You're conflating personal life with personal choice. It's a hypothetical question. You're the one who said you cannot tell the difference, was that comment only regarding your professional life?
"Anyone here ever see the new Marvel movie?"
"Why do you care so much about my personal life?"
You got embarrassed about your personal life that you decided to blog about on Spurstalk. Now you want to pretend someone else is interested in you in some creepy way and you're spinning as fast as you can as a smoke screen.
One thing is for certain, the next time Mono uses that "sitting in your bedroom while your parents watch..." shtick, it will be obvious that's likely about you.