All married/engaged men should get up to 3 cheats per year with no penalty

[Millennial_Messiah]

Eight and a half years later, I've changed my mind on this.

I think both men and women should each get 1 casual sexual encounter with a different person of the opposite gender per year, but they should be transparent and communicative about it and not secretive.

But it's no secret that, as I've gone from youth to wizened middle age, that I know very well now that variety is very healthy for a sex life and having sex with a different person outside the relationship/marriage can be extremely beneficial to the relationship, so each partner can appreciate the other person more and what they have and have a little healthy jealously that can brighten up the relationship/marriage.

I especially think it's important for men to be open minded about their woman having sex with another man for her own self esteem as long as it's not at his living place and he knows about it. But men should be okay with it. At the end of the day, sex is just sex, nothing to kill over or anything.

After how, how fair is it to a woman, who can generally have multiple orgasms, to only get to have one for the rest of her whole life? Women especially deserve their variety.

[ChumpDumper]

This is....dumb.

[Fat Brandon Bass]

Eight and a half years later, I've changed my mind on this.

I think both men and women should each get 1 casual sexual encounter with a different person of the opposite gender per year, but they should be transparent and communicative about it and not secretive.

But it's no secret that, as I've gone from youth to wizened middle age, that I know very well now that variety is very healthy for a sex life and having sex with a different person outside the relationship/marriage can be extremely beneficial to the relationship, so each partner can appreciate the other person more and what they have and have a little healthy jealously that can brighten up the relationship/marriage.

I especially think it's important for men to be open minded about their woman having sex with another man for her own self esteem as long as it's not at his living place and he knows about it. But men should be okay with it. At the end of the day, sex is just sex, nothing to kill over or anything.

After how, how fair is it to a woman, who can generally have multiple orgasms, to only get to have one for the rest of her whole life? Women especially deserve their variety.

I mean...the best strategy in 2025 is really to get as rich as possible so that a divorce is just a minor drop in the bucket and pop out kids with multiple women. We're entering into the Barbarian/Ghenghis Khan Era of Dating for men imho.

Any dude who willingly gets married in this day and age, who would in theory get wiped out by one divorce, is a re with all the info / statistics out there. The only other option (if you can stomach it) is to be a relatively handsome dude who marries down to a 2/10 landwhale (think your average 2006 Spurstalk GTG era type size of woman) who has very limited options. About 99.9% of the Gen Z / late millennial relationships/marriages I see nowadays where the woman is attractive is basically just a daily humiliation ritual for the guy since she knows she holds all the cards and has infinity options basically. Sorry n1ggaz, that's just the way it is. Best thing to do really is to just have a bunch of situationships IMO or go volcel until you actually make over $300kish a year

Of course the strategy will vary if you are not in The West imho tbh Jason Witten no helment, bernard hopkins no gloves, Riley Martin no parakeet etc