's possibilities...

[HarlemHeat37]

Dejuan Blair better handcuff Ashley Logan QUICK, or we are gonna see the Dispatch reporting soon that Tony slammed her too.

I'm pretty sure everybody has slammed her already, tbh..

[Cry Havoc]

Has anybody made a joke about Tony Parker having his career high in steals per game this season?..

See the original post of the Bulls-Spurs game blog. :tu

[TwelveGs210]

Has anybody made a joke about Tony Parker having his career high in steals per game this season?..

yeah, but this steal probably dates back before this season. If anything, his steal statistics from past seasons should have an asterisk by them as we obviously didnt factor in his best steal, IMO.

[nkdlunch]

Some reports are even saying that Brent and Erin Barry already had a divorce in place before this even happened but who knows.

oh come on. that report is from [email protected] and nowhere else

[ohmwrecker]

Dejuan Blair better handcuff Ashley Logan QUICK, or we are gonna see the Dispatch reporting soon that Tony slammed her too.

She's not TP's type tbh

[TDomination]

So are we going to see Erin tonight in the stands cheering Tony on?

[TwelveGs210]

I'm pretty sure everybody has slammed her already, tbh..

yeah I saw TMZ report she was just recently spotted getting really cozy with DJ Mbenga at a prolific nightclub in N.O.

[TwelveGs210]

She's not TP's type tbh

yeah but apparently Tony's "type" is whore..are you sure about that?

[Slomo]

Has anybody made a joke about Tony Parker having his career high in steals per game this season?..

No, but I thought this one was pretty good :lol


Since Brent is the ultimate jokester, I can already hear him saying:

"WTF, the first time Tony decides to make a pass to a Barry and it's Erin?!?"

[ohmwrecker]

yeah but apparently Tony's "type" is whore..are you sure about that?

So, Erin Barry is a whore? I wasn't aware that you knew her personally.

[Dex]

God, this sucks. I never much cared for Tony but always loved Brent. If all this is true, Tony's an even bigger piece a' shit than I thought.

And just when I started gettin my hopes up for the season's possibilities...

Agreed. If I feel sorry for anybody in this mess, it's Bones. Dude was always nothing but a great teammate and professional (and his wife would be a tough one to let get away, as well).

[TwelveGs210]

So, Erin Barry is a whore? I wasn't aware that you knew her personally.

I dont need to know her personally, when her personal business is put out in front of the world to see. Nice try to defend her though.

[NBAFan]

Parker did a smart thing signing extension. He knew what was goin to happen eventually that his affair with Erin will be expose.
TP signing value may have drop little after this affair/divorce hoopla.
Whether you like it or not, having affair with a married ex team-mate wife create award situation in the locker room. For example: Should we invite parker to Spurs money raising gala for the medical center so he can hang-out with all the wives.
This accident will isolate Parker with bonding with team mates.
Anyway hopefully this won't affect Spurs. Good luck have fun with the drama for few days.

[TwelveGs210]

So, Erin Barry is a whore? I wasn't aware that you knew her personally.

And just a hypothetical question..would you want to make Erin Barry your wife after a report like this report came out?

[ALVAREZ6]

So, Erin Barry is a whore? I wasn't aware that you knew her personally.

Cheating while married with kids = whore

Cannot debate it

[HarlemHeat37]

Having an affair usually = whore, at least IMO..

You would have to have an amazing reason to have an affair and not be a whore, tbh..

[TwelveGs210]

Cheating while married with kids = whore

Cannot debate it

DAMN RIGHT. It is a huge decision to get married, you MUST marry the person you are 375% sure is the right person for you.

She is a whore.

[Chomag]

All kidding aside from what it does sound like is that Brent and Eva are pretty devistated finding out about this. It may not be a big deal to some but ask those two if they think that.

Its an unfortunate situation regardless how you may personaly feel about it.

[TwelveGs210]

The only way your not a whore in this case is if there was some kind of "arrangement" between her husband and her to agree to see other people. However she broke an unwritten CODE regardless of that, and she FUCKED HER HUSBANDS FRIEND!!

Not cool ANY way you look at it.

[The Reckoning]

brent should take the opportunity to tap eva...just saying

[Pauleta14]

Has anybody made a joke about Tony Parker having his career high in steals per game this season?..

No, just timvp quoting Brent Barry about Parker "finally giving a pass to a Barry, hoped it would have been to Brent and not Erin..."

:lol

[024]

if hollywood affairs are an omen, then parker is about win two championship rings.

[coyotes_geek]

Parker did a smart thing signing extension. He knew what was goin to happen eventually that his affair with Erin will be expose.
TP signing value may have drop little after this affair/divorce hoopla.
Whether you like it or not, having affair with a married ex team-mate wife create award situation in the locker room. For example: Should we invite parker to Spurs money raising gala for the medical center so he can hang-out with all the wives.
This accident will isolate Parker with bonding with team mates.
Anyway hopefully this won't affect Spurs. Good luck have fun with the drama for few days.

:rolleyes

Either that or Tony simply liked the idea of someone offering him $50 million dollars. One or the other...............

[BanditHiro]

if hollywood affairs are an omen, then parker is about win two championship rings.

yes!!!!!!!

[GSH]

I hope they have a 7 second delay on Sean. The jokes possibilities are too tempting.


Tony scored, and Erin gave him an and-1 opportunity.

When Eva gets done with him, he's going to wish he had just worked on his stroke.

Tony's true shooting percentage was about twice what Eva thought it was.

Brent Barry was a forward who could play both guard positions. Erin was also forward about playing with a guard in multiple positions.

[SA210]

Cheating while married with kids = whore

Cannot debate it

[ohmwrecker]

I dont need to know her personally, when her personal business is put out in front of the world to see. Nice try to defend her though.

I wasn't trying to defend her, but there are a lot of folks talking out of their ass.

[SA210]

DAMN RIGHT. It is a huge decision to get married, you MUST marry the person you are 375% sure is the right person for you.

She is a whore.

:toast

[ALVAREZ6]

Perhaps now Brent and Eva should start dating... might be the natural thing to do.

Except I'm not so sure Brent would be able to stay hard once he sees the "Tony" tattoo on Eva's cooch area.

[Sigz]

http://ll-media.tmz.com/2010/11/17/1117-brent-tony-eva-erin-exd.jpg

I bet Tony smushed with both of those dimes..... that SAME night.


LOLOLOLOL

[ObiwanGinobili]

I don't throw the word "whore" around lightly, but i do have to agree with these 2 statements


Cheating while married with kids = whore

Cannot debate it


Having an affair usually = whore, at least IMO..

that means applying the WHORE label to Tony equally.
no way she comes out the whore, and he's just 'a baller doin what ballers do'

bullshit.

[ALVAREZ6]

Having an affair does NOT mean you are a scumbag or a whore. You might not be a role model, but it doesn't mean you're a slut. What if she was caught in a sexless marriage? What if she truly loved her husband but wasn't getting the sexual gratification she needed? Women (and men) have needs and sexual desires that you cannot repress forever cause it will mess with your head. Kirilenko and his wife are way ahead of the curve imo.

Right. AK and his wife have an agreement. You make a decent case, but even if a woman hypothetically isn't getting the dick she wants, the natural thing to do is to address the concern via communication. It's a crucial step, and if you skip it and just start fucking other dudes, that makes you a whore.

[angelbelow]

Wow - I'm glad I don't know you, and I feel sorry for any woman you date.

truth hurts too much? lol. this is the world we live in.

[HarlemHeat37]

I don't throw the word "whore" around lightly, but i do have to agree with these 2 statements





that means applying the WHORE label to Tony equally.
no way she comes out the whore, and he's just 'a baller doin what ballers do'

bullshit.

Tony is a whore then, too..feel better?..I don't have a problem with anybody saying that..


I didn't know that Eva had Tony's name on the coochie:lol..that was smart..

