Come to think of it, I haven't played ball all day with my friends like I used to, and when I even tried to play at all, she seemed to get mad cause I wasn't blowing her phone up trying to talk to her.
Somewhere along the lines our fathers before us failed to teach us the lack of real value early love and early pussy really has.
Lets make sure our kids don't grow up crying on the internet about some we all know isn't fit to stand by our sides.
I'm gonna make a stand right now and promise my boy that when he gets older I'll make sure he understands that no pussy between the ages of 15 and 23 should be taken seriously.
WHO'S WITH ME!!!!!!
Come to think of it, I haven't played ball all day with my friends like I used to, and when I even tried to play at all, she seemed to get mad cause I wasn't blowing her phone up trying to talk to her.
if you take one lesson from this experience, it should be that "YOU allowed this environment to exist. she may not be as bad as everyone thinks, but you let her taste the power she has over you.
HARRUMPH!!!!!
I wish I could stay here and pound this in your head all day but I'm about to pretend my kid is sick so I can leave in 30 minutes and go pick up my reserved copy of Madden 09 and head on home to ignore my wife and real world responsibilities to play some football until my fingers fall off.
I recommend you do the same friendo.
the only thing i would add is disease free birth controlled pussy you can dump in raw dog.
You seem to have life figured..show me the way![]()
That was an added bonus.
BacktoBasics I don't know if you'd view this as an insult or a compliment, but I have put you in my personal man-crush Ring Of Honor. You, Tom Brady, and DiCaprio are the only 3 inductees.
I make the commitment right now
I'll be the first to admit that I too have fallen under the spell of fresh young taut vagoo. When I speak its from real life experience. I didn't have it all figured out until I was older...late 20's. I don't mean "figured out" as if I have every answer to every question but I know first hand the women do and why.
I spent my teens and 20's working through every kind of women and piece of ass I could find to see what exactly it was that I was truely looking for. I've been though good relationship, bad ones, boring ones, exciting ones.....all of it.
It all comes down to passion,support and comfort levels and the balance between the three. Passion doesn't always mean love in fact its usually what s it all up because people mistake passion for love. Real passion creates the comfort and if you have a woman that offers you the right support the three make for love.
All too often you have the passion which breeds dependency and she fails to offer you the support you truely need then presto the whole thing blows up and you're crying on you living room floor next to vomit caused by a bad combination of fear, loss and Jack Daniels.
Why?
Because you gave the woman way more value than you should have and its ripped at the very heart of your soul.
Stop giving credit and power where it really truely doesn't belong. A woman with no power is a woman who can't hurt you.
Everyone is pretty much telling you the same thing dude. There are years of experience that have gone through countless psycho es and congregated together here to tell you to get over the skank. Get your stuff back give here hers, maybe run through it one more time if you can handle it without getting all time of your life’d out, erase her number and stop answering her calls. Forget that one and move the F on.
Play Madden, play basketball, or World of Warcraft or whatever the you do and forget her. Go to the mall or the arcade or Malibu or wherever you 18yr olds go to find girls find one and give her the business. If it is at all possible for you to do this then don’t even exchange names.
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Leave out the love stuff and you nailed it. An 18 year old dude should think that love doesn't exist. Right now he needs to be brainwashed to believe that love was invented by Hallmark to sell Valentines day cards.
or just don't behave like your next girls property. you're also to blame.
I can't argue that but never count out love. Dude just needs to realized that pussy and particularly women shouldn't be given the keys to the vette until they know how to properly drive it.
Well from one married man to another. I think we both know that if we thought this way at 18 then our lives would be completely different. We would be more successful than we are now and our current relationships might possibly be better. Do I love my wife? yes! Would I have loved her at 18? Probably not. He needs to forget about love and not try to understand women right now. The only things he needs to figure out about women is how to snap that bra off with one hand in under a sec (yes I can). You and I need to grab a beer and shoot some darts. You seem like a decent guy.
Exactly. ing enjoy life before you have to fully donate it over to the other people that will ultimately have to depend on you for more.
I've just skimmed through this thread, but I'm a little surprised there's little to no female presence so far.
wow, i'm such a ing little spineless pussy...she called and what the to I do? answer the phone...she basically just told me what she's been texting me, but it's worse to actually hear it from her voice. I just took 12 steps backwards.
somebody please slap the out of me.
Tell her if you were really done like she said, she'd stop calling/texting you. Then hang up. Then don't answer her calls.
BacktoBasics, I'm not trying to gobble your nuts or anything, but you seem to have stuff pretty much figured out through experiencing and just using your brain on most stuff. I hope I have half your knowledge about this subject some day.
It was hard to do so, when she was pretty much guilt tripping me the whole time.
things i got from that conversation : i'm an inconsiderate asshole, i'm a dumbass who was trying to hide something
or so I'm told.
So tell her that if you're such an asshole-SOB-dumbass-pussy, why is she wasting her time on calling you constantly? Don't let her answer, just hang up the phone and be done with it.
You know the truth. If you're OK with that, then move on. If she's the one who refuses to stop calling you, then what does that make her for constantly calling/texting an asshole-SOB-you-get-the-idea?
Yeah, it'll bug you for a bit, but once you meet a woman you're interested in or vice versa, you'll likely be ready to move on for good.
When I broke up with my GF of five years right before the New Year, I nearly called her back about three weeks later to "see how she was doing." Well, that night, I didn't call her and I got invited for drinks by an attractive co-worker who showed interest in me and by the end of that night, I was past any reservations I had about myself for breaking up with my ex.
If your ex is still bothering you in an hour, then she's either hateful and wants to belittle you to her satisfaction or she wants to belittle you to the point that if she were to hook up with you again, she'd own you. If she wanted to be done, she'd have tossed your number.
You end it for her. Call her out for still contacting you, hang up and leave it.
That would be really easy if I had balls of steel like some of you fellas. Like I said before, it's hard for me to let something go.
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