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women let their hormones make the decisions for them
its true though. most women never know what they want, thus leading to random choices and strange desicion making.stretch has been paying attention
but dont listen to me, i dont know about women
women let their hormones make the decisions for them
Sometimes movies...sometimes drinks...went to the mall last week....
She acts comfortable...
I asked one of her friends about us -- and she said...I'm not sure if she likes your or not but she definitely acts differently around you...
She said...I don't think it would work since work together (which we no longer do).
avoid this during her menstrual periods and try to make your move just as her menstrual cycle is ending. trust me, she will be much more receptive. Of course you'd have to be pretty damn close to know the schedule of her menses
that is a major positive.
do either of yall act flirty with one another?
invite her to your local adult theater and see if she responds. tell her you'll bring a plastic cover so that she doesn't have to sit on the dirty seats.
Yeah...Like I said the only reason I haven't gone for it is cause I don't want to ruin the relationship
do either of yall act flirty with one another?
well technically there is no relationship yet, but i think you are in.
ive been in these situations a few times. failed and succeeded. fact is, you gotta be honest with her before its too late.
how does she respond to you when you act flirty with her?
Sounds like you are screwed. If she wanted you that way it would have already happened and she's already said no once...if you are absolutely determined to proceed then you might want to slip her a roofy before you make your move.
Hopefully you dont still work with her:Rule of thumb."Never where you eat"..
If not, heres some advice..
Gonna take a certain level of being y and funny.And not just one or the other.Tease her.She has to feel a gut level attraction.If not you may as well forget it.
Comedy wins every single time.
yup. humor always wins. the y factor is extremely important too, but you gotta know where to draw the line both ways. dont wanna come across as a soft pushover, but dont wanna come across as a total head either. perhaps confidence is the best term to use.
Stretch is right, women love confidence, as long as you're not overbearing or obnoxious.
Exactly.W'ere not talking head y or too much humor.Too much of one of the other is excessive and makes you seem insecure or trying too hard...Women notice things that we don't, and are truly precise when it comes to men.
Makes a world of difference when you know whats going on with the ladies..
And if she considers you just a "friend",you can forget it.Women dont sleep with their "friends"....It can also be real tough to get out of that "friend" zone too if you know what I mean..
Attraction is key.
My best advice is to get a really good job and an expensive car.
or a 12 inch !
Don't even really need that..As long as she wants HIM there's nothing she can do about it.
Just like I like oreo cookies, there isn't anything I can do about it.Same thing here..
Attraction isn't a choice.Its all about how you make women "feel".There's a lot of average salaried men that date a lot of fine ass women out there.
couldn't have said it better myself.
The Three Rules
1. Be Handsome
2. Be Attractive
3. Don't Be Unattractive
anyways, here is how I will sum it up from my point of view...
Eventually if you want this to go somewhere, obviously you have to let her know how you feel. But at the same time, I understand the situation is hard and you dont want to potentially mess things up. So it would be a good idea to kinda make things a little more obvious so that it doesn't end up catching her too off guard, and so you can get a better read on how comfortabel she really feels about you. Make it obvious you have feelings for her by the way you act around her. Be yourself, but start being a little flirtier with her. Sometimes look at her and smile at her as if you adore her like nothing else. Try being touchy with her from time to time (not feeling on her in a sexual way or anything, but make physical contact with her periodically and make its seem natural and comfortable). Be a gentleman, but dont overdo it and come across as fake or like you are TRYING to be a gentleman. Treat her well. Make sure she knows you cherish her and knows that she can depend on you for anything she needs. If you feel like she seems comfortable with you doing all that, then you need to sit down with her one night and have a little conversation about it, tell her your feelings and your opinion on the matter, and wish for the best.
IMO - I think you are definitley on her mind and have a very good chance at winning with her. Just play your cards right, be yourself, treat her well, and you should be golden.
Not trying to be a jerk at all but do guys really just want to hang out with chicks for no reason? I mean come on girls unless were gay there is always a reason we want to hang out. Does she maybe feel your gay? Not saying you are but could that be a reason she likes to hang out with you?
I really like you your like a brother to me.
Ok I'm in,............ who's the other brotha?
Best advise so far!
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