[ObiwanGinobili]

Tony is a whore then, too..feel better?..I don't have a problem with anybody saying that..


I didn't know that Eva had Tony's name on the coochie:lol..that was smart..

oh that laser treatment is gonna HURT! :wow

[Chomag]

SAdispatch is reporting that it is confiirmed to be Erin Berry . Is that realy true that it's confirmed?

[ALVAREZ6]

I didn't know that Eva had Tony's name on the coochie:lol..that was smart..
I'm pretty sure getting a tattoo relating to your sig.other automatically destines you for a future break up. It's too stupid.

[ALVAREZ6]

How do you approach your husband/wife with something like that without fracturing them emotionally? "Sorry honey, you're just no good in the sack so I'm headed uptown to get some primo snatch." Natural human reaction (especially if you still love your spouse) is to keep an affair on the d/l.
You brought up the hypothetical where a wife is caught up in a sexless marriage...so, this is how it can be addressed:

"Husband, I want to have sex. We used to and it's natural for humans to. I need sex (like most of us). So, let's start having sex regularly, otherwise I may be interested in exploring my options. I want to be with someone that fucks."



Very abbreviated, but you get the point. That is already way better than skipping the communication and cheating. If the other is hurt emotionally, that's not really the wife's problem in this case. She voiced her legitimate concern, and if the husband agrees there's a problem he will start fucking her. If he disagrees, then it is just for the wife to end that marriage possibly and start pursuing other options. Doesn't really matter if the other is hurt in this type of case, you're already being reasonable about it by communicating. You at least have to give the chance.

[ace3g]

well Jon Barry is doing the Heat/Suns game so he won't be doing the Spurs game

[angelbelow]

I think a dolled up Eva > a dolled up Erin but I dont see how a person like Parker can stand Eva when she doesnt have her make up on.

IMO, I think Parker has done much more than just Erin Barry and I dont fault him.

[ALVAREZ6]

Well now you're changing your own hypothetical situation there Heydrich.


Brent + Erin is likely different, I agree. Regardless, cheating is still not justified.


If your roommate is playing some terrible ass music very loud, the natural thing to do is to ask him to turn it down, or consider using headphones. Or something like that. Grabbing a baseball bat and smashing his speakers without warning is probably the unreasonable response. It might have been good music in his view.

The two cases aren't equivalent in there basic elements, but it's the same idea.

[ObiwanGinobili]

http://www.tmz.com/2010/11/17/brent-barry-divorce-eva-longoria-tony-parker-erin-barry/


We spoke to Barry's father, NBA Hall of Famer Rick Barry, who told us, "I feel horrible for my son. I'm in shock. I knew [Erin] was moving out of the house soon and SHE was the one that filed for divorce. This is the straw that broke the camel's back."

Rick added, "[Brent] is going to be devastated. I can't even imagine him going through this ... the divorce was hard enough news."

awwww! :depressed thats so sad. poor Brent.

[ALVAREZ6]

When it's country music I bypass the pleasantries and go straight for the bat.
I would too actually :lol, and I would admit it isn't the most reasonable response.



On the side: A lot of my friends love country music, it's like a trend right now and I don't know why. Zach Brown band, Toby Keith, etc. going to these concerts, blasting annoying country music when we're partying. Only thing country has going for it is it's all about getting hammered if you listen to the songs. The main problem here is, it's too damn hard to listen to the songs. :bang

[duncan228]

Tony Parker briefly speaks out on his divorce (http://blog.mysanantonio.com/spursnation/2010/11/17/tony-parker-briefly-speaks-out-on-his-divorce/)
by Tim Griffin

Tony Parker answered three questions during a brief 50-second meeting with members of the media before Wednesday’s game. Here’s what he had to say:

His general statement on his divorce: “It’s a difficult time for me and Eva. We have a joint statement and everything else is our private life.”

On allegations that he was involved with the wife of a former teammate: “That’s my private life.”

On whether it will affect his play on the court and his teammates: “I’m having great support from my teammates and my coaches. I’m focused 100 percent on the Spurs and trying to win basketball games.”

http://blog.mysanantonio.com/spursnation/2010/11/17/tony-parker-briefly-speaks-out-on-his-divorce/

[TwelveGs210]

I wasn't trying to defend her, but there are a lot of folks talking out of their ass.

And Im not one of said people. You sound like your a cheater yourself, because your are defending her side. Marriage is a commitment, its fine to be "slutty" and have all the partners you want as a female, just not after you take vows to be a wife and a mother. Hands down.

[The Reckoning]

thats what happens when you use your spouse to forward you own career. it becomes a business agreement and nothing else.

[TwelveGs210]

Having an affair does NOT mean you are a scumbag or a whore. You might not be a role model, but it doesn't mean you're a slut. What if she was caught in a sexless marriage? What if she truly loved her husband but wasn't getting the sexual gratification she needed? Women (and men) have needs and sexual desires that you cannot repress forever cause it will mess with your head. Kirilenko and his wife are way ahead of the curve imo.

+1

I was thinking the same thing, you posted it before me though. Both sides do have needs, and if the spouse wont do it, someone else will.

[baseline bum]

Eh, this was a long time coming. I'm not sure what kind of kinky sexual prowess that Eva had at one time, but obviously there must have been some craziness goin' on in that bedroom in the beginning for Tony to even consider at that time getting married, especially to Eva Longoria. I mean Eva is attractive, but for somebody in their 20's, rich and successful, not to mention voted as "one of the 50 most beautiful people" at one time, I definitely think Tony chose below is standards. Can you imagine the amount of "dime piece" drop dead gorgeous women that make offers to Tony?

Chris Rock said it best, his quote was "A man is only as faithful as his options." and Tony definitely has options. I have run into Eva twice, in person. Once at the Blanco Cafe, and once at the Tower of America's. Lets just say the people who do her hair and makeup are able to work wonders for her, and at least create this illusion that she is one of the more beautiful actresses out there. She is extremely skinny, her ass is pretty much non-existent, her breasts are small, and after seeing her at the Blanco Cafe up close and personal, her face is far from beautiful without a team of professionals making her up before her appearance. I'm sure Tony made an impulse decision due to whatever he was feeling at the time as far as getting married, but the reality of having to spend "the rest of your life" with someone probably set in, and he decided to take his chances on getting whatever it was that he was craving from somebody willing to do it.

As far as the current state of marriages in our generation, it just isnt what is was to our parents, and our grandparents. Now days both sides cheat, wouldn't be surprised to see an Eva scandal surface as well. In my point of view, I definitely think that couples should take an honest look at the possibilty of being "swingers" because all straight men are going to look at other attractive women, and the craving for another woman WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. Might as well work out a deal, and have your extra-curricular activities TOGETHER as a couple. Couple that plays together STAYS together.

I think you have that last saying wrong.

http://image.guardian.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/arts/2005/03/07/crumb_family.jpg

[Rick Von Braun]

I hope they have a 7 second delay on Sean. The jokes possibilities are too tempting.


Tony scored, and Erin gave him an and-1 opportunity.

When Eva gets done with him, he's going to wish he had just worked on his stroke.

Tony's true shooting percentage was about twice what Eva thought it was.

Brent Barry was a forward who could play both guard positions. Erin was also forward about playing with a guard in multiple positions.

:lmao

[Crookshanks]

^ ewww - that's sick

[TwelveGs210]

Right. AK and his wife have an agreement. You make a decent case, but even if a woman hypothetically isn't getting the dick she wants, the natural thing to do is to address the concern via communication. It's a crucial step, and if you skip it and just start fucking other dudes, that makes you a whore.

Yes. If you get married you need to look beneath the whole relationship thing. This person who you are cheating on is YOUR FRIEND before any of that other shit. You cant burn somebody who has been there for you, and thats the way I see it. You MUST at least give the person a chance through communication to take steps to make you happy. If you in your subconsious (sp?) mind know you are not happy, you MUST be an adult and a respectable person about the issue and at least END the relationship. Why try and hang on to a SHITTY relationship and cheat behind the others back??

