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    What do the men think about this? And ladies, do you approach a guy you like? I find this really common now'adays.. since these days so many guys are shy where the girls have to do all the work.

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    the girl will end up wearing the pants in the relationship.

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    ^ RACK!

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    kind of says alot to a girl if you don't have the confidence to go up and talk to her....

    that or your game sucks....

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    it saves the guy from being blockd, but hey girls are up for falcon punches

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    W4A1 143 43CK? Nbadan's Avatar
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    Yep, you learn pretty quick that confidant guys get the chicks.....even bad confidence....

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    I tend to be shy about meeting new people in general, even just as friends, so I've never approached a guy I didn't know. I have had friendships with guys before where I was the one to initiate the move towards more of a dating relationship, and that's worked out just fine. I think it would really depend more on the people involved than on the act/role reversal itself -- either it's no big deal and never becomes an issue, or it's important to someone and becomes a source of weirdness.

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    What do the men think about this? And ladies, do you approach a guy you like? I find this really common now'adays.. since these days so many guys are shy where the girls have to do all the work.
    What are you worryin about approaching guys for, I thought you had a boyfriend??

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    wow.. i guess the guys don't understand this question. okay, for all you shy guys out there who seriously can't go up to a female... do you want the female to approach you? In other words, i'm in a situation where I see this guy alot. I see him looking at me alot, and I'm definitely attracted to him, but I don't know what to do. I feel weird approaching him because I've never done it before and I barely see him talking to girls.. i know he's not gay for a fact.

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    What are you worryin about approaching guys for, I thought you had a boyfriend??

    not anymore, we broke up like 2 months ago.

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    Ina world of hype, we win IronMexican's Avatar
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    im pretty shy, my last girlfriend asked me out.

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    wow.. i guess the guys don't understand this question. okay, for all you shy guys out there who seriously can't go up to a female... do you want the female to approach you? In other words, i'm in a situation where I see this guy alot. I see him looking at me alot, and I'm definitely attracted to him, but I don't know what to do. I feel weird approaching him because I've never done it before and I barely see him talking to girls.. i know he's not gay for a fact.
    If he likes you then he wants you to go up to him. Sometimes I can be a little shy myself, talking to him won't hurt.

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    If he likes you then he wants you to go up to him. Sometimes I can be a little shy myself, talking to him won't hurt.
    I've gotten the same thing from alot of people.. "talk to him."

    What should I say to him to get him talking? i guess this is what makes outgoing guys very different from shy guys.

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    I've gotten the same thing from alot of people.. "talk to him."

    What should I say to him to get him talking? i guess this is what makes outgoing guys very different from shy guys.
    Anything really, it's not really the subject of the conversation that matters, it's just "breaking the ice" that he can't get over. That's why you break it for him, so to speak

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    I find this really common now'adays..

    What clubs/bars in southern california have this? Sign me up!

    shy guys can pick up good pussy still, you just have to be smooth and have confidence at the same time.

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    ive noticed an abundance of aggressive females in the last few years.... either that or im just that damn fly

    waaaaaaavvvvvvvvvvvy!

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    wow.. i guess the guys don't understand this question. okay, for all you shy guys out there who seriously can't go up to a female... do you want the female to approach you? In other words, i'm in a situation where I see this guy alot. I see him looking at me alot, and I'm definitely attracted to him, but I don't know what to do. I feel weird approaching him because I've never done it before and I barely see him talking to girls.. i know he's not gay for a fact.
    I didn't think you caught me checking you out. I have no problem with women approaching me. What did you have in mind?

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    sons if the broad approaches you first then that means she is only interested in hitting and quitting (which is a good thing). milk it for what it is worth ... go ahead and smash it like there is no tomorrow, but don't get too attached sons. trust me your not the first or only guy she has approached. god bless

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    We give them the right to vote, work, and own property and now they want to act like they've got the and balls too?

    I don't got any problems with a woman having a strong personality but I'll be got damned if I ever let one try to pick me up at the bar. While I'm on this roll I'll go so far to say that I'm sick of this "two last names" or if she keeps her own last name when people get married now. You got married, you take your man's last name. What, another man's last name ain't good enough for you but your daddy's last name is? Hypocrites, all of you. Just like how you say you want a nice guy and then when you leave to go the bathroom you talk to your girlfriends about your bad boy fantasies and how you wish someone was waiting in your closet when you get home to just have their way with you.

    lovethe23, if you want some confidence out of that dude, don't small talk with him, don't tell him how you feel. the next time you see him walk up and just kiss the bas and I guarantee you you'll get about 7 inches of confidence out of him real quick.

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    wow.. i guess the guys don't understand this question. okay, for all you shy guys out there who seriously can't go up to a female... do you want the female to approach you? In other words, i'm in a situation where I see this guy alot. I see him looking at me alot, and I'm definitely attracted to him, but I don't know what to do. I feel weird approaching him because I've never done it before and I barely see him talking to girls.. i know he's not gay for a fact.
    I don't see any problem with that, but realize that your probably gonna be making most of the important decisions in any future relationship...I think the more imperative thing to do is just introduce yourself and let the guy make some effort if he really wants to get to know you....

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    usually a turn on and i dont think it automatically means the woman will wear the pants.

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    Megan found me, seriously.

    I wasnt really looking for anyone at the time, but she came along and introduced herself to me, 2 years later, I couldnt be happier.

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    Yep, you learn pretty quick that confidant guys get the chicks.....even bad confidence....
    +1

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    Megan found me, seriously.

    I wasnt really looking for anyone at the time, but she came along and introduced herself to me, 2 years later, I couldnt be happier.

    Same here.......I had a g/f at the time, but this other female approached me about going out......I dumped my g/f and 1yr later married this other girl. We have been married 5yrs now!!! She is the best.

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    sons if the broad approaches you first then that means she is only interested in hitting and quitting (which is a good thing). milk it for what it is worth ... go ahead and smash it like there is no tomorrow, but don't get too attached sons. trust me your not the first or only guy she has approached. god bless
    LOL BRHornet is slowly become my favorite poster.

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