Do you bro!
I'm 32 years old and I'm hooking up with a 19 year old.
Obviously it's legal but am I a bad person?
Do you bro!
No, but I would keep it at just hooking up.
Nope
Eyes wide open
Get a vasectomy.
Shouldn't have banned Avante. You could use his expertise.
What do you guys talk about lol
I said 19, not 9
She tells me how college is going, I tell her how my day went . That part isn't as awkward as you'd think.
She's insanely horny though, like it's almost exhausting.
as long as you two are clear and on the same page as far as what you are expecting out of it, tbh.
if you're just having fun and its physical, she should know that. like, it should be spoken about and not just some silent understanding you believe there to be
im only slightly younger than you, but i couldnt fathom seriously connecting with somebody 19 y/o. but if you do, good on you.
Nah, you're fine
Plus you also said 'dating', not 'raping'
Eww, kind of gross. Your body your choice I guess. But they're very fertile at that age, so better double bag it and pull out too just in case.
I would never. Too much time, maturity, experience, education, intellectual and emotional gap tbh. Even though it's legal. But you better actually take a good look at her driver's license.
Can't hate tbh long as she's legal I see no problem. Not like you're some 50 year old dude who knew her as a child or something. Then you'd be a bad person
No one seriously can tbh. The age gap between 19 and 21 is a lot in terms of life experience just as 25-30+. It is what it is and they're both adults so again, have fun.
Ya'll dating or just ing around? I can't see myself taking a 19yr old serious outside of sex tbh.
So it definitely started off as just a hook up thing but I’m starting to take her more seriously than I ever thought I would and she’s getting really attached to me to the point where the hook up buddy status quo won’t really work much longer.
I mean you aren't a bad person...and smashing that isn't wrong at all...but I feel like there would be a generational disconnect. The other worry is that everything is ok for a while but if you move past hook up status what does that look like? She may seem ready at first glance but will there be a point where her relational inexperience/immaturity comes out? Just things to consider.
Interesting. I don't feel like you need advice, but be honest with her and have fun. Make sure you set the bar high for the next man. Take her shopping, get hair and nails done...introduce her to the finer things in life. If she's mature enough to keep your attention then I don't see why you wouldn't keep her around. Enjoy.
problem is she's too fertile at that age. Better get her on the pill and better already get your prenup drafted if you want to be more serious than buddies.
Also, this thread is useless without pics.
She's on the pill
I don’t remember where I heard this from but some time ago I was told or read somewhere that a good rule of thumb for age gaps in dating is to divide your age in half and add 7 years. And that’s the youngest age you should date. Based on that, you probably are too old for that girl. But that’s not some sacred rule or anything. More of “guideline” probably made up from some women’s magazine.
To me personally, two consenting adults are two consenting adults. Just wanted to offer you a different point of view.
I’m 33 and was recently dating a 25 year old. That was the biggest age gap I have dated. She was insanely hot and also insanely horny. It was really fun for a bit, but there was just to much of a generational gap and I ended. On top of that she got pretty attached pretty quick. I couldn’t do it for longer than a few months personally, but hey if it works for you and makes you happy do you bro
no man, you need to only date girls your age you creep. 7 dates minimum before sex, pay for all their drinks, follow the rules. you're really missing out on 'past the wall', lifeless boring women your age who need to be in bed by 9 complaining all men are the same while still dreaming that Chad will marry her some day just because he slept with her that one time a decade ago rofl /s.
tbh I've always kept my dating options at 26 or younger. If you're past 30, in shape, and have your stuff together you can always get women in their prime (18-24 imo). it's only the fat slobs who have no options that will shame you for it tbh imo
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