[TwelveGs210]

How do you approach your husband/wife with something like that without fracturing them emotionally? "Sorry honey, you're just no good in the sack so I'm headed uptown to get some primo snatch." Natural human reaction (especially if you still love your spouse) is to keep an affair on the d/l.

There is no way around it. Either way at one point, the other person will be devastated, especially if they had no clue it was coming. Might as well fracture her world in a respectable way, that might at least leave you with a close friend, or maybe an occasional fuck friend.

I know it doesnt make alot of sense to possibly have a fuck friend from the person you didnt think was good enough in bed, but alot of the time it's not the woman isnt good in bed, it's just people get LAZY in their relationship and the things they once did that STARTED the relationship slowly stop happening over time. After time away the passion comes back again, as long as there is at least physical attraction.

[SenorSpur]

that means applying the WHORE label to Tony equally.
no way she comes out the whore, and he's just 'a baller doin what ballers do'

bullshit.

:toast

Yeah, I see a lot of folks here are trashing Erin and seemingly giving TP a pass. As a Spurs fan, I support Tony and do not wish to see anything negatively affect his on-court production.

If these alleged details are indeed true, let's call it for what it is. Two consenting adults getting their freak on -regardless of their marital status. Let's not trash Erin and give an "atta boy" to Tony. He's just as culpable.

Because he was a significant contributor to many successful Spurs teams and as part of our Spurs family, I feel for bad for Brent and his family.

[Sigz]

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/marc_malkin/b211866_source_tony_parker_didnt_have_sex_with.htm l

[TwelveGs210]

When it's country music I bypass the pleasantries and go straight for the bat.

Theres easier ways to commit suicide than by using a bat..oh wait..you were referring to using the bat to smash speakers..never mind

[024]

parker had an affair right after he married eva? now that's low.

[TwelveGs210]

:toast

Yeah, I see a lot of folks here are trashing Erin and seemingly giving TP a pass. As a Spurs fan, I support Tony and do not wish to see anything negatively affect his on-court production.

If these alleged details are indeed true, let's call it for what it is. Two consenting adults getting their freak on -regardless of their marital status. Let's not trash Erin and give an "atta boy" to Tony. He's just as culpable.

Because he was a significant contributor to many successful Spurs teams and as part of our Spurs family, I feel for bad for Brent and his family.

I'm definitely not trying to say that TP is not equally as whorish, its just that bottom line, nobody gives a shit whether the man was faithful. Women are the brundt of fallout from a scandal. Consensus from the overall public is "a man doing what a man does", and I'm not trying to say thats the correct way to view things

[Spurs9]

Is there at least a hot picture of Erin?

I bet Delonte West is involved in this somehow, or am I think about Lebrons mom? :lmao:lmao:lmao:lmao:lmao

[Spurologist]

any word on Tp's mistresses making any statements?

[easjer]

Still so many assumptions going on. There is no actual proof of physical intercourse. Or even the texts, for that matter.

But assume Eva's statements about the texts are 100% true. Ok. Why would she put that out there in this highly orchestrated public way, and not that he cheated too?

Shocking thought - perhaps there was no physical relationship.

And I think perhaps some people misunderstand what a whore is, to throw it around so freely.

Beyond that, I'm with Manny, Kori, and ploto. Not often I'm going to say those words.

[TwelveGs210]

Fair enough point, but I still can't imagine anyone approaching their spouse with the problem. It takes time and an insane amount of energy to break that kind of news to someone you love. Most of the time in that situation the person having 2nd thoughts already has their next rendezvous set up, so it's easier to have a clandestine relationship rather than face the music. It's not right, I agree, but it's the easiest and least confrontational way in a busy adult's life.

I see exactly where your coming from, and I know that would be a very hard thing to say to someone you love, especially with children in the mix. But can you imagine the fury of a scorned woman, when she finds out the hard way you been banging another broad on the side?? People get MURDERED for shit like this. Very risky business.

[GoodOdor]

Spurs have such classy players:lol:lol:lol:lol:lol

[benefactor]

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/marc_malkin/b211866_source_tony_parker_didnt_have_sex_with.htm l
I'm betting he'll be beating the lining out of it now.

[TwelveGs210]

I think you have that last saying wrong.

http://image.guardian.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/arts/2005/03/07/crumb_family.jpg

lmao @ that pic.. thats on some backwoods Alabama BS right there.

[ace3g]

lol Jon Barry doesn't mention the Spurs big 3 among the leagues best

[TwelveGs210]

Spurs have such classy players:lol:lol:lol:lol:lol

Yeah, but at least our scandal is consentual.

[TDMVPDPOY]

so with this divorce, i hope the cameraman stops zooming into eva every break they have, im tired of that shit

and trade parker also, he just brought down what the spurs stand for...

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

Very disappointed to hear about this. If it's true, Tony is a fool, and his behaviour is very disappointing. Want out of a marriage, get out of it, but cheating is bullshit, and cheating with a teammates' wife is reprehensible behaviour. Very, very disappointing.


Having an affair does NOT mean you are a scumbag

Um, yes it does. You are both breaking the most important agreement in your life and lying to the person you supposedly love the most. That is scumbag behaviour.


I think a dolled up Eva > a dolled up Erin but I dont see how a person like Parker can stand Eva when she doesnt have her make up on.

IMO, I think Parker has done much more than just Erin Barry and I dont fault him.

Fucking idiotic. Both sentences.

[baseline bum]

lmao @ that pic.. thats on some backwoods Alabama BS right there.

Nah, it's one of Robert Crumb's comics, so it's some backwoods Pennsylvania shit. :lol

[Nick, the Nazi]

Life isn't black and white.

This.


And just because someone is a Spur, it doesn't mean he is the epitome of class.

[easjer]

35 pages and people still don't get that there is no actual evidence of sex.

Some people - Eva, evidently - consider sexting to be cheating. But not everyone does. If she does, and this has crossed her line and broken her trust, that's her business.

Whatever.

Tony Parker sexted with a former teammate's wife. Is it the stuff of a good role model? No. But it isn't like he killed someone for the love of God.

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

All you people defending cheating are basically saying that an agreement between two people who supposedly love each other (whether married or simply together by mutual agreement) is utterly meaningless. You are also endorsing the right to lie to those you love about the most important thing in their lives and yours, namely your relationship. You are pretending that it's excusable behaviour when actually it is deplorable and despicable.

I will now get flamed for being a prude or jumping on the moral high horse, but anyone who does that can go fuck themselves. Look at what you are saying - it is okay to lie to your partner, it is okay to endanger their health (by sleeping with someone else while you're probably still sleeping with them), it is okay to let your genitals make decisions for you. Actually, no, it's not, and those are the traits of the weak.

If you want out of any kind of relationship you do it face-to-face, and you do it BEFORE you start sleeping around. It's not all about you. You made a commitment to this person, and they are impacted by your decision, so at least respect them enough to end it with dignity.

:pctoss

[TwelveGs210]

so with this divorce, i hope the cameraman stops zooming into eva every break they have, im tired of that shit

and trade parker also, he just brought down what the spurs stand for...

you cant be serious.

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

Life isn't black and white.

Well duh. I see the work in shades of grey too, dipshit. But when it comes to cheating, there is no reasonable justification unless the two parties are informed and in agreement, in which case it's an open relationship and cheating is not an issue.

Cheating is the act of a coward. Want out, get out, then fuck away to your heart's content.

[TwelveGs210]

Nah, it's one of Robert Crumb's comics, so it's some backwoods Pennsylvania shit. :lol

Interesting..The only Crumb I've ever know is "Harry".

[TwelveGs210]

where there's smoke, there's fire. You'd have to have boundless optimism not to think that penetration occurred.

+1

[MinuteByMinuteSports]

Maybe Tony wanted Eva to find out, maybe him and Erin fell in love?

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

The moral relativism employed in this thread by those who justify cheating is an embodiment of the sickness of the human soul. What do I mean? You people are only thinking about yourselves and completely ignoring the iompact on the other person, who is equally important and should be equally empowered in the relationship. By cheating you are saying they don't count for anything. That is sick.

[GoodOdor]

Cheating is not a shock, but with a former teammate's wife?

Damn, what a bitch.

lol such a "classy" player.

[Dex]

All you people defending cheating are basically saying that an agreement between two people who supposedly love each other (whether married or simply together by mutual agreement) is utterly meaningless. You are also endorsing the right to lie to those you love about the most important thing in their lives and yours, namely your relationship. You are pretending that it's excusable behaviour when actually it is deplorable and despicable.

I will now get flamed for being a prude or jumping on the moral high horse, but anyone who does that can go fuck themselves. Look at what you are saying - it is okay to lie to your partner, it is okay to endanger their health (by sleeping with someone else while you're probably still sleeping with them), it is okay to let your genitals make decisions for you. Actually, no, it's not, and those are the traits of the weak.

If you want out of any kind of relationship you do it face-to-face, and you do it BEFORE you start sleeping around. It's not all about you. You made a commitment to this person, and they are impacted by your decision, so at least respect them enough to end it with dignity.

:pctoss

:tu

[DJ Mbenga]

Where there's smoke, there's fire. You'd have to have boundless optimism not to think that penetration occurred.

wow, just read about this. but you make a good point. no way in hell is a guy going to "devastated" if his wife is texting another. tony was probably fucking her all the time

[easjer]

All you people defending cheating are basically saying that an agreement between two people who supposedly love each other (whether married or simply together by mutual agreement) is utterly meaningless. You are also endorsing the right to lie to those you love about the most important thing in their lives and yours, namely your relationship. You are pretending that it's excusable behaviour when actually it is deplorable and despicable.

I will now get flamed for being a prude or jumping on the moral high horse, but anyone who does that can go fuck themselves. Look at what you are saying - it is okay to lie to your partner, it is okay to endanger their health (by sleeping with someone else while you're probably still sleeping with them), it is okay to let your genitals make decisions for you. Actually, no, it's not, and those are the traits of the weak.

If you want out of any kind of relationship you do it face-to-face, and you do it BEFORE you start sleeping around. It's not all about you. You made a commitment to this person, and they are impacted by your decision, so at least respect them enough to end it with dignity.

:pctoss

Not everyone is endorsing cheating.

A fair number of us are saying that people are jumping the gun here and making some pretty broadly based assumptions.

And regardless of whether it happened or not, I'm still back with Manny. Who cares? I mean, yeah, it's not particularly nice, but well. I'm not a Tony Parker fan because I thought he was the paragon of a good husband.

I get that the Spurs are known and loved for being character guys - it's a reason I love them myself. But if he cheated on his wife, well, ok. It's not great, but it's also not the end of the world. There are far worse things he could do that would genuinely make me lose respect for him.

I guess this just isn't one of them.

So watching all the moralistic preaching when there is no proof that he's done anything is just bizarre to me. Talk about rush to judgment.

[TDMVPDPOY]

it must suck being the mango tree now....

[TwelveGs210]

Also for people taking the "It was just sexting" route..seriously..from a MAN point of view.. (now I could be wrong on this, but this is assuming that Erin and Brent still have a home here, because I'm not sure, but i think i've read somewhere that they did) you are sexting with a gorgeous woman, your shit hard, your not thinking with your uppermost head, not to mention this woman lives in SA, and its so easy to make arrangements to meet somewhere, do you REALLY think you would spend so much time sexting back and forth and be able to CONTROL your desire to FUCK her? Hell nah..supposedly there was several texts, and it's not realistic to think they were "text fuck friends" only. No way.

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

What is next week's sermon about?

I can tell you've been in either no, or just a couple serious relationships in your life.

Fuck you and your moral relativism. There are situations where people fall out of love and stay together for the kids, or one or the other partner gets sick and the sex disappears, and in those and similar cases negotiation is called for. That is not what we're talking about - this is two highly successful people, one of whom has decided to pretend the other doesn't matter any more without informing them.

I'm 35 and have been in a number of long term serious relationships. In those relationships I have actually shown respect for the person I'm with and openly communicated with them. I have broken up with someone to pursue someone else - it wasn't pretty, but it was a damn sight better than cheating on them.

PS I am assuming there has been intercourse - if it's just flirting by text, that's a very different story.

[Texas_Ranger]

First he gets in HEB commercials and then he gets in Erin.

[Ignignokt]

Unless your a borderline cuck or a straight out cuckhold, i don't see how anyone on this board doesn't see Erin Barry as a complete slut. If i was Brent Barry, bitch wont see the kids for an indefinate time, nor get any of my money. She better strip for cash to eat from now on. I'm serious.

[HarlemHeat37]

The teammate part isn't a big deal..it's not Parker's obligation to stay away from her, it's her obligation to resist temptation, she has a husband and kids..sucks for Barry to find out this way, but at least he knows she's a whore now, even though it's obviously a painful realization..

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

Not everyone is endorsing cheating.

A fair number of us are saying that people are jumping the gun here and making some pretty broadly based assumptions.

And regardless of whether it happened or not, I'm still back with Manny. Who cares? I mean, yeah, it's not particularly nice, but well. I'm not a Tony Parker fan because I thought he was the paragon of a good husband.

I get that the Spurs are known and loved for being character guys - it's a reason I love them myself. But if he cheated on his wife, well, ok. It's not great, but it's also not the end of the world. There are far worse things he could do that would genuinely make me lose respect for him.

I guess this just isn't one of them.

So watching all the moralistic preaching when there is no proof that he's done anything is just bizarre to me. Talk about rush to judgment.

Fair enough. I am assuming that TP has been fucking around. Do you really believe someone would divorce someone else for texting? C'mon.

Anyway, if he's just been texting people I couldn't give a shit. If he has been fucking people outside his marriage he's a scumbag for all the reasons I outlined above, which is a real pity.

[HarlemHeat37]

I don't know how anybody can argue that sexting isn't cheating:lol..how the fuck isn't that considered cheating?..while it isn't physical, it's not like it's the same thing as fantasizing about it..sexting means you're actually doing something about it, you aren't just thinking about it..

If my girlfriend was sexting, I would break up with her instantly, tbh..

[Ignignokt]

I will root for TP to score buckets during a game while also rooting that they find a suitable replacement.

Guy is a scumbag.

[easjer]

Fuck you and your moral relativism. There are situations where people fall out of love and stay together for the kids, or one or the other partner gets sick and the sex disappears, and in those and similar cases negotiation is called for. That is not what we're talking about - this is two highly successful people, one of whom has decided to pretend the other doesn't matter any more without informing them.

I'm 35 and have been in a number of long term serious relationships. In those relationships I have actually shown respect for the person I'm with and openly communicated with them. I have broken up with someone to pursue someone else - it wasn't pretty, but it was a damn sight better than cheating on them.

PS I am assuming there has been intercourse - if it's just flirting by text, that's a very different story.

Dude, that's all a bunch of us are saying. That no one knows what is happening.

There are a lot of assumptions flying around.

Maybe we could lose the high morality tones until we know what's happened? Plenty of time to bring the high horse out of the stable and ride it around later.

And I have no idea what a man thinks about while texting/sexting. I don't see it as being completely unreal to think it might not have gone farther.

Especially since everything has been SO orchestrated on Eva's side. An interview revealing all of this and divorce papers filed the day it hits? Given the thick, high-handed press spin her camp is putting out, I would assume cheating would have been included in there.

Perhaps I'm wrong. If so, I'll be happy to pile up some stones to throw at Tony next time the team is in Houston. :rolleyes

[Ignignokt]

easjer.. i bet you cuckold your husband. You sound a bit progressive and whiny like the liberal bitch Cry Havoc is.

[MannyIsGod]

Fuck you and your moral relativism. There are situations where people fall out of love and stay together for the kids, or one or the other partner gets sick and the sex disappears, and in those and similar cases negotiation is called for. That is not what we're talking about - this is two highly successful people, one of whom has decided to pretend the other doesn't matter any more without informing them.

I'm 35 and have been in a number of long term serious relationships. In those relationships I have actually shown respect for the person I'm with and openly communicated with them. I have broken up with someone to pursue someone else - it wasn't pretty, but it was a damn sight better than cheating on them.

PS I am assuming there has been intercourse - if it's just flirting by text, that's a very different story.

I wasn't aware you were involved in discussing Tony and Eva's relationship with them. Interesting.

[SA210]

All you people defending cheating are basically saying that an agreement between two people who supposedly love each other (whether married or simply together by mutual agreement) is utterly meaningless. You are also endorsing the right to lie to those you love about the most important thing in their lives and yours, namely your relationship. You are pretending that it's excusable behaviour when actually it is deplorable and despicable.

I will now get flamed for being a prude or jumping on the moral high horse, but anyone who does that can go fuck themselves. Look at what you are saying - it is okay to lie to your partner, it is okay to endanger their health (by sleeping with someone else while you're probably still sleeping with them), it is okay to let your genitals make decisions for you. Actually, no, it's not, and those are the traits of the weak.

If you want out of any kind of relationship you do it face-to-face, and you do it BEFORE you start sleeping around. It's not all about you. You made a commitment to this person, and they are impacted by your decision, so at least respect them enough to end it with dignity.

:pctoss

:tu


The moral relativism employed in this thread by those who justify cheating is an embodiment of the sickness of the human soul. What do I mean? You people are only thinking about yourselves and completely ignoring the iompact on the other person, who is equally important and should be equally empowered in the relationship. By cheating you are saying they don't count for anything. That is sick.

:tu

[Stump]

I'm with RuffnReady on this one. Cheating is wrong and cowardly. Period.

As to if they actually had sex, I too think it's much more likely that it happened than it didn't, but the point is that we don't know. It's entirely possible that Tony and Erin received emotional support from each other with both of their marriages in troubled waters, some sexual tension then developed between the two, but in the end they were too scared to go through with it.

[Stump]

I'm with RuffnReady on this one. Cheating is wrong and cowardly. Period.

As to if they actually had sex, I too think it's much more likely that it happened than it didn't, but the point is that we don't know. It's entirely possible that Tony and Erin received emotional support from each other with both of their marriages in troubled waters, some sexual tension then developed between the two, but in the end they were too scared to go through with it.

[HarlemHeat37]

Also, all this talk about "class" is really annoying..

The details aren't out yet, but I'd be willing to bet that they both did some cheating..even so, while I'm completely against cheating and it annoys me, it's not like he murdered somebody or raped somebody..shit, this isn't even as bad as drunk driving IMO..

It's not like the Lakers or Nuggets or most other NBA teams:lol..

[TwelveGs210]

Fair enough. I am assuming that TP has been fucking around. Do you really believe someone would divorce someone else for texting? C'mon.

Anyway, if he's just been texting people I couldn't give a shit. If he has been fucking people outside his marriage he's a scumbag for all the reasons I outlined above, which is a real pity.

I agree. Not to mention Tony is the same age as me, he is definitely wise enough to know what kind of backlash and negative publicity a thing like this would bring. Just like EVERY god damn tabloid out there was dying to feature the marriage story, this will be the same scenario x50. So much for the Spurs flying under the radar.

[ALVAREZ6]

I don't know how anybody can argue that sexting isn't cheating:lol..how the fuck isn't that considered cheating?..while it isn't physical, it's not like it's the same thing as fantasizing about it..sexting means you're actually doing something about it, you aren't just thinking about it..

If my girlfriend was sexting, I would break up with her instantly, tbh..

I would too.


It's hard to draw the line between being an over-controlling freak and being the super lenient chill guy. But still, as stupid as breaking up over texting sounds, it's justified. If you're in a serious relationship, you theoretically care about the other person and intend on having a future with them. It's hard to love someone when that person is begging for it from someone else.

[angelbelow]

Very disappointed to hear about this. If it's true, Tony is a fool, and his behaviour is very disappointing. Want out of a marriage, get out of it, but cheating is bullshit, and cheating with a teammates' wife is reprehensible behaviour. Very, very disappointing.



Um, yes it does. You are both breaking the most important agreement in your life and lying to the person you supposedly love the most. That is scumbag behaviour.



Fucking idiotic. Both sentences.

LOL. Although I do tend to agree that the cheating part is unnecessary and perhaps divorcing first would have been more ideal, we dont live in a perfect world. By so heavily disagreeing with this whole situation you prove that you live in a world of fantasy and idealism. This shit happens whether you like it or not, however, you are by no means forced to face the harsh reality of the world we live in.

[BlairForceDejuan]

Tony has betrayed The Family. Not the attention whore tmz family, but the Black and Silver family.

Blood in Blood out.
http://espn.go.com/photo/2007/0605/nba_g_popovich_275.jpg

[MannyIsGod]

LOL. Although I do tend to agree that the cheating part is unnecessary and perhaps divorcing first would have been more ideal, we dont live in a perfect world. By so heavily disagreeing with this whole situation you prove that you live in a world of fantasy and idealism. This shit happens whether you like it or not, however, you are by no means forced to face the harsh reality of the world we live in.

Obviously you don't know who you're talking to but even so I'd say your description is accurate.

[easjer]

I don't know how anybody can argue that sexting isn't cheating:lol..how the fuck isn't that considered cheating?..while it isn't physical, it's not like it's the same thing as fantasizing about it..sexting means you're actually doing something about it, you aren't just thinking about it..

If my girlfriend was sexting, I would break up with her instantly, tbh..

I'm saying that every couple has to define that for themselves.

Would I consider it cheating? No. I'd consider it a violation of my trust, and I'd be incredibly hurt. Depending on a number of factors, it could be marriage-breaking.

I know people who would consider it cheating. That's cool. I know people who wouldn't.

It doesn't much matter in this case, b/c I'm not Eva Longoria or Tony Parker. Obviously, it crossed her line. Shrug.

[HarlemHeat37]

Well, being an "overly controlling freak" would be those guys that get angry when their girlfriend talks or texts her guy friends, or talks to other guys in general, in certain scenarios that they don't approve of, like a club/bar or something..

Sexting isn't the same, it's clearly cheating IMO..

[Trill Clinton]

I don't know how anybody can argue that sexting isn't cheating:lol..how the fuck isn't that considered cheating?..while it isn't physical, it's not like it's the same thing as fantasizing about it..sexting means you're actually doing something about it, you aren't just thinking about it..

If my girlfriend was sexting, I would break up with her instantly, tbh..

If it was my gf I'd kick her to the curb too but this is his WIFE. I'm not married nor do I ever want to get married but I thought it was "til death do us part".

Why wouldn't they try to work things out? Marriage sucks btw.

[HarlemHeat37]

I'm saying that every couple has to define that for themselves.

Would I consider it cheating? No. I'd consider it a violation of my trust, and I'd be incredibly hurt. Depending on a number of factors, it could be marriage-breaking.

I know people who would consider it cheating. That's cool. I know people who wouldn't.

It doesn't much matter in this case, b/c I'm not Eva Longoria or Tony Parker. Obviously, it crossed her line. Shrug.

I don't disagree that everybody is entitled to define it for themselves..

You say you don't consider it to be cheating..I'll ask, why?..sorry if you already explained it, but I didn't read through the entire thread..

[SA210]

Sexting IS cheating. If you have to hide doing it, then you are obviously doing something wrong.

[Quiet Strength]

I will root for TP to score buckets during a game while also rooting that they find a suitable replacement.

Guy is a scumbag.

Replacement? It's not like he cheated on the team and played for the lakers. Yes he's a bad husband and if him and barry were even friends then he's a bad friend.. but he's a great player and just because he cheated on his wife doesn't mean the spurs should get rid of him.

[easjer]

easjer.. i bet you cuckold your husband. You sound a bit progressive and whiny like the liberal bitch Cry Havoc is.

Oh, yeah, definitely. In fact, I've proposed marriage on more than one occassion to Jekka and asked her to tell Manny I was in love with him for his responses in this thread.

You're a good guesser.

[Nick, the Nazi]

but I thought it was "til death do us part".



You do realize that's just a figure of speech?

[ALVAREZ6]

Well, being an "overly controlling freak" would be those guys that get angry when their girlfriend talks or texts her guy friends, or talks to other guys in general, in certain scenarios that they don't approve of, like a club/bar or something..

Sexting isn't the same, it's clearly cheating IMO..

Oh I'm with you, I understand. I posed it more so for the girl's side.


Different girls have different opinions on what is too controlling, and what isn't. There's some girls out there that freak out when you are sincerely concerned that she may be behaving rather inappropriately... I've been in this type of relationship. So, in those cases it can be hard to draw the line because they see almost anything as too controlling.

[angelbelow]

Obviously you don't know who you're talking to but even so I'd say your description is accurate.

Im talking to whoever wants to listen. But I dont really care if they agree or no because its not an easy thing to swallow. After all, most of society is composed of idealists.

[easjer]

I don't disagree that everybody is entitled to define it for themselves..

You say you don't consider it to be cheating..I'll ask, why?..sorry if you already explained it, but I didn't read through the entire thread..

Because I define cheating as his dick, hands, or mouth physically involved with another person.

Which is not to say I'd be ok with my husband sexting another woman. I wouldn't be. It would be a violation of my trust. It would be hurtful. If it were a long-term thing, and an emotional affair, it would quite possibly fall across my boundaries into divorce-able offense.

But it's not entirely the same thing to me as my husband fucking another woman. If it is to someone else, that's cool. That's their relationship and their business.

That's all.

ETA - There are just a lot of factors for me. If my husband were drunk and kissed another woman, that would be different than a long-term sexting thing. I'd feel a lot more violated over the sexting. I'm sure someone will say I'm arguing semantics, but it's just how it works out in my head.

[ALVAREZ6]

You do realize that's just a figure of speech?

LOL, well most certainly in today's society.


The origins of the phrase came in a much different time.

[Trill Clinton]

You do realize that's just a figure of speech?

:rolleyes

[angelbelow]

Btw, I do definitely agree that sexting is cheating. Especially because it involves an emotional commitment either before or concurrently with physical activity.

[Fernando TD21]

Agreed. If I feel sorry for anybody in this mess, it's Bones. Dude was always nothing but a great teammate and professional (and his wife would be a tough one to let get away, as well).


Having an affair usually = whore, at least IMO..

You would have to have an amazing reason to have an affair and not be a whore, tbh..


I don't know how anybody can argue that sexting isn't cheating:lol..how the fuck isn't that considered cheating?..while it isn't physical, it's not like it's the same thing as fantasizing about it..sexting means you're actually doing something about it, you aren't just thinking about it..

If my girlfriend was sexting, I would break up with her instantly, tbh..

:tu

[Nick, the Nazi]

:rolleyes


And there's no santa either.

[Trill Clinton]

And there's no santa either.


Riiiiiight, lemme guess....there's no such thing as the easter bunny either?:rolleyes

*sends wish list to santa*http://i560.photobucket.com/albums/ss49/aos_images/smilies/santa_smiley.gif

[EricB]

Replacement? It's not like he cheated on the team and played for the lakers. Yes he's a bad husband and if him and barry were even friends then he's a bad friend.. but he's a great player and just because he cheated on his wife doesn't mean the spurs should get rid of him.


Yeah I agree.

Im not a fan of Parker anymore, I will clap when he scores and what not, but honestly, if he got traded I wouldn't be broken up over it. Cheating on your wife is one thing, cheating on her with another man's wife who was your coworker and teammate and someone you hugged slapped hands with and went to battle with on the court?

I mean thats a pretty low level right there.

[Nathan Explosion]

I guess we won't get any more of these pics.

http://i.cnn.net/si/multimedia/photo_gallery/0706/gallerycaughtintheact.0615/images/11.jpg

[ALVAREZ6]

Yeah I agree.

Im not a fan of Parker anymore, I will clap when he scores and what not, but honestly, if he got traded I wouldn't be broken up over it. Cheating on your wife is one thing, cheating on her with another man's wife who was your coworker and teammate and someone you hugged slapped hands with and went to battle with on the court?

I mean thats a pretty low level right there.

It's French


/sarcasm

only kidding, relax triggers

[mrsmaalox]

It's sad that someone had their feelings hurt----but nobody really knows what happened, what led up to what, who is a slut or who is a saint, except for the 4 parties involved. It's just odd to me that people here are making judgements either way, because for the smidge of information that has been fed to us, there is no doubt an enormous amount of information that we will never be privy to. I'm sorry for the pain the involved parties may be feeling, but I seriously doubt anyone's life or career has been ruined. Nothing that I have heard over the last 2 days has changed my feelings about any of the parties involved in any way. I hope they all recover as quickly as possible and carry on.

[EricB]

It's sad that someone had their feelings hurt----but nobody really knows what happened, what led up to what, who is a slut or who is a saint, except for the 4 parties involved. It's just odd to me that people here are making judgements either way, because for the smidge of information that has been fed to us, there is no doubt an enormous amount of information that we will never be privy to. I'm sorry for the pain the involved parties may be feeling, but I seriously doubt anyone's life or career has been ruined. Nothing that I have heard over the last 2 days has changed my feelings about any of the parties involved in any way. I hope they all recover as quickly as possible and carry on.


I can easily make a judgement that someone who cheats on their wife with the wife of another man is a piece of shit.

Thanks.

[HarlemHeat37]

Why should Parker take that into consideration?..

It's not his fault that she made the decision to ruin her marriage..she could have said, "no"..

[Shelly]

I can easily make a judgement that someone who cheats on their wife with the wife of another man is a piece of shit.

Thanks.

Then you should think the same of Erin Barry.

[san antonio spurs]

I can easily make a judgement that someone who cheats on their wife with the wife of another man is a piece of shit.

Thanks.

Has it been proven he cheated?

[easjer]

Has it been proven he cheated?

Why would that matter?!

Making judgments without facts is way more fun!

[rascal]

Why should Parker take that into consideration?..

It's not his fault that she made the decision to ruin her marriage..she could have said, "no"..

Most likely she was the one who asked Parker.

[san antonio spurs]

Why would that matter?!

Making judgments without facts is way more fun!
:lol

[rascal]

She will change her mind and not go through with it when Parker comes crying back.
Its a power play and nothing more on her part.

[jag]

Say what you will about Tony and Erin, but the lack of Erin Barry pictures in this thread is what bothers me the most.

[ALVAREZ6]

who here wants to suck my balls?


I'm in the mood to have my balls sucked, they're rather sweaty under this warm laptop.

[Kori Ellis]

:lol at E! quoting SpursTalk threads:

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b211918_five_things_know_about_tony_parkers.html

[ALVAREZ6]

I'm sure Erin's free to throat your scrote.

Yeah I guess I could contact her or Eva. I'm sure Eva wants some good old revenge fuck every man in sight action.

[Shelly]

:lol at E! quoting SpursTalk threads:

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b211918_five_things_know_about_tony_parkers.html

Well, now you can check being quoted by E! off your bucket list!

[easjer]

:lol at E! quoting SpursTalk threads:

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b211918_five_things_know_about_tony_parkers.html

That was fucking AWESOME.

Way to make the big leagues, y'all. :lol

[jag]

If all they did was text then Tony is a strong man.

http://www.americansuperstarmag.com/sites/default/files/images/erin-barry-9.jpg

http://www.americansuperstarmag.com/sites/default/files/images/erin-barry-11.jpg

http://www.americansuperstarmag.com/sites/default/files/images/erin-barry-2.jpg

[easjer]

Those pics are amazing. Very good looking woman.

[Das Texan]

:lol at E! quoting SpursTalk threads:

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b211918_five_things_know_about_tony_parkers.html


wait til more places start quoting the sa dispatch.....

[Sigz]

http://cdn.babble.com/famecrawler/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/erin-barry-1.jpg

[angelbelow]

Lol Jag was disappointed there werent enough pictures of Erin so he took matters into his own hands.

[peskypesky]

If all they did was text then Tony is a strong man.

http://www.americansuperstarmag.com/sites/default/files/images/erin-barry-9.jpg

http://www.americansuperstarmag.com/sites/default/files/images/erin-barry-11.jpg

http://www.americansuperstarmag.com/sites/default/files/images/erin-barry-2.jpg

holy moly, that is one hot tamale.

[TDMVPDPOY]

damn erin is amazing!!!

[DAF86]

How epic it would have been if instead of Erin, Manny would have been the one Parker cheated with?

[peskypesky]

Eva is pretty hot too

http://www.hecklerspray.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/eva%20longoria%20bikini%20wax.jpg

http://laht.com/movies/eva_longoria%20maxim%20photo.jpg

[Spurminator]

:lol at E! quoting SpursTalk threads:

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b211918_five_things_know_about_tony_parkers.html

:lmao

Would have been even better if they had cited ducks as the source.

[thispego]

:lol at E! quoting SpursTalk threads:

http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b211918_five_things_know_about_tony_parkers.html

what? cuckold?

[SequSpur]

:lmao

Would have been even better if they had cited ducks as the source.

now that's frickin funny...

[DAF86]

How epic it would have been if instead of Erin, Manny would have been the one Parker cheated with?

Or what ever it was he did.

[Leftyventricle]

http://i551.photobucket.com/albums/ii448/leftyventricle/x2_36df8fb.jpg

[polandprzem]

Tony was messing with older women and he got burned

There is a lesson to be learned






But I do not know what kind of one

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

When I posted before I assumed there was actual sex involved. If there isn't, and it's just some sexual texting, what a storm in a teacup! Sure, it means that those doing the sexting are being dishonest, and that there are serious issues in their relationships that need attention, but that's when you face up, take your medicine and address the issues in your relationship, not run for the divorce courts.

[rmt]

Wow, if this is true, I feel really sorry for Brent Barry. 20 years together, childhood sweethearts, the mother of your children. This is not the Hollywood, high-flying type marriage that Tony and Eva have - the Barrys have grown up together. Betrayal must feel terrible. :depressed

[DesignatedT]

this thread is still going strong? lol

[Kori Ellis]

When I posted before I assumed there was actual sex involved. If there isn't, and it's just some sexual texting, what a storm in a teacup! Sure, it means that those doing the sexting are being dishonest, and that there are serious issues in their relationships that need attention, but that's when you face up, take your medicine and address the issues in your relationship, not run for the divorce courts.

The original report was that it wasn't even sexting. That it was some "emotional" texts from her.

Reports since are saying that they did not have a physical relationship, but who knows.

[TampaDude]

Wow, if this is true, I feel really sorry for Brent Barry. 20 years together, childhood sweethearts, the mother of your children. This is not the Hollywood, high-flying type marriage that Tony and Eva have - the Barrys have grown up together. Betrayal must feel terrible. :depressed

Yeah, that sucks for Brent Barry. Erin is smokin' hot, though. :hat

[EricB]

If there was no physical relationship I take back what I said, BUT WTF is she doing texting him shit like that.

Also, if it was just emotional and nothing sexual or hitting on him, then Eva justifiable is a little short fused. Of course getting cheated on within the first year of a relationship will do that

[MannyIsGod]

How epic it would have been if instead of Erin, Manny would have been the one Parker cheated with?

:lol wtf?

[EricB]

Just to get back at Manu for the shitty tip? Manu would've just shrugged his shoulders.

[Kori Ellis]

Who knows if Tony is even a factor in the Barry divorce. They might have had other issues (and that could be why she even started talking to Tony..then it escalated). All around, it's sad for the couples and the Barry kids.

[easjer]

Who knows if Tony is even a factor in the Barry divorce. They might have had other issues (and that could be why she even started talking to Tony..then it escalated). All around, it's sad for the couples and the Barry kids.

One of the most reasonable things said in the thread.

[DesignatedT]

That's what I was thinking....

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

The original report was that it wasn't even sexting. That it was some "emotional" texts from her.

Reports since are saying that they did not have a physical relationship, but who knows.

Thanks. Curious that Brent filed for divorce on 28 October too. How do we know that the "emotional" texts weren't a friend asking another friend for support? We don't.

I jumped the gun before, but actually I just felt like an anti-cheating rant. ;)

I hate the way so many people (but men in particular) try to justify it.

[RuffnReadyOzStyle]

Who knows if Tony is even a factor in the Barry divorce. They might have had other issues (and that could be why she even started talking to Tony..then it escalated). All around, it's sad for the couples and the Barry kids.

And that is the most reasonable thing that's been said in this thread.

[FkLA]

wait so tony did nothing with her?

WTF

[Chachachango]

if there's no porn video this shouldnt be talked about. Leave it alone already.

[Pauleta14]

Why would that matter?!

Making judgments without facts is way more fun!


Quote of the night

[Whisky Dog]

After watching the game I'll say that all this had no effect on my enjoyment. Honestly, I really don't care about these guy's lives. All I care is that the players on my team produce wins

[crc21209]

After watching the game I'll say that all this had no effect on my enjoyment. Honestly, I really don't care about these guy's lives. All I care is that the players on my team produce wins

+1. Their personal lives are just that, their personal lives. It's not like we have a guy on our team who drove drunk and killled/injured someone. We don't have ex-convicts or anything of that matter on our team.

[Indazone]

Well, if the Spurs continue to play well after a huge emotional bump like this to their star guard, I will be amazed. Not to mention the entire distraction this is to the rest of the team and staff.

[duncan228]

Buck Harvey: No Tony the Tiger: Beyond? a divorce (http://blog.mysanantonio.com/spursnation/2010/11/18/buck-harvey-no-tony-the-tiger-beyond%ef%80%a1-a-divorce/)
Buck Harvey

...Headlines help, especially if she can cast herself as a victim. Parker and the Spurs should brace themselves for more, too; this story will be in the news as long as Longoria wants it to be.

The twist is that Parker loved her business, too. He loved attending premieres, and he loved the mix of beautiful people and glamour.

The Spurs noticed as much. Over these last few years, he’s become more distant, detached from the locker room.

It’s not that the other Spurs have disliked him, though he could come across as being full of himself. They didn’t know what to make of him. Parker lived outside their world, and the coaches said the same.

Last season, Gregg Popovich, who has been close to Parker for years, used the word “disengaged” to describe his point guard.

http://blog.mysanantonio.com/spursnation/2010/11/18/buck-harvey-no-tony-the-tiger-beyond%ef%80%a1-a-divorce/

[Indazone]

Spurs will end up trading TP to the Knicks or any other team that will have him.

[rapliketp]

We spoke to Barry's father, NBA Hall of Famer Rick Barry, who told us, "I feel horrible for my son. I'm in shock. I knew [Erin] was moving out of the house soon and SHE was the one that filed for divorce. This is the straw that broke the camel's back."

Rick added, "[Brent] is going to be devastated. I can't even imagine him going through this ... the divorce was hard enough news."

http://www.tmz.com/2010/11/17/brent-barry-divorce-eva-longoria-tony-parker-erin-barry/

[crc21209]

Spurs will end up trading TP to the Knicks or any other team that will have him.

:lol

[rapliketp]

Whose side will Tim and Manu choose? Stay friends with Tony or Brent?

[HarlemHeat37]

Whose side will Tim and Manu choose? Stay friends with Tony or Brent?

Why can't they be friends with both?..this isn't junior high school:lol..

[MinuteByMinuteSports]

Who knows if Tony is even a factor in the Barry divorce. They might have had other issues (and that could be why she even started talking to Tony..then it escalated). All around, it's sad for the couples and the Barry kids.

agreed

[crc21209]

Personally I think TP will have his head more in the game now without flying here and there for movie premieres/award shows and what not. He'll grow closer to his teamates and they'll take him in and be there for him probably when he needs them the most right now...

[duncan228]

Some post-game quotes and Parker drama stuff.

Parker splits from Longoria, then keeps Spurs hot (http://sports.yahoo.com/nba/recap?gid=2010111724)
By Paul J. Weber

http://sports.yahoo.com/nba/recap?gid=2010111724

[spurs1990]

http://www.google.com/trends/hottrends

1) Erin Berry
2) Greg Oden
3) Brent Barry

That's ridiculous

[ALVAREZ6]

7. erin barry san antonio
13. tony parker cheating
14. creme fraiche (lol)
18. tony parker and eva longoria divorce

[SenorSpur]

http://blog.mysanantonio.com/spursnation/2010/11/18/buck-harvey-no-tony-the-tiger-beyond%ef%80%a1-a-divorce/

The minute Tony started dating and entered into that Hollywood lifestyle, the salacious headlines were sure to follow. Thus, it increase the likelihood that there would be some sort of undesirable attention - headlines that the Spurs organization detests. In Fakerland, this would be a blip on the screen. The Spurs, on the other hand, would rather not have Entertainment tonight and the E Network calling for game credentials, as well as having their players queried about this off-the-court business.

This hasn't been mentioned, but Pop is in a somewhat awkward position too. He loves TP like a son and I'm sure he loves Eva like a daughter-in-law. However, Pop loves ALL his current and former players, so you know he's also still got love for Brent and his wife.

This will make for a very tense future reunion of the 2005 and 2007 championiship teams, long after TP retires.

[Glenn Holland]

this just goes to show that the squeaky clean, white washed, holier than thou attitude the spurs organization has tried to portray is beginning to crumble and for once the truth will be exposed that san antonio is just as full of hate, lies, and deceit as any other place on this earth.

[UnWantedTheory]

Im just here to be apart of this threads history. Okie dokie...bye.

[romain.star]

question to long time posters: is this the longest ST thread ever?

[duncan228]

question to long time posters: is this the longest ST thread ever?

No. A few samples, there are more: Tonight's game blog is longer, and other game blogs have been longer. In the Club, The Quattro, and the Random Thoughts are a couple long ones. There's been some long ones in the Political Forum and the Troll Forum too.

[Killakobe81]

I don't really care. As long as he'll play good for the Spurs I will like him.

LOL EXACTLY. That is why I laugh at the RAPIST Jokes. I trust Kobe with a ball in his hands not with my wife ....

Glad some of you are being honest.
If Parker helps you win the 5th or gets you to the WCF ...does it matter who is banging?

[polandprzem]

okay - can anyone tell me how all that happened?
What was the reason of divorce? We still do not know?

Do you think that could be related to the Parkers extension? [to some degree]

I mean eva could not stand an 'outside' worlds Tony was living in?

Kinda strange

[Silver&Black Warrior]

Just curious if anybody knows whether the Barry's were truly divorcing before this came out and for how long. Were they divorcing INDEPENDENTLY and from THEIR own issues or was this the actual CAUSE of the divorce? Probably have to wait for this to be determined as the days, weeks, and months play out.

If this took place during the Barry's divorcing process then it's not quite as severe.

Hopefully this is what it is for the sake of the LONG TERM outlook of the relationships of players (current or former) who are closer to the situation than others.

[fred33]

I' am in shock about erin barry

[Glenn Holland]

I' am in shock about erin barry
than you are a fool.

women in general are sluts who can not keep their vagina for one man only.
that is especially true with white females.

[temujin]

Just another reason NOT to have any cell phone.

[ploto]

Who knows if Tony is even a factor in the Barry divorce. They might have had other issues (and that could be why she even started talking to Tony..then it escalated). All around, it's sad for the couples and the Barry kids.

That is kind of what I proposed in the beginning- that issues existed within one or both couples and they were good friends. Of all the Spurs wives, Erin formed the closest relationship with Eva. I could see it beginning as Tony and Erin leaning on each other or seeking advice from each other, and then them getting too close and crossing the line, even without any physical intimacy.

[ploto]

http://blog.mysanantonio.com/spursnation/2010/11/18/buck-harvey-no-tony-the-tiger-beyond%ef%80%a1-a-divorce/

His private life not only won’t affect his professional one, he might even be better in it now...

Don’t be surprised if, without the red carpet in front of him, he hangs around the drab carpet in the locker room and appreciates some company.

Buck Harvey- right on cue.

[Hemotivo]

If TP drops 17 a game and Spurs are winning, nobody will give a shit about it

this

[ChuckD]

...
This will make for a very tense future reunion of the 2005 and 2007 championiship teams, long after TP retires.

Bros before hos

[Agloco]

Be a proud pothead or, . . . get off the pot. We need warriors.

:tu :hat



LOL EXACTLY. That is why I laugh at the RAPIST Jokes. I trust Kobe with his balls in his hands not with my wife ....

Glad some of you are being honest.
If Parker helps you win the 5th or gets you to the WCF ...does it matter who is banging?

If you're a female this wouldn't make you the slightest bit nervous?

[easjer]

Just curious if anybody knows whether the Barry's were truly divorcing before this came out and for how long. Were they divorcing INDEPENDENTLY and from THEIR own issues or was this the actual CAUSE of the divorce? Probably have to wait for this to be determined as the days, weeks, and months play out.

If this took place during the Barry's divorcing process then it's not quite as severe.

Hopefully this is what it is for the sake of the LONG TERM outlook of the relationships of players (current or former) who are closer to the situation than others.

The Barrys filed for divorce at the end of October.

The texting supposedly went on for over a year.

That's all anyone knows.

As Kori pointed out, the earliest text statements didn't include sexting - said they were emotional in nature. Sources have stated there were some naughty texts but that there was no physical intimacy.

Marriages are complex. They usually don't fall apart solely because of one thing. Could this have played a big role? Of course. Could this not have been the issue? Of course.

Not to throw more speculation out there, but it's not impossible for someone to have been in a relationship for 20 years (since they were kids), wake up one day, look around and think - what am I doing here? What have I missed? It's not impossible for someone in a long distance relationship to look at emotional texts and think - I don't trust him, we spend too much time apart, I can't make this work anymore.

Soooo, yeah. I doubt there will ever be firm information, because really, there is so much that happens behind closed doors and between people.

[romain.star]

No. A few samples, there are more: Tonight's game blog is longer, and other game blogs have been longer. In the Club, The Quattro, and the Random Thoughts are a couple long ones. There's been some long ones in the Political Forum and the Troll Forum too.

yeah well sure the game blogs are always longer but i was wondering if there was any longer ''regular'' thread in the San Antonio Spurs Forum...

[Agloco]

It was a different kind of day in San Antonio, where players aren’t used to having the relative tranquillity of their locker room broken by much other than a Gregg Popovich rant.

Earlier, Popovich said he didn’t think Parker’s real-life soap opera, seemingly lifted from the plot of “Desperate Housewives,” would prove a distraction.

“I’ve never worried about getting somebody focused,” Popovich said. “If I need to do that, I have the wrong people on the team.”

And Tony goes out to drop 21 on the Bulls. :